The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

We have all been rejected at one point in our lives, but each decides how to deal with it. Some deal with it focusing their attention on something else, others get depressed, and for some, it means to keep working towards their goals. Turn 10,000 no's into 10,001 chances just like today's guest Matthew Del Negro did; this is not only the number of times he was possibly rejected, but it's also the name of his book and podcast where the inspiration behind was his struggle to achieve success in acting, turning rejection into opportunities. Matthew sees each role as a challenge where he seeks a physical and emotional, and mental effort in every interpretation. In today's episode, we will hear about how he changed his life from being a great sports athlete to following the acting path. Get inspired and turn your failures into opportunities by listening to today's episode. ABOUT MATTHEW DEL NEGRO Matthew Del Negro is known for his pivotal roles on groundbreaking series like HBO's The Sopranos, Aaron Sorkin's The West Wing, Diablo Cody's The United States of Tara and Shonda Rhime's Scandal. In film, he can be seen in Taylor Sheridan's Wind River with Jeremy Renner and the Reese Witherspoon starrer, Hot Pursuit. His most recent string of roles includes series regulars on the 2nd Season of Amazon's Goliath, the Netflix comedy Huge in France and currently opposite Kevin Bacon and Aldis Hodge on Showtime’s City on a Hill. Matt is also the creator and host of the popular podcast on perseverance, 10,000 NOs, which led to a publishing deal with Wiley & Sons. His book, 10,000 NOs: How to Overcome Rejection on the Way to Your YES. CONNECT WITH MATTHEW Instagram: @mattydel Twitter: @MatthewDelNegro WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:35] Meet Matthew Del Negro. [4:19] From sports to acting. [8:37] What inspired Matthew to transition to acting. [15:33] Turning a passion into a job. [22:13] The UNcivilized Nation. [23:07] Three years to resign. [31:55] The philosophy behind 10,000 no's. [56:20] Where to find Matthew. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

In this completely raw and unedited podcast I dive into the Not All Men hashtag. More importantly I dive into the very real issue of male violence and what we as men can do to be part of the real solution. Please forgive any sound quality issues, this was recorded and uploaded immediately as it needs to be out in the world. Please share this if you find it valuable. And remember — let others be safe as you walk among them. Cheers, Traver

There are circumstances in our life that we simply cannot control, and cancer is one of them. Today's guest is Themer Abourayan, an exceptional coach for whom I have affection and appreciation. Themer is a fantastic man and an example of overcoming. A man with brutal honesty that you can appreciate in today's episode. We will hear his story of how he survived cancer as a very young person and learned to overcome his anxiety by facing his demons in loneliness. Get inspired by today's episode and face your emotions, fears, and demons. ABOUT THEMER ABOURAYAN About 10 years ago Themer was dealing with a severe anxiety disorder as a result of having had cancer and surviving. In his search for answers he started his path of spiritual and personal growth. This inner work never stopped and ran like a thread through his life since then. He decided to quit his job as an executive in a fast paced commercial environment of a tech scale-up after specialising in body awareness, intimacy, sexuality, conscious relating and polarity. Today Themer guides men and women to connect deeper to their masculine and feminine essence. Next to that Themer uses his past experience as a leader in business to help entrepreneurs to cultivate conscious and serving leadership in their start- and scale-ups. In February of this year, he also birthed his newest project, LUVR, which focuses on making support on healthy relationships and sexuality accessible to the masses. CONNECT WITH THEMER Website | www.themercoaching.com Instagram | @themerabourayan WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [1:47] Meet Themer. [4:47] Themer's journey. [6:53] A mind of 20 and a cancer diagnosis. [15:04] Navigating the world with terror over the shoulder. [19:50] What does it mean to 'Meet an emotion.' [25:17] The relationship with anxiety. [31:16] Themer's quote. [36:25] The willingness to step back. [52:39] Where to find Themer. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

An impressive transformation! Going from being an incredible athlete, having a promising hockey career to changing it for Kundalini yoga, and becoming a spiritual and physical guide. Today's guest is Ra Of Earth. Known for being an incredible athlete in the world of hockey and CrossFit, Ra made the transition of his life when he discovered Kundalini yoga. Ra, found a spirituality that has only grown over time, inspiring him to change his identity from Ronald Teasdale to become Ra Of Earth. In today's episode, we will know about this incredible character: Ra Of Earth, who, according to social media, is considered a mystical influencer and the "culprit" behind celebrities like Josh Brolin practicing #ButtHoleSunning. ABOUT RA OF EARTH: Ra's purpose in life is and always has been to bring teachings, awareness, expansion, and permission to people on these subject matters. CONNECT WITH RA: Website | raofearth.com Instagram | @ra_of_earth Twitter | @ra_of_earth WHAT YOU WILL HEAR: [1:53] Meet Ra Of Earth. [5:34] The transition from fitness to freedom. [10:46] Let confidence guide your future. [21:45] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [22:28] The inspiration behind Ra's name. [28:23] How Ra's past is affecting his present. [31:11] Ra's relationship with manhood. [42:44] Ra's personal practices. [48:52] Applying his philosophy of life in his day today. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Master the game of life and business and get ready to learn which buttons to press in order to win. Today's guest is Eric Siu, a gamer and CEO of the digital agency Single Grain. Also, he is the host of the massively popular podcast Marketing School and Growth Everywhere. In today's episode, Eric will share what it is like to live through a video game perspective, turning his life into a constant level up in his personal and business life. If you're interested in ramping up your marketing and sales tactics, this is your episode! ABOUT ERIC SIU Eric Siu is the CEO of content intelligence software ClickFlow, which helps you grow your traffic while looking like a genius. He also owns ad agency Single Grain and has worked with companies such as Amazon, Airbnb, Salesforce and Uber to acquire more customers. He hosts two podcasts: Marketing School with Neil Patel and Leveling Up, which combined have over 30 million downloads to date. He also speaks frequently around the world on marketing and SaaS.​ CONNECT WITH ERIC Linkedin | https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericosiu/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/ericosiu/?hl=en Twitter | https://twitter.com/ericosiu WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [0:38] Meet Eric Siu. [5:27] What does it mean to 'Level up the world.' [11:54] What inspires him to write his book "Leveling Up." [13:52] Eric's unique view about marketing and the business world. [14:33] Marketing mistakes people often make. [15:58] Defining 'Culture' and the importance of value matters. [18:46] Key ingredients to create a great culture. [21:12] Join the Uncivilized Nation. [24:38] How Eric turned Single Grain from a failing company to a digital marketing powerhouse [33:17] Eric's thoughts on the social media platforms degrowth. [47:15] Covid: how to approach the changes in the market to grow your business. [47:57] The things you need to look at before investing. [49:53] Where to find Eric. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Shame. Consent. Potential. In this solo conversation I dive into three of the areas of growth and exploration I benefited from as a member of the BDSM community. Each of them could be an episode on their own but these will give you insight into how to change your relationship, your sex life, and your view of the world. Enjoy! Traver

