Pain Free Birth

What happens when you’ve been told your body “can’t” birth vaginally… and then God writes a different story?In this episode, Karen sits down with Audrey Stinson, a mom of four, who went from believing she would never experience a vaginal birth to having not one, but two redemptive home births—the last being completely pain-free.Audrey vulnerably shares her journey through two cesareans, the heartbreak of feeling her body was “broken,” and the desperate prayers that led her to invite God fully into her birth story. With the support of her doula, a faith-filled mindset shift, and leaning deeply on God’s presence, Audrey discovered strength, redemption, and joy in birth that she never imagined possible.Tune in to hear:The limiting beliefs that often follow cesarean birth—and how faith can rewrite themHow prayer and preparation paved the way for a redemptive VBAC at homeThe integral role a doula played in supporting Audrey and empowering her husbandThe difference between “intensity” and “pain” in laborHow inviting God into every part of pregnancy and birth can transform the experienceAudrey’s pain-free birth story with her fourth baby and how she walked away with an even deeper faithUse code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HEREConnect with Audrey:IG: @faithful.laborConnect with Karen:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

In this episode, Karen sits down with Kendall Pattillo — a mom of two (with one on the way!), wife, follower of Christ, and graduate of the Pain Free Birth Doula Mastermind. Although she’s just beginning her doula career, Kendall has already supported a variety of powerful births: VBACs, hospital births, birth center births, and home births.Whether you’re a new doula searching for wisdom, a mom preparing for birth, or a partner curious about how doulas support families, this episode is full of encouragement, practical insights, and inspiration.Tune in to hear:Kendall’s calling into birth work and how God opened the doors for herThe powerful VBAC story she supported at her very first birth as a doulaWhy doulas are both servants and shields in the birth spacePractical doula tips — knee pads, birth stools, showers, and headphonesHow doulas enhance a partner’s role instead of replacing itLessons on presence, boundaries, and avoiding burnout as a new doulaThe confidence and tools Kendall gained through the Pain Free Birth Doula MastermindJoin the Doula Mastermind: https://painfreebirth.com/doula-mastermind/Connect with Kendall:IG: @everedendoulaservices @kendallpattilloWebsite: https://everedendoulaservices.com/Connect with Karen:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

What if walking into a hospital birth didn’t mean giving up your voice?In this powerful conversation, Meredith and Alicia from Intentional Birth share how to advocate for yourself in a hospital setting so you feel respected, informed, and truly in charge of your birth. From simple language shifts to knowing your legal rights, you’ll walk away with practical tools you—and your partner—can use to create a positive, empowering experience, no matter what unfolds.Tune in to hear:Why birth trauma is often less about what happened and more about how you were treatedThe difference between hospital policy and patient consent (and why policy does not override your rights)A simple 3-step framework (OWN IT) to decline procedures without confrontationThe role of your partner as the guardian of the birth—and how they can protect your spaceKey phrases that change the room instantly: “We do need her consent” and “Please document that I am declining ___”How to use the chain of command if you’re not being heard (charge nurse → nurse manager → house supervisor)“Secret menu” options in the hospital most families don’t know they can requestA real-life VBAC story where intentional advocacy led to a hospital water birth, minimal interventions, and an unhurried third stageJoin the Doula Mastermind: https://painfreebirth.com/doula-mastermind/Resources mentioned:5% discount on the Advocacy Trainings: Code: PAINFREEBIRTHIG:  @intentional.birthWebsite: www.intentionalbirth.coConnect with Karen:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

Have you ever felt a little nudge that maybe you were meant to support women in birth? Maybe you’re the one who stays up late watching birth videos, fascinated by how God designed the body, secretly dreaming of being in the room one day. If so, this episode was made for you.In today’s conversation, Karen pulls back the curtain on the realities of birth work — the beauty, the challenges, and the sacred calling of becoming a doula. She shares the struggles many doulas face, from burnout and being on-call to working in hospital systems that don’t always support women’s physiology. And she reminds us why women supporting women through life’s biggest transitions is not only historical, but biblical.Tune in to hear:Why the average doula career lasts only two years — and how to prevent burnoutThe surprising origin story of doulas and how their presence was “accidentally discovered” to improve birth outcomesThe missing rituals of modern maternity care — and why women are crying out for community againThe biggest challenges doulas face today (on-call life, finding clients, hospital politics, and more)What it truly means to protect a woman’s physiology, her power, and her voice in laborHow the vision of the Red Tent is reviving sacred sisterhood for doulas and birth workersJoin the Doula Mastermind: https://painfreebirth.com/doula-mastermind/Connect with Karen:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

