Pure Desire Podcast

Josh was no stranger to the limelight as a worship leader and musician. But being caught with pornography was a type of exposure that wasn't invited. Yet it was the beginning of a journey toward true healing and freedom that ultimately impacted his entire family. Josh and Shawna Putnam share their story of healing, what they learned along the way, and the new ministry that it is fueling for both of them.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Josh’s Music (Spotify)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Pure Desire Online GroupsFASTER Scale (Free Tool)Recovery Tools: FASTER Scale (Pure Desire Podcast)Tools For Betrayal: FASTER Scale (Pure Desire Podcast) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr. Eddie Capparucci, a licensed professional counselor and author, discusses the transformative concept of reparenting the inner child. He delves into how childhood experiences shape adult behaviors and emotional health. The conversation emphasizes the power of nurturing the inner child to address unresolved trauma and build healthier relationships. Listeners explore the intersection of faith and psychology, the importance of community support in healing, and practical resources for emotional growth. Eddie's personal insights make this an engaging and thought-provoking discussion.

Our stories have incredible power. But why is that? What is it about sharing our stories that is so impactful? On today’s episode, we are joined by the founder of Stories Unveiled, Ashley Sears. Ashley helps us understand why stories are so powerful, how to find the courage to share them, and the healing stories carry for us all.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Stories Unveiled Conference (Ashley's Conference)Stories Unveiled Facebook PageStories Unveiled Instagram PageStories Of Healing: Asher & Ashley Sears (Podcast)Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr. Les Parrott, a clinical psychologist and bestselling author dedicated to helping couples strengthen their relationships, shares invaluable insights. He discusses how dating norms have evolved and the significance of personal health in marriage. Les explains the harmful effects of pornography on emotional intimacy and suggests careful disclosure of sexual history in relationships. He provides practical tools to improve sexual communication and emphasizes the paramount importance of close relationships for overall well-being.

Churches and volunteers passionate about Pure Desire Groups face a number of challenges when starting out. Today, Rodney Wright joins us to share best practices from his experience launching and maintaining a thriving Pure Desire Groups ministry. From preaching tips to managing group members from other churches to navigating a leadership team that isn’t open to a “recovery ministry,” this episode has it all.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist—CSAT (IITAP Certification)Pastoral Sexual Addiction Professional—PSAP (IITAP Certification)Pure Desire Summit (Event) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

As new research emerges and becomes mainstream, it’s important that our approach remains current. This is the heart behind the recent update to our resource for women, Betrayal & Beyond. In this episode, Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson share the “why” behind the update, they highlight the major changes (and what stayed the same), and who should go through this updated resource. RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & Beyond Kit—including NEW video companion (Women's Betrayal Resource)Betrayal & Beyond Online GroupsAPSATS A Partner Sensitive Approach To Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara Steffens (Podcast)Women's Takeover #1: Healing From Betrayal w/ Dr. Barbara SteffensUnraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Sexual Integrity 101 (Video Course)Connected (Marriage Resource)Group Leader Training (Video Course) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Pornography undermines every ministry in a local church. Sam Black, author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography And How To Fix It (GIVEAWAY IN SHOW NOTES), joins us to take an honest look at the harmful effects of ignoring unwanted sexual behavior in the church. This episode is packed with practical ways that churches can begin to meet the real need that exists within their congregations.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)FREE COPY of The Healing Church (First 50 get book for free)FREE Intro/Chapter 1 of The Healing ChurchCovenant Eyes (Accountability Software) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma have a profound impact on the brain. But the brain is amazing and can be rewired! Heather Kolb joins us for this episode with tips and tools for rewiring our brain sexually. We discuss why rewiring our brain after sexual addiction is uniquely challenging, how long we should expect this process to take, and who else should be involved.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Sexual Integrity 101GroupsSeven Pillars of Freedom (Resource For Struggling Men)Unraveled (Resource For Struggling Women)Betrayal & Beyond (Resource For Betrayed Women)FASTER Scale (Tool)Three Circles (Tool)Sobriety Plan (Tool)Blog On GratitudeGreat Sex Rescue (Sheila Wray Gregoire’s Book)Plucky (Accountability Software) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Launching Pure Desire groups at your church can feel intimidating at first. In this episode, we start a new series: Stories From The Church. Our first episode in this new series, we spoke with the team responsible for successfully implementing groups at Petra Church in Pennsylvania. We learned how they overcame some of the most common hurdles churches face, how they train and recruit leaders, and reflect on some of the success they’ve enjoyed over the years.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Pure Desire Summit Conquer SeriesSexual Integrity 101Conquer SeriesGroup Leader TrainingPure Desire Clinical ProgramLiving FreeUnraveled (Resource For Struggling Women)GroupsHow to Talk With Your Kids About SexBetrayal & Beyond (Resource For Betrayed Women)Church MembershipFearless Series (James Reeves) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Confidentiality is critically important in the group setting. So is protecting victims and vulnerable populations through mandatory reporting. On today’s episode, we talk with Rich Moore about how to strike a balance between confidentiality and mandated reporting, how to proactively protect the group, and the process of reporting if and when necessary. Finally, we explored the positive outcomes that mandated reporting can have on the people involved.SHOW NOTESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Group Leader TrainingChurch Law & TaxChild Welfare Information GatewayMemo of understandingStories of Healing: Rich Moore (Podcast Episode) GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.