The Pete Isaia Podcast

Today I am welcoming Renate de Koker back into the studio to discuss a rising issue in today's western social paradigm; the battle of the sexes. The conversation begins with the nature of perception, and instead of trying to convince others to see what we see, Renate proposes we bring perception back to the senses. Stop intellectualising, to start witnessing.We explore why women might crave the presence of a grounded masculine, and how deeper levels of relaxation can unlock creativity and spirituality. Pete shares insights from coaching couples in high conflict, reframing relational breakdown not as a matter of blame, but of responsibility. And finally, we address the scientific interface between mind, nervous system, and hormonal system. Proving the fascinating concept of how unprocessed stress, fear, and suppressed emotion can manifest as psychosomatic illness in the body.This episode is a deep inquiry into perception, challenging you to look inward first.JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠Work with PeteConnect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookConnect with Renate on Instagram

In this episode, I sit down with men’s coach, therapist, and co-founder of the Embodied Man Institute, Ryan Barraclough, for a deep conversation on purpose, rites of passage, psychedelics, leadership in intimate relationships, and why brotherhood may be the missing medicine for modern men.Ryan’s path began in adversity with severe asthma as a child, and later, the suicide of a close friend at 26 that forced him to confront his own mental and emotional health. That rupture led him away from the status quo and into the uncharted territory of men’s work, psychotherapy, and initiation.This is a conversation about reclaiming depth in a flawed culture that rewards performance over purpose - share this episode with someone you think will resonate! JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookApply for Private Mentorship Explore The Embodied Man Institute Connect with Ryan on Instagram

Today I have a wonderful conversation with Hollie Azzopardi, a published author, psychic, public speaker, wife and mother, with a passion for helping people shine. Hollie is truly a ray of sunshine, with a palpable energy you can sense throughout this episode. Drawing from the wisdom in her recent book, saying yes to you, Hollie gives an inspiring and digestible explanation of how to truly say yes to you. We consider the differences between being selfish, and putting yourself first in a “tall poppy syndrome” culture. And for the first time ever on this podcast, the end of this episode has a live psychic reading. Hollie taps into my energy and shares wisdom about possible future children, a house move, my health and business. For those of you interested in loving yourself, tune in!JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠APPLY FOR BREAK THROUGHConnect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching CONNECT WITH HOLLIE HEREInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollie_azzopardi/ Podcast: Soul Talk Order Hollie’s new book Saying Yes to You

This episode with Stuart Camps is the kind of esoteric conversation I love, where there isn't a beginning, middle or end. Stuart grew up in tribal New Guinea, and was committed to rock climbing in his younger years as a process of self understanding and exploration. He moved to California for 25 years to work with animals, where he was introduced to the concept of natural contemplation. He shares his vast experiences with animals: from inspiring horse training stories demonstrating how to relate to animals differently, to fascinating observations of herd dynamics. This episode offers a snapshot of Stuart's book, Lightning, thunder, cows as he shares deeply interesting spiritual concepts, masterfully told through a series of anecdotal tales from the wild.I hope you feel less fear, and more free, after you listen to this episode. I definitely did! Purchase Stuarts book Lightning, thunder, cows here. JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching

Jaguar Hart, a personal coach and founder of the School of Freedom, shares powerful insights on narcissism, relationship dynamics, and masculine virtues. He discusses the traits of narcissists and their impact on victims, emphasizing the importance of recognizing manipulative behaviors. Jaguar also explores the fusion of conscious and unconscious minds for personal growth and highlights how men can develop strength and virtue through challenges. Their conversation also debunks toxic masculinity and advocates for healthy relationship roles.

Today on The Pete Isaia Podcast, I sit down with the renowned high-performance coach Blake Thompson, whose expertise spans relationships, mindset, and lifestyle.Blake and I are both new fathers, which naturally led us into a powerful conversation about “doing the work” so our kids don’t have to.Together, we reflect on the abuse and dysfunction we experienced in our own families growing up and how those early wounds shaped our views on love, relationships, and parenting, and what it takes to break those cycles.Blake opens up about the deep healing journey he committed to before stepping into fatherhood, and how his partnership became a catalyst for transformation.This episode dives into generational trauma, abusive patterns, and addiction within the home, but also the possibility of rewriting your story and creating a healthier legacy for the next generation.JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching Connect with Blake: Work with Blake here Find Blake on Instagram 

In this episode a graduate of my SHADOWBOXING™ Mastery course, Vanessa, joins me in the studio to discuss a very taboo topic in our Western society; death. Having lost her father 10 years ago, Vanessa reveals some insightful truths about grief and expands on her relationship with death. And of course we consider the topic from a shadow work perspective, exploring what our relationship with death means and how it shapes our experiences. I also share stories from my time as a nurse, and the individuals I met that influenced my perspective of death and dying. This episode lovingly explores a topic often avoided, but it may hold some triggering conversations for some listeners. Please feel free to skip this episode. Share what you think of this episode in the comments 😄JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching Support Vanessa: On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goodchat.cards/?hl=en Or at: www.goodchatcards.com.au 

Today I welcome the wonderful Renate de Koker in the studio to share her wisdom on the Pete Isaia Podcast. Our conversation starts with the story of meeting on a sailing boat and the many conversations we shared while on night watch.Renate shares her wisdom about the innate healing power of Mother Nature, drawing from her lived experiences and ancient knowledge. She shares how trauma acts as stuck energy within the body, manifesting as physical symptoms holding us back from authenticity and healing. Together, we also look at how these ideas sit within our current political landscape, and why a healthy dose of scepticism is vital in today’s shifting world.This conversation is for anyone seeking to reconnect with nature, honour the body’s intelligence, and step closer to genuine healing.Let me know what you thought of this episode in the comments! JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching 

Jon opens up about going bankrupt twice, his health battles, and the personal shame that came with them. He shares how stepping away from business left him more lost than ever, and how it forced him to take a hard look inward. Through SHADOWBOXING™ Mastery, he began to see the parts of himself he used to be ashamed of, not just as problems, but as strengths that needed refining, not rejecting.In this episode we explore the dark side of perfectionism and the high cost of success, the hidden emotional weight of chronic illness and masculine stigma, how stillness, surfing, and shadow work opened the door to real self-acceptance, and finally, why so many high-achievers lose themselves without a mission - and how to rebuild one from within. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a creator, or someone navigating your own version of rock bottom, this episode is a testament to the power of introspection, purpose, and emotional courage.If you’re curious about SHADOWBOXING™ and the transformation it offers, Jon’s story is living proof of what’s possible when you stop running from your shadow, and learn to fight with it, not against it.Enjoyed this episode? Share with a friend! 😊JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching

This has been the most intelligent conversation about psychedelics I've had. Today on The Pete Isaia Podcast, I’m joined by Allie Ackland, a registered psychologist, clinical hypnotherapist, and published author with a deep interest in the integration phase of psychedelic work.Allie has sat with Amazonian tribes, studied the use of non-ordinary states for healing, and is trained in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy.We speak on legalising psychedelics, why good people must sometimes disregard bad laws, and the importance of integration, the often-missing link in modern psychedelic use. Allie’s book, The Psychedelic Integration Journal, offers a structured, accessible approach for those navigating these powerful experiences.This is a conversation for anyone who is interested in exploring psychedelics mindfully, responsibly, and in service of healing.A storm has slightly affected the quality of this audio, but the conversation was too valuable to discard! I hope you gain as much wisdom and knowledge as I did. JOIN THE SHADOW WORK ACADEMY ⁠⁠⚡️Connect with Pete on InstagramConnect with Pete on FacebookBook in for private coaching Connect with Allie at Healing Psychology here