

Church Disrupted
Jeff Cochran
Taking on church hurt and spiritual abuse one conversation at a time. If you’ve been hurt by the church, you’re not alone. Together, we can heal. Together, we can bring about change. It’s time to take a stand!
*Church Disrupted is a production of the Spiritual Abuse Institute. Learn more about our work at: https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/
*Church Disrupted is a production of the Spiritual Abuse Institute. Learn more about our work at: https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/
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Nov 25, 2024 • 2h 43min
59.5 EXPOSING Miracle Offerings & Church Money Manipulation Schemes to WATCH OUT For!!!
For this week's episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, we are re-airing our docu-style expose on miracle offering season (episode 13) in churches from 2023.
Miracle offering season in the mega-church ramps up every Fall as celebrity pastors and their churches manipulate people into giving millions of dollars in a single weekend. Under the guise of "missions" and "outreach," big churches scam people out of more money to expand their existing ministries, grow their revenue, and get even bigger.
In this video, we expose the common money manipulation tactics of churches and the playbook churches use to pull off miracle offerings every year. We also discuss the selling of miracles and the strategies toxic churches use to get church members to give sacrificially beyond what they can afford. We also arm you with questions to ask to know whether your church can be trusted financially and to help you know whether an offering is legit or a scam.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Miracle Offering Season
06:08 C3 Church Case Study
11:53 Manipulative Tactics in Miracle Offerings
18:04 Stories of Sacrificial Giving
24:09 The Broader Evangelical Landscape
41:31 Miracle Offering Season: Timing and Strategy
47:43 Subtle Manipulation: Elevation Church's Approach
53:28 Legacy and Generosity: The Church of the Highlands
01:01:17 The Pressure to Give: Guilt and Fear Tactics
01:21:24 The Role of Prayer in Church Offerings
01:27:34 Understanding the Prosperity Gospel
01:33:39 The Modern Church's Approach to Offerings
01:42:58 Biblical Theology of Offerings
01:49:39 Red Flags in Modern Church Offerings
02:02:51 The Financial Goals of Modern Churches
02:12:05 The Revenue and Assets of Mega Churches
02:22:28 Manipulative Money Systems in Church Offerings
02:30:39 Celebrity Preaching and Financial Scandals
02:41:20 Questions to Consider About Church Offerings

Nov 20, 2024 • 1h
059: Are People LEAVING The Church To FIND Jesus?!
In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran interviews author and pastor Tommy Preson Phillips about his new book "Invisible Jesus." They ask the question, what if people aren't deconstructing and leaving the church because they don't want Jesus? But what if they are leaving the church to find Him? This conversation will challenge what you think you know about the church, following Jesus, and the deconstruction movement. It's a can't miss conversation for Christians in the moment in time we find ourselves in today.
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Chapters
00:00 Intro
03:04 Deconstruction: A Prophetic Movement
05:57 The Role of Pastors in Deconstruction
08:50 Power Dynamics in the Church
12:12 Rummage Sale: Reassessing Church Practices
15:06 The Impact of Technology on Faith
18:02 Love as the Foundation of Faith
21:09 Navigating Differences in Beliefs
24:00 The Future of the Church: Embracing Change
30:34 Transformative Love and Acceptance
35:10 Navigating Differences in Faith
40:54 The Role of the Church: From Performance to Community
54:17 Deconstruction and the Journey Back to Faith

Nov 12, 2024 • 52min
058: Why Deconstructing Christianity is a GOOD THING for the Church
In this episode of the Church Disrupted podcast, host Jeff Cochran talks with author and theologian Scott McKnight about his new book 'Invisible Jesus.' They explore the concept of deconstruction within the church, discussing its prophetic nature and the reasons behind people seeking a more authentic connection with Jesus. The conversation emphasizes the importance of rebuilding trust in the church and understanding the painful journey many face during deconstruction. What if deconstruction is not merely a trend but a necessary process for many believers seeking truth and authenticity in their faith.
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Nov 11, 2024 • 2h 17min
057: How To Check For Church Red Flags BEFORE Visiting A Church
Navigating the journey to find a safe church after experiencing hurt can be daunting. Learn how to spot red flags by evaluating church governance and financial practices. The hosts review two mega churches, comparing their transparency and accountability. Discover essential questions to ask and indicators to look for, from leadership structures to sermon originality. This insightful discussion empowers listeners to assess church environments and ensure a supportive community for healing.