What if the pushing phase of birth didn’t have to be painful, exhausting, or filled with strain?In this powerful episode, Erika shares her incredible birth story — from an unexpected pause in labor that gave her one more week to prepare, to the fast-moving labor that had her in transition before she even realized it. But the highlight came in the final moments: instead of force pushing, Erika learned to breathe her baby down, allowing her body to work with her baby for a gentle, peaceful birth.You’ll hear how faith, prayer, and intentional breathing transformed her experience — and how you can apply these same principles for your own birth. Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or hoping for a redemptive birth after trauma, this episode is filled with encouragement, practical tips, and the reminder that God cares deeply about your birth story.Tune in to hear:The emotional block Erika faced leading up to birth and how she overcame itThe miraculous “false labor” that gave her more time to prepareWhat it felt like to go from early labor to transition in the backseat of a truckHow she stayed focused and avoided negative self-talk in active laborThe exact breathing technique she used to “breathe baby down” instead of pushingWhy her postpartum recovery was so much easier this timeEncouragement for moms to release fear and trust God with their birth storiesResources & Links Mentioned:Pain Free Birth Course – Learn how to prepare physically, mentally, and spiritually for a peaceful, pain-free birth. Use code PODCAST to get $50 offBook: To Light Their Way  Connect with Karen:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

What happens when you’re told you’re infertile, exposed to toxic mold, living in constant stress—and still believe for a miracle?In this powerful episode, Karen sits down with Ashlee Rowland, a Christ-centered nutritionist and wellness educator from @simplholistic, to share her incredible journey from infertility and illness to a pain-free, breech homebirth—all while living in a mold-contaminated house.This is more than a birth story—it’s a testimony of God’s faithfulness, a lesson in trusting your intuition, and a raw look at the realities of anxiety, postpartum, and walking through the fire with Jesus by your side.Tune in to hear:How Ashlee went from infertility and autoimmune diagnoses to a thriving pregnancyThe jaw-dropping moment her midwife realized the “head” was actually something elseHow she delivered her frank breech baby in runner’s lunge with zero tearingWhy she didn’t feel pain, even during the ring of fireWhat it's like to live in toxic mold while pregnant—and still have a healthy babyHow God showed up in the chaos to bring peace, clarity, and strengthThe difference between anxiety and intuition (and how she learned to tell the two apart)Why postpartum spiritual warfare is real—and what helped her stand firmPractical tools Ashlee used to regulate her nervous system and heal emotionallyHow surrender, faith, and affirmations shaped her birth and postpartum experienceA powerful prayer for any mama walking through fear, anxiety, or hardshipUse code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HERE: https://painfreebirth.thrivecart.com/pain-free-birth/Try Lifewave x39 patches: https://lifewave.com/painfreebirth Check out Ashlee's courses:Naked HormonesHolistic Mold ProtocolHolistic Mold Protocol (Body)Holistic Mold Protocol (Home)Connect with Ashlee:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simplholistic/ Website: simplholistic.org CONNECT WITH KAREN:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

Have you been told VBAC is too risky?In this episode, Karen pulls back the curtain on the fear-based messaging surrounding VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) and delivers the real evidence every mom deserves to know. If you’ve ever been told VBAC is too risky, this episode is your permission slip to ask better questions, trust your intuition, and get truly informed before making one of the biggest decisions of your life.Tune in to hear:The real evidence behind VBAC success rates (hint: it’s not 15%!)Why so many OBs still quote 100-year-old beliefs about birthThe actual risk of uterine rupture—and what doctors aren’t telling youHow fear-based care is keeping women in the darkThe difference between relative risk and real riskThe risks of repeat C-sections that almost no one talks aboutWhat it means to get true informed consent5 powerful ways to prepare for a successful VBACWhy choosing the right provider is the #1 decision you’ll makeUse code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HEREGrab the Healing Birth Trauma Course HERE https://painfreebirth.com/healing-birth-trauma/VBAC Resources: -Birth by the Numbers -PubMed Views of Women From Countries With High VBAC Rates -EBB 113 - The Evidence on VBACCONNECT WITH KAREN:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

