Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson
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Nov 27, 2023 • 26min

EP 390: Relational Trauma Responses & Unhelpful Coping

You won’t want to miss this value packed episode where we discuss the four trauma responses and the unhelpful coping strategies associated with each. Inside this episode: -Which trauma response are associated with each attachment style -Understand which trauma response you relate with most -Learn what to do to begin to calm your nervous system. -A review of  the 4 F’s : Flight, Fight, Freeze, and Fawn This is your LAST CHANCE for the 4-4-4 Black Friday Sale! If you have been on the fence about the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, NOW is the time. From now until December 1st, you will receive a 400 dollar discount towards the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box (Only Available to the first 20 women to enroll in the program in November!) Don’t wait for 2024, start your healing journey today so you can go into the New Year feeling unstoppable: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 22, 2023 • 26min

EP 389: 7 Lessons Needed for Healing Disorganized Attachment

Today’s episode is near and dear to my heart, as someone who has struggled with disorganized attachment. In today’s show, we learn some of the specific growth areas for people with disorganized attachment, as well as gain a deeper understanding as to how this attachment style is developed. Inside of this episode: What is “Object Permanence” and how it relates to disorganized attachment style Fear of abandonment and how it plays out for disorganized attachment The co-morbid mental health conditions we see with this attachment style Aaaaaand so much more! PLUS!! We are officially celebrating 4 MILLION DOWNLOADS on this show.I could not have done it without you, this amazing community. As you may have noticed to commemorate this milestone, the podcast cover got a major glow-up, and so did the intro and outro music! Woooo-hooooo! And that’s not all, to express my gratitude to this community, we are continuing to offer the 4-4-4 Black Friday Sale! I am offering a limited time discount of 400 dollars off of the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box to the first 20 women to enroll in the program in November! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 20, 2023 • 59min

EP 388: Heal Your Heart & Your Bank Account with Special Guest, Allie Hall

Do you desire to cultivate greater self-compassion and regain control over your emotions? Are you seeking a solution that will empower you to heal from relational trauma? I have the answer you've been searching for. Join me as I share the key to achieving increased self-compassion and the ability to independently process your emotions, allowing you to embark on a transformative journey of healing and empowerment.My special guest today  is Allie Hall! Allie Hall, also known as the "Debt Free Nurse,"  is a nurse and money management expert based in North Carolina. With a mission to help women take control of their finances, Allie specializes in teaching core values and mindset shifts around money. Her unique approach empowers women to make financial decisions that align with their values, enabling them to say yes to what they love and confidently say no to what they don't. Allie's own journey through relational trauma and her subsequent healing process has given her valuable insights into the interconnectedness of relationships and money. Through her experiences and expertise, Allie brings a wealth of knowledge to the table, making her a valuable guest on the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast.“I realized that my opinion matters and seeking external validation doesn't compare to being proud of myself. Releasing the story that others' opinions matter more brought me back to my true self”. - Allie HallIn this episode, you will be able to:Hear Allie’s journey to freedom from past relational trauma, and  hear how she created a strong foundation for healthier and more fulfilling relationships.Learn self-soothing techniques that boost your sense of empowerment and help you navigate challenging emotions with grace and resilience.Overcome the relentless pursuit of perfectionism in your healing journey, embracing self-acceptance and growth instead.Gain an empowering approach to debt, helping you navigate the challenges and develop a plan to take control of your financial situation.You won’t want to miss this episode!! This month only we are celebrating 4 Million downloads on the podcast with a special offer for the listeners of this show! In celebration of 4 Million podcast downloads; I am offering a limited time discount of 400 dollars off of the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box to the first 20 women to enroll in the program in November! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 15, 2023 • 29min

EP 387: How Not to Get Back Together with Your Ex (Holiday Edition)

Oooof. Have you ever gone through a break-up right before the holiday season, and then you spend the holidays wanting to text your ex??Regardless if you have been through a recent break-up, or simply find yourself single during the holidays this year, this episode is for you. I walk you through everything you need for a dating “reset” so that you can wipe your emotional slate clean, and intentionally move forward in your dating life. Inside of this episode: I give you the seven tangible steps to take after a break-up that set you up for real healing.I talk you through common mindset blocks single people have.How to intentionally move through this time of year with love, grace, and peace.If you listened to this episode and you KNOW in your heart, you need more support, do not wait. Now is the best time to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program. We have an incredible discount, and a bonus gift package just for you, this month only. Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 13, 2023 • 31min

