The Kevin Miller Podcast

Jen Fisher, a wellbeing expert who served as Deloitte US's first chief wellbeing officer and founded The Wellbeing Team. She recounts shifting identity from relentless production to being present. They discuss presence over productivity, redefining achievement without self-sacrifice, how small acts signal presence, resisting nonstop busyness driven by hopelessness, and leadership practices that build trust and care.

Lynne Twist, renowned humanitarian and author of The Soul of Money, shares how committing now shapes who you become. She discusses why commitment forges growth, how to turn pain into purpose, finding callings that pull rather than ego goals, and sustaining service with integrity and self-care. Short, urgent, and inspiring insights on living a life given to something larger than yourself.

I feel we are in an age of trust. A desire for trust, and a lot of distrust. Right now you are listening to this podcast. Outside of podcasts that are news or entertainment, I see people tuning in to listen to hosts that they look to for…trust. You would not be listening here and now if you did not have a level of trust in me. And I see this as good and bad. As of this recording I am headed to a podcast convention where they are inducting my Dad, Dan Miller, into the Podcast Hall of Fame. He’s being inducted by Dave Ramsey and my family and I are receiving it and I’m giving the acceptance speech. I’m incredibly honored. But Dave Ramsey. He’s a celebrity who got famous for his guidance on money. Today however he has massive trust from a huge audience who looks to him for guidance on about everything. And I see a cultural who is erroring on over-trust. And I feel it brings up the question of how much we trust ourselves. So in this episode I have Dr. Shadé Zahrai with me. Shadé is a behavioral researcher, peak performance educator, and leadership strategist for major global companies, with a PhD in organizational behavior. She is known for helping organizations and individuals build confidence and overcome self-doubt through practical strategies drawn from psychology and neuroscience. Shadé has a new book that compiles her findings, Big Trust: Rewire Self-Doubt, Find Your Confidence, And Fuel Success. She walks us through a proven framework of Acceptance, Agency, Autonomy, and Adaptability, and helps us reveal and reframe limiting beliefs, quiet imposter thoughts, and reclaim our inner strength. Whether you’re second guessing a big decision, overthinking in high-stakes moments, or feeling stuck despite knowing you’re capable of more, Shadé has developed practical steps that lead to powerful, lasting results. You can find Shadé at bigtrustbook.com and do a 12 question self-diagnostics on your level of trust and self-doubt. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a heartfelt conversation, Melody Beattie, renowned author and self-help pioneer, dives deep into the nuances of codependency, stemming from her classic work, Codependent No More. She discusses the importance of spiritual engagement in recovery and the stigma attached to codependency, reframing it as a natural human response to crises. Melody emphasizes the need for self-approval over external praise, the dangers of controlling behaviors, and the value of mindfulness. With her insights, she guides listeners toward healthier relationships and the joy of authentic living.

Maya Shankar, a cognitive scientist and author, discusses the psychology behind navigating unexpected change. She highlights how our anxiety around uncertainty often robs us of joy and fulfillment. Maya shares insights on the 'anvil drop' changes that dramatically reshape our lives and emphasizes the importance of holding identity flexibly. The conversation explores adapting to change, the significance of understanding our 'why,' and even how witnessing moral excellence can expand our horizons. Maya provides tools to help build resilience and embrace the journey of transformation.

Patrick Lencioni, a renowned business management author and team-performance expert, dives into the Six Types of Working Genius, offering insights into fulfilling work roles. He explains how understanding specific talents can alleviate workplace guilt and improve team dynamics. Patrick highlights the importance of recognizing strengths, embracing individual gifts, and delegating tasks effectively. He also emphasizes the difference between hobbies and vocations, aiming for personal alignment in career paths. Discover how to map tasks to talents for ultimate job satisfaction!

Cecily Mak, an author, investor, and founder passionate about helping others live freely, discusses illuminating life experiences without dimming. She shares insights on unhealthy behaviors that cloud clarity, distinguishing between healthy and unhealthy dimmers like overwork and compulsive habits. Cecily highlights the importance of intuition and how reclaiming agency can lead to genuine connection and presence. They also touch on cultural pressures against choosing clarity and the transformative power of being emotionally present.

In this enlightening conversation, Whitney Goodman, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of "Toxic Positivity," tackles the harmful effects of relentless positivity. She explains how immediate positivity can dismiss real emotions, causing shame. Whitney advocates for validating feelings to reduce depression and discusses healthy venting. She emphasizes the importance of sitting with difficult emotions, growing emotional vocabulary, and preparing for setbacks. Her insights challenge cultural norms around men’s emotions and encourage authentic connections.

In my experience, you can accomplish a lot of production by just working like a slave. Day in and day out. The world and most people will applaud you for it. But as I’ve stepped back from being a professional “doer” and given my attention to much more “being,” I’m realizing my fulfillment in life at large just increases. And my connection to myself, the world, and everyone keeps getting deeper. Further, I’m realizing that the lifestyles of the greatest minds I have been looking to for guidance, do not work like slaves. They do far less quantity of life, but in what I now value, have much more quality. So recently a book came across my desk about taking mini-retirements. At first glance I saw it as a tool to help you do literally that, take mini-retirements, or sabbaticals, from your work. But as I dug in, what I was drawn to most is how you must face your own identity and life values if you are not just working day in and day out. I found it all very, very revealing to help us ask, what are we doing, and why?! My guest and expert here is Jillian Johnsrud. Jillian is…not defined by her work. But inspired by the idea of sabbatical years, she set out to sprinkle retirements throughout her life. At 40, she has taken over a dozen mini-retirements. These allowed her to pursue dreams like living abroad, traveling to 27 countries, adopting four kids (plus two biological kids), investing in real estate, and touring the U.S. in a camper. She did this with her husband and kids and usually on less than $100k per year. Jillian has taught, coached, and wrote about mini-retirements for almost a decade. She has now written about her experience and insight in a new book, Retire Often: How anyone can take multiple career breaks to unlock adventure, advance their career, and find financial freedom. She hosts the Retire Often podcast and is a popular speaker and consultant for mini retirements. She lives in Montana, where she spends time in the garden drinking tea. Jillian’s book, Retire Often, is literally a manual for stepping away from work, no matter what you do, but as you’re about to hear, also addresses the philosophical questions that come into play. Find her at retireoften.com Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The ideas of time management and efficiency have never interested me much. I’ve always found them to feel constraining and tiring. But I also can’t claim I use my time as wisely as I could. In this episode we take some of our normal concepts of time to task and bring them into focus in accordance with what we actually value. My guest is Richie Norton and this was his second appearance on my podcast. Richie is one of these people who I find is an influencer to influencers. He’s been a very successful entrepreneur, but my experience is that everyone knows him as this huge light and source of energy and inspiration. His first book was, The Power of Starting Something Stupid, and this show is in regards to his second book, “Anti-Time Management: Reclaim Your Time and Revolutionize Your Results with the Power of Time Tipping.” What you’re about to hear is a very thoughtful conversation that begins with Richie observing that we as a culture have ever increasing full calendars, but emptier lives. The rest of the conversation is Richie’s guidance in how you can change that, right away. You can find Richie’s book, “Anti-Time Management: Reclaim Your Time and Revolutionize Your Results with the Power of Time Tipping” everywhere and his website is richienorton.com. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices