

HERself
Abby and Amy
As women and mothers of young children, it can be easy to compare ourselves to others. But your life isn't supposed to look like hers! Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. Are you wanting more ease in your marriage? Or more enjoyment as a parent? Are you looking for a strategy to the health challenges you have been facing recently? Do you feel like you have been staring at a stranger in the mirror since becoming a mother? Abby and Amy get vulnerable with topics around partnership, motherhood, health, and self improvement by interviewing authors, therapists, experts and everyday mothers. Our conversations will meet you with solutions and solidarity as you find a life path that feels aligned for you. If this sounds like you, hit play on your favorite episode title and make sure you're following the HERself podcast.
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Apr 26, 2021 • 35min
73. Mom Rage
Mom rage. It happens to most of us at one point or another and can feel debilitating and shameful. But you are not a bad mom. Let me repeat that… you are NOT a bad mom, you are simply a mom that is overworked and not getting your needs met.Like an iceberg, there is much more below the surface. In order to feel better as mothers, we need to get to the root of the issue instead of just focusing on the outward action.In this week’s episode, we break down where mom rage comes from and what we can do as parents to prevent it in the first place. You got this mama, you deserve to feel like yourself once again.More from DR. REAM hereLet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF WEBSITEHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYNEW Partner! Bloody Buddy Cup 10% off with code HERSELFBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount

Apr 19, 2021 • 42min
72. HERstory: Kat Herro on Her Infertility Journey and How to Support Others
In honor of National Infertility Awareness Week, Kat Herro joins us with her story and a message that feels like a warm hug. Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples and we know there are many members of our community who are in this special group. The tests and procedures can be a lot on a relationship and on a person and Kat goes into the details of her journey and where she and her family are at today.This is an episode for every woman out there. Kat has so many tangible takeaways on how we can best support ourselves going through this process or those we love if they are on an infertility journey. Thank you Kat for bringing your story to our community!FOR MORE SUPPORT: TTC SOCIETYLet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF WEBSITEHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYOur listeners receive 20% off at ThirdLoveClick here to visit Rothy’s

Apr 12, 2021 • 39min
71. HERself Expert: Dr. Ashurina Ream (PsychedMommy) on Body Image, Miscarriage, and Overcoming Overwhelm in Motherhood
Dr. Ashurina Ream (known as @psychedmommy everywhere) is back on the podcast today. Dr. Ream is a psychologist who is certified in perinatal mental health. We covered SO many important topics in this interview. We spent the first half of the podcast talking about body image- diving into specifics about why many women struggle with this and what you can do to start improving yours. Before focusing on perinatal mental health- Dr. Ream specialized in helping people with eating disorders- so she brought a ton of valuable insight into the conversation. We also cover miscarriage- something that SO many women go through, but a topic that isn't talked about often. Lastly, we finish up with the overwhelm of motherhood and what you can do about it. Hope you enjoy this episode- it was an incredible and important conversation. MEET DR. REAMLet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF WEBSITEHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYGoodr Sunglasses 15% off with code HERSELF

Apr 5, 2021 • 33min
70. Life's Big Transitions
In today's episode, we cover some of life's biggest transitions.Motherhood, job changes, and the transition into post-pandemic life. We talk about the ways that we've navigated these transitions- our stumbles and experiences. Just like in most episodes, we don't have the answers for you. But we do have some prompts that you can think about- including checking in with your OWN values to make sure your life feels in alignment. There is also some BIG news in this one- so you're not going to want to miss it.Let’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF WEBSITEHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount

Mar 29, 2021 • 38min
69. HERstory: Elicia Shepard on Closing the Gap Between Stay at Home Moms and Working Moms
Elicia Shepard joins the podcast again and brings a real take on her life as a stay-at-home mama. Her vulnerability with topics like isolation in the pandemic, sex and intimacy struggles in the early baby years, and finding purpose outside of motherhood were inspiring. This episode helps to build a bridge between mothers who work outside of the home and those who stay home with their children and we hope to continue to bridge this gap through conversations like this one.Thank you Elicia for your words and we hope you all enjoy the episode!MEET ELICIALet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYGoodr Sunglasses 15% off with code HERSELFBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount

Mar 22, 2021 • 28min
68. Editing Your Life
As women, there are many areas where we can edit our life to become the best version of ourselves. The little things we do on a daily basis can add up to big changes over time. We all know the heavy feeling of overconsuming thoughts and being pulled into an unhealthy obsession at times. Pairing that with a need for multitasking and it can be a recipe for disaster.Today we discuss a few strategies that have worked for us to combat overwhelm and feel more centered in life. We hope it can help prompt some solutions for you, too.Let’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount

Mar 15, 2021 • 51min
67. HERself Expert: Therapist Chasity Holcomb on Breaking Up with Mom Guilt and Letting Your Values Lead
Chasity from @momfully.you joins us on the podcast today. We dove into SO many important mom conversations. Chasity calls the link between self-care and mom guilt a "toxic relationship" and helps us understand why we need to make them break up and make sure we are caring for ourselves. She outlined what it looks like to operate from your values and achieve a "you do you" mentality. We dove into anxiety and how you can start to take anxiety's coat off. Many of the things covered are what mamas need to hear right now were covered and Chasity's information and delivery are like a big heart hug. You don't want to miss this one mamas! Xo. MEET CHASITYLet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBY

Mar 8, 2021 • 28min
66. Toxic Positivity
We live in a culture that loves positivity- people tend to value, respect, and admire it. But what happens if we're too positive? It can become toxic.If we start to suppress or talk ourselves out of any negative emotion we come across- we aren't allowing ourselves the full human experience. Today, we dive into a lot of details about toxic positivity- what it is and why it can be a problem. We chat about the ways that we're working through it and what has helped us on that journey.Let’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount

Mar 1, 2021 • 53min
65. HERself Expert: Cameron Rogers, Financial Advisor on Why Women Need a Seat at the Money and Investment Table When Money and Investments are Being Discussed
Today on the podcast we have financial advisor Cameron Rogers from @ellevest . This is an episode that you aren't going to want to miss. Cameron discusses everything from common financial mistakes that people make, to step 1 when it comes to investing, to whether you should be maxing out a 401K or investing elsewhere. This episode is jam-packed with investment information- and if you're thinking, "My husband handles our investments..." we made it with you in mind.The company she works for ( @ellevest ) is built by women, for women. They are on a mission- and along the way, providing free education like this podcast episode.Resources: Ellevest, NerdwalletPodcasts: Planet Money, Business Casual, WSJ What’s News), Daily Emails (Morning Brew, Robinhood Snacks, FinimizeCONTACT CAMERON at crogers@ellevest.comLet’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYGoodr Sunglasses 15% off with code HERSELF

Feb 22, 2021 • 29min
64. Yellow Flags
In this episode, we discuss yellow flags. We all have them. Those moments in time when you aren't feeling yourself- maybe you're less patient with your kiddos, you're quicker to anger with your partner, you're feeling overstimulated to the point that you need to put on headphones.This continues to be a challenging time for women- in a lot of ways. So many of us are feeling stretched thin and without our normal support nets.Today, we focus on how to recognize your yellow flags and reactions in order to change course OR figure out what you need more or less of.Oftentimes- you aren't an angry partner or an impatient mother- you are just not getting the support or care that YOU need to function your best.We're right there with you and honored to bring this important conversation to light today. Let’s connect!HERself PATREONHERSELF INSTAGRAMMEET AMY MEET ABBYBetterHelp Counselling 10% Discount