What happens when you walk into the hospital at 8.5 cm dilated… and still end up with a C-section?In this episode, Karen sits down with Carrie Coppins to unpack her journey from a traumatic first birth to a redemptive, healing home VBAC. Carrie vulnerably shares how her first birth left her feeling devastated, angry at her body—and even at God. But through therapy, faith, and deep preparation, she chose to believe for a different story with her second baby.This episode is for every woman who has ever doubted her body, grieved a birth that didn’t go as planned, or is preparing her heart for a VBAC. It’s a story of healing, hope, and holy redemption.Tune in to hear:What really happened when Carrie “stalled” at 9 cmHow birth trauma impacted her mental health and relationship with GodThe resources that helped her prepare for a VBAC (and the mindset shift she needed)What her OB told her about her “15% chance” of VBAC successThe stark contrast between OB and midwife careHer beautiful, redemptive home birth story (spoiler: her husband caught the baby!)Advice for VBAC moms navigating doubt, fear, and outside opinionsUse code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HEREGrab the Healing Birth Trauma Course HERE https://painfreebirth.com/healing-birth-trauma/Resources mentioned:VBAC book: https://amzn.to/4lu4bl5 Ina May's Guide to Childbirth: https://amzn.to/3TC8w9M VBAC Resources: -Birth by the Numbers -PubMed Views of Women From Countries With High VBAC Rates -EBB 113 - The Evidence on VBACCONNECT WITH KAREN:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

Can you really have a safe breech or twin birth at home? What if your OB told you yes?In this powerful episode, Karen sits down with Dr. Victoria Flores, a Southern California-based home birth obstetrician who specializes in breech and twin births. After decades inside the hospital system, Dr. Victoria made a radical shift—leaving behind a broken model to fully support women outside of it.From childhood, Victoria was fascinated by breech birth. But after 20+ years in the medical system, the soul-crushing grind took a toll on her health and spirit. Now, she’s taken the reins of Dr. Stuart Fischbein’s legendary practice and brings her unique intuition, deep knowledge, and unwavering belief in women’s bodies to every birth she attends.Tune in to hear:The spiritual and intuitive shift that led Dr. Victoria to leave hospital birth behindWhat she really sees inside the birth canal (hello, x-ray vision)Common myths vs. medical truth around breech birth safetyWhy head entrapment is often used to scare women out of vaginal breechThe #1 reason most OBs won’t support breech births—even if they canWhat qualifies someone as a good candidate for breech or twin home birthA shocking 11-hour wait between twin births A radical story of a triplet home birth you’ll never forgetConnect with Dr. Victoria: https://victoriamdbirthing.com/ Use code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HERECONNECT WITH KAREN:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in

In this episode, Karen sits down with holistic birth doula and mom of two, Lauren McEnulty, as she shares her incredible story of planning and executing a successful vaginal breech birth. Despite being pressured into a C-section by her original birth center and rejected by multiple providers, Lauren stayed true to her intuition and her baby’s needs.She shares the emotional and physical toll of trying everything to flip her baby—including spinning babies, acupuncture, and moxibustion—only to later discover that her baby’s short cord and positioning made flipping impossible. After being dismissed by her original providers, Lauren sought out a breech-trained midwife over an hour away and finally found someone who believed in her.This episode is a beautiful testimony of maternal instinct, perseverance, and the truth that women’s bodies are capable of birthing breech when supported by the right providers.Tune in to hear:How Lauren navigated the emotional and physical stress of learning her baby was breechWhat she tried to flip her baby naturally, including spinning babies, acupuncture, and moxibustionThe moment her providers gave up on her—and how she refused to give up on herselfHow she found a breech-trained midwife after being turned away by multiple birth centersThe powerful moment she discovered why her baby never flippedHer labor experience, from water breaking in a hotel to giving birth surrounded by supportA vivid, hands-off breech birth story that was calm, safe, and deeply affirmingHer advice to moms navigating a breech diagnosis and how to find the right providerConnect with Lauren:https://www.waves-doula-care.com/ Watch Lauren's birth video (TW: Graphic Content)Use code PODCAST to get $50 off the Pain Free Birth E-course HERECONNECT WITH KAREN:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/painfreebirthInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/painfreebirth/Spotify Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5zEiKMIHFewZeVdzfBSEMSApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pain-free-birth/id1696179731Website - https://painfreebirth.com/Email List https://pain-free-birth.mykajabi.com/website-opt-in