

Relationship Advice
Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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May 1, 2024 • 38min
455: How To Deal With Anxiety And Overthinking
Former critical care nurse turned therapist Denise Schonwald discusses how to deal with anxiety and its physical impacts. Topics include interrupting anxiety patterns, supporting an anxious partner, and the manifestation of negative mental health patterns in the body.

Apr 24, 2024 • 45min
454: Shifting From Default Monogamous Relating
Dr. Joli Hamilton, relationship advice expert, discusses tips for successful non-monogamous relationships, navigating jealousy, and unpacking narratives around jealousy. They also explore transitioning from monogamous to non-traditional relationships and the importance of open communication in non-monogamous dynamics.

Apr 17, 2024 • 41min
453: Improve Your Mental Health, Improve Your Relationship
Loving someone better starts with loving ourselves better. Self awareness, understanding our childhood and being present are just some of the tools to help ourselves along this path. Listen to today's show to learn how to love ourselves and others better. In this episode with Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Mohammad we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Internal acceptance and the "I love you test"
How to increase your self esteem and self compassion
Tests and questions to help unpack the trauma we may have experienced as a child
What to do if your partner does not want to do the work to improve the relationship
The importance of leaving more space for pleasure in the relationship over performance and perfection
And much more!
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Apr 12, 2024 • 47min
[BONUS] Four Ways To Spark Your Relationship
Exciting Announcement: We're having a FLASH SALE on our online course, Spark My Relationship, ! Learn more and enroll here: SparkMyRelationship.com and use the code FLASH24 at checkout! Available until April 13th at midnight!Spark My Relationship is designed to infuse your life and relationship with fresh passion, skills and wisdom. This self-paced journey is perfect for turning up the heat, having some fun together and revolutionizing your intimacy and communication.We’ve collaborated with 15 psychologists and therapists to create a comprehensive relationship course that not only teaches you the skills needed to create a successful and lasting relationship, but the tools to execute it.In this episode, we interview Dr. Debra Campbell about four important ways to keep the spark alive in our relationship. What Dr. Deb teaches us in this episode is just a glimpse of what is covered in the course. 🙂Dr. Deb recommends some helpful and practical exercises to help our relationships improve in general happiness and in the bedroom. Here are just a couple of our favorites from the episode:
Look at your everyday life with your partner, outside of the bedroom, as foreplay.
This allows you to see, from a different perspective, how everything you do and say can help to build up to your next erotic connection with your partner. For example, if you are criticizing your partner during the day, they aren’t going to be easily turned on in the evening. This helps to keep your attention on making your partner feel good and can lead to better sex.
Figure out what turns you on.
By finding out what helps you transition into feeling intimate, you can talk to your partner and plan to make your next connection more pleasurable. This could be taking a bath, playing certain music – you could even make a special playlist, or setting your bedroom up with luxurious sheets and good lighting to help you get in the mood.
In this episode we also discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The importance of eliminating unhelpful old habits that can lead to friction and unhappiness
Healthy and successful communication tools
The biggest struggles couples have when reigniting their sex life, plus tips to spice things up
The importance of mindfulness to improve stress management
Why having shared dreams and desires can be so beneficial for celebrating our “couple culture” now and in the future.
And much more!
Dr Debra Campbell is a author, psychologist, university lecturer and couple therapists based in Melbourne Australia. Dr. Debra has consulted on everything from panic to depression, parenting, grief and relationships. Her book Lovelands has become an Amazon bestseller, combining self-help with the deeply personal memoir of a psychologist.Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples ChallengeDo you want to hear more on this topic? Do you want to learn more ways to spark your relationship? If so, you’re not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love TribeEpisode LinksDr. Debra’s WebsiteEpisode 68: Mindfulness and Emotional IntelligenceLovelands Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Apr 10, 2024 • 47min
452: How To Become More Securely Attached
Thais Gibson, an attachment theorist, discusses reprogramming attachment wounds, changing negative self-stories, meeting own needs for validation, setting realistic expectations, and processing feelings. The episode offers tools for healing attachment wounds, improving relationships, and enhancing communication and self-care.

Apr 3, 2024 • 49min
451: Improve Your Relationship By Asking Better Questions
Relationship expert Topaz Adizes discusses the importance of deep listening, avoiding binary questions, and asking meaningful questions to improve relationships. He shares specific questions to use for better conversations and insights, emphasizing the value of emotional connection and vulnerability. The podcast highlights the transformative power of authentic communication and the impact of thought-provoking questions on fostering empathy and deeper understanding in relationships.

Mar 27, 2024 • 42min
450: Fixing Common Relationship Issues
Kelli Miller, relationship expert, shares tips on reigniting love, handling social media impact, coping with different desires in relationships, and the importance of compromise and understanding. Practical insights to strengthen your bond with your partner.

Mar 20, 2024 • 51min
449: Keys To Building A Lifetime Of Love
Unfortunately, love and relationships don't necessarily come naturally to us. But that's ok! We can gain the tools and strategies to cultivate a life full of love and relationships that are fulfilling and healthy. Listen to today's show for amazing tips to start improving your relationship today. In this episode with Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Tools to understand ourselves so we can better relate with others through the love blueprint
Understanding the underlying meaning that we may be attaching to things our partner does
Specific tools and questions to get to know yourself and your partner on a deeper level
How bilateral stimulation with your eyes can literally widen your perspective and help you navigate conflict
How to let go of things when you're triggered or communicate with your partner if needed
Practices to cultivate love and compassion in your relationship
And much more!
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Mar 13, 2024 • 44min
448: Understanding Love, Personalities And Our Brain
If we better understand what makes us who we are, we can relate better and have more loving and fulfilling relationships. Listen to today's show to learn more about how our brain chemistry, personality types and evolution make us who we are and influence how we relate to others. In this episode with Dr. Helen Fisher we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding why we fall in love with specific personality types
How sex drive, romantic love and attachment influence our relationships
How are hormones influence our personalities and who we are attracted to
Why are decision making can be compromised in relationships and how to account for this issue
The importance of sometimes overlooking the negative in a relationship
And much more!
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Mar 6, 2024 • 50min
447: Building Better Communication, Compassion And Connection
Dr. Heather Browne, a relationship expert and guest on the I Do Podcast, shares her wisdom on effective communication and deepening connections. She explores how communication transcends mere words and emphasizes the importance of compassion during conversations. Heather also discusses the necessity of self-reflection before dialogues and how to cope when communication falters. Additionally, she highlights the significance of accepting partners as they are and creating a supportive environment to navigate emotional challenges and foster healing.