Society is so focused on labels that we label people as white or black, gay or straight, thin or fat, rich or poor, rather than humans from the moment they are born. The problem arises when instead of just being superficial physical characteristics, it becomes a definition of who you should be as a person. The moment you get out of the pattern of what that label entails, you become a threat to the established. Today's guest is Amir Odom, a person who breaks all labels. Amir decided not to try anymore and simply be himself after struggling to fit into the established black, gay, and conservative people standards. He is now a man who put aside what other people think about how he looks like, his race, sexual orientation, and political interests, and made his thoughts his identity. ABOUT AMIR ODOM He believes that everyone has the capability to become the best version of themselves. With a passion for self-development, new perspectives, and essentialism, it's his job to help people create the life they wish to live in. CONNECT WITH AMIR Website | https://amirodom.com/ Instagram | @amirxodom WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [2:02] Meet Amir Odom, a man who doesn't follow the mainstream. [9:01] Why are we so interested in labels as a community. [13:40] What differentiates white people from black people. [18:12] The tweet from the White House that started his career as a public speaker. [31:29] The most unexpected challenge and benefits or positive of speaking out. [38:22] As Amir navigates the opinions and death threats he receives on his social networks. [43:38] In the hot seat: Amir shares what he would do if he became the next United States president. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Being arrested, lived in federal prison, and finally get out of it and being in a better place to find out that his long-term girlfriend was cheating on him, this is the life-changing story of today's guest, Fabian Rodriguez. Fabian is a medicine man. He facilitates ceremonies in Peru and Mexico using medicinal herbs, and for today's episode, we will have a great conversation about Ayahuasca. Ayahuasca, an adored plant and at the same time feared by many, has been an essential tool for herbal ceremonies. Fabian will explain to us where this plant comes from. He will tell us in detail about the experiences people live in plant ceremonies and share his most personal experience. He will also tell us how he came to have contact with Ayahuasca and reached a point of total gratitude after being sentenced to prison for the crime of drug dealer and not having a close relationship with his daughter during those difficult times. ABOUT FABIAN RODRIGUEZ Fabian has been on his journey of service through sharing his life openly and guiding others through the means that have assisted him on his path of remembrance. As a father, artist, sound facilitator, physical trainer and ceremonialist, he has integrated these aspects of his human experience to create a unique holistic grounded lifestyle and perspective to living in today’s world. He shares his gifts and knowledge through hosting ceremonies through out the U.S. and working with plant medicines in the jungle’s of Peru. For further information and to find out more follow the links below. CONNECT WITH FABIAN Website: www.realizationnation.com Instagram: @realization_nation Facebook: realizationnation Email: info@realizationnation.com WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [1:43] Meet Fabian Rodriguez [6:00] "Life is a ceremony": Fabian describes the ceremony's meaning. [9:27] How to start seeing our lives as a ceremony. [15:52] What does 'Sacred' mean for Fabian. [18:25] Learning about 'Ayahuasca' and the misconceptions behind it. [22:51] Why you must follow a diet before drinking Ayahuasca [29:58] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [30:50] Fabian's introduction into Ayahuasca. [40:15] Fabian's prison experience and what he learned. [47:51] The reconnection of Fabian and his daughter. [52:06] Where to find Fabian. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more

The connection with nature has been something that humans have lost over time. For today's episode we will have Darren Silver a nature-connected coach; his job is to guide people to nature. Darren will explain to us the importance of the connection with nature in the life of the human being, how the vision quest are the tools to achieve this connection and we will delve into the meaning of this connection for men and women and their process. Get in touch with nature, find yourself and listen to today's episode to find your way. ABOUT DARREN SILVER Bio: Darren Silver, MA, is a rite of passage guide, Nature-Connected Coach, ceremonialist, and innovative educator. He has over a decade of experience working with ritual, wilderness living skills, and guiding transformational experiences residentially and internationally. A gifted storyteller and apprentice to the old myths, Darren weaves the power of the natural world, vision, and community in devotion to the remembrance of regenerative culture. CONNECT WITH DARREN Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/ds.silver/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [5:40] Meet Darren. [9:04] Darren's journey into nature-connected coaching and ceremonies. [11:03] Sharing the nature connection message of into the country. [13:27] What is a vision quest and is it value for men. [19:05] Why there's a lack of connection around nature. [22:53] Why culture is reflected in men and nature in women. [25:00] How men can create safety in the world. [27:57] Join the UNcivilized Nation. [30:12] The process of connecting with nature. [43:10] Connect with Darren. If you look at the civilized world and think, “no thank you,” then you should subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

Raise your hand if you’re a Nice Guy. When asked that five years ago, my hand shot straight up. Now, thank god, it stays down. If you’re tired of living someone else’s life, hiding from conflict, and praying that you go through life unnoticed, this episode is for you. If you’re tired of putting everyone else first and falling asleep exhausted but unsatisfied with your own life, this episode is for you. If you’re tired of wanting more out of life but being afraid to ask — this episode is for you. Your Nice Guy isn’t kind, strong, or in integrity — kill him and start living the life you were meant to live. Dive in, Traver