EP 386: 7 Lessons Needed for Healing Anxious Attachment

Okay okay, this one is gonna be a HUGE help to you if you have ever struggled with anxious attachment style. In today’s episode I am giving you SEVEN lessons the anxiously attached person needs to learn in order to heal, grow and welcome in securely attached love. Inside this episode I share seven lessons including: Learn how to self-soothe (practice turning inwards to self and being curious about your emotions) Notice self-critical / devaluing thoughts (and practice self-compassion instead) Practice assertive communication and expressing needs directly Develop self-care routines that include non-negotiables that you will maintain regardless of your relationship status Plus three other lessons you won’t want to miss!In celebration of 4 Million podcast downloads; I am offering a limited time discount of 400 dollars off of the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box to the first 20 women to enroll in the program in November! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 8, 2023 • 28min

EP 385: 9 Lessons Needed for Healing Avoidant Attachment

Today’s episode is a must listen if you yourself have avoidant attachment style, or if you have ever dated someone with avoidant attachment Inside of this episode I unveil the 9 Lessons anyone with avoidant attachment needs to learn: Rewire your brain to connect to yourselfLearning how to express and set boundariesLove is safe: I can be close and emotionally safe Choose Interdependence (not hyper independence) Vulnerability is strength (not weakness) Increase TRUST: I can depend on others, I can ask for what I need and it is heard Notice criticism of others Challenge your own inner Critic Seek securely attached partners I know this episode will be helpful to so many of you. If you saw yourself in this list, and you know you’re ready for healing, I want to encourage you to take action today. In celebration of 4 Million podcast downloads; I am offering a limited time discount of 400 dollars off of the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box to the first 20 women to enroll in the program in November! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 6, 2023 • 24min

EP 384: Trauma Bonding: What You Need to Know

We’ve all heard the term “trauma bond”    But what does it really mean?   Tune in to today’s episode for a deep dive on: What is a “trauma bond” The Factors that Make a Trauma Bond so hard to get over How to have compassion and Understanding and take back your power after an abusive relationship If you’ve ever had a toxic relationship, you need this episode.   This November  is our ONCE A YEAR Black Friday Offer!   In celebration of 4 Million Downloads, I am offering a special discount of 400 dollars off of the ESL program, and our Securely Attached Swag Gift Box!  Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Nov 1, 2023 • 49min

EP 383: Securely Attached with Myself, Confident, Single & Loving it with Special Guest, Miranda Kratzer

Miranda Kratzer, a graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, shares her journey from heartbreak to healing and the power of rewiring your brain for healthy love. She emphasizes changing the relationship with yourself first and highlights the importance of self-worth, setting boundaries, and prioritizing healing to attract healthy relationships.
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Oct 30, 2023 • 24min

EP 382: What to do When You Get Ghosted

Today’s episode is one that unfortunately, A LOT of people in the dating world will need.   It is your step by step guide on what to do if you experience getting ghosted.   Inside of this episode: I give you three steps on how to approach being ghosted (in a healthy way) Give you the mindset shift you need when this happens to you BONUS: I talk about cobwebbing (what it is and how to avoid it in your dating life) I know you will get some value insight out of this short but powerful episode.   Make sure you tune in, and DM me your takeaways on instagram @drmorgancoaching   NOW is the time to get off the dating rollercoaster and become securely attached for good. , I want to personally invite you to  join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program!   This October when you join you are helping me give back to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, a service I care deeply about.  Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Oct 25, 2023 • 23min

EP 381: 5 Reasons Why People Ghost

It’s halloween so I am thinking about something REALLY spooky in the dating scene…   GHOSTING.   If you’ve ever ghosted someone, or have been ghosted yourself, you need this episode.   Today’s episode will go over the 5 reasons WHY people ghost.   This is not to excuse the behavior, however, it does help to understand it.   Inside of this episode we explore the 5 reasons why ghosting happens in your dating life: Fear of Intimacy Insecure Attachment Communication Difficulties Conflict Avoidance ‘Options’ & Disposable Attitude Now is the time to get off the dating rollercoaster and become securely attached for good. , I want to personally invite you to  join the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program!   This October when you join you are helping me give back to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, a service I care deeply about.  Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program

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