Oct 31, 2024 • 2h 5min
056: When Churches Act Like MOBSTERS To SILENCE Their Critics!!!
Arresting Dissenters, removing critics, threatening whistleblowers, and trying to silence critics and destroy their reputations. This sounds like mob-type behavior... but what if we told you this all describes large and well-known CHURCHES?!?
That's right, in unsafe and unhealthy churches, questions, criticism, and any allegations of sin and immoral behavior are met with bully tactics like these. While this is not the case at all churches, it should NOT be the case in ANY CHURCH.
In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran takes a look at concerning mob style behavior by four large church bodies in recent months. As well as how to recognize the red flags that lead up to this type of behavior.
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Chapters:
00:01 - When churches act like mobsters
02:53 - Fellowship Church & Pastor Ed Young ARRESTS film-maker and donor for asking financial questions.
29:13 - Immanuel Baptist Church Revises its BYLAWS to RESTRICT FREE SPEECH and SILENCE DETRACTORS.
37:21 - Troll Account Uses DECEASED MAN’S Obituary Picture on Account Used to Silence Detractors, Former Staff Members, and Former Congregants of Faith Promise Church.
57:22 - D.C. Area Mega Church With Celebrity Pastor ARRESTS and EXCOMMUNICATES Members Who Ask Questions!!!

Oct 22, 2024 • 1h 24min
055: Narcissism Expert Shares How to Recognize & Respond to Spiritual Narcissists
Chelsea Brooke Cole, a bestselling author and expert on narcissism, joins the discussion to unpack the complexities of narcissistic behavior in church settings. They explore the weaponization of forgiveness, stressing the importance of boundaries. Cole explains the DARVO technique—deny, attack, reverse victim and offender—highlighting its role in manipulative interactions. The conversation encourages listeners to recognize spiritual narcissism and provides strategies for healing and maintaining emotional well-being in toxic relationships.

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Oct 16, 2024 • 1h 33min
054: Tim Ross on Why Transparency is the ANTIDOTE to Church Scandals & Spiritual Abuse
Tim Ross, creator of the Basement podcast and the B-Side app, dives into the pressing need for transparency and accountability within the church. He discusses the troubling prevalence of scandals among pastors and advocates for vulnerability in leadership as a path to healing. Ross emphasizes that transparency, especially regarding finances, can combat the corporate culture that often stifles honesty. He challenges the notion of moral failure, calling for open discussions about failures and a transformative approach to church practices.

Oct 1, 2024 • 1h 50min
053: Unlearning Christianity: What if What We THINK We Know About Christianity is Keeping Us From Jesus?
In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran, Shawn Reece, and Corey Laster talk about how unlearning cultural Christianity can actually lead us closer to Jesus. But its definitely not easy!!! Unlearning the traditions and systems we have known comes with painful cognitive dissonance. This unlearning is painful but worth it. So, if you are brave enough to check your preconceived notions at the door, press play, and let's dive into this conversation together.
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Chapters
00:00 Unlearning Cultural Christianity
05:56 Cognitive Dissonance in Faith
12:03 The Nature of Church and Community
18:03 The Impact of Financial Structures on Ministry
24:14 The Evolution of Pastoral Roles
29:52 Redefining Church and Community Engagement
54:32 Understanding God's Love and Acceptance
58:34 Navigating Church Dynamics and Questions
01:00:02 The Role of Pastors and Church Staff
01:01:27 The Complexity of Theological Teachings
01:02:25 The Fear of Being Wrong in Teaching
01:04:49 The Misconception of Defending the Gospel
01:06:13 The Nuance of Paul's Teachings
01:08:05 The Prophetic Nature of Deconstruction
01:10:00 Rethinking Salvation and Baptism
01:12:48 The Importance of Discipleship
01:14:17 The Church's Response to Deconstruction
01:16:41 Creating Safe Spaces for Questions
01:18:33 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Understanding
01:20:54 The Importance of Different Perspectives
01:22:22 God's Sovereignty in Our Mistakes
01:24:18 The Fear of Man vs. Fear of God
01:26:35 The Foundation of Our Faith
01:28:27 Encouragement for Questioning Faith
01:30:18 The Journey of Faith and Certainty
01:32:11 The Importance of Solidifying Beliefs
01:34:37 The Need for Empathy in Faith Discussions
01:36:28 The Simplicity of Faith
01:38:49 Building on the Foundation of Christ
01:40:18 The Importance of Care in Building Faith
01:42:17 Remodeling Faith vs. Deconstructing
01:44:07 Encouragement for Big Questions in Faith

Sep 24, 2024 • 1h 31min
052: Re-Thinking Church In An Age Of Scandals, Consumerism, And Church Hurt
In this episode of the Church Disrupted podcast, host Jeff Cochran talks with pastor Melody Winderweedle about rethinking church structures and practices. They explore the early church's simplicity, the role of pastors, the importance of discipleship, and the impact of consumerism on modern church dynamics. Melody shares insights on creating gatherings that look more like the early church and emphasizes the need for community involvement in decision-making. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own church experiences and consider the potential for change within their communities.
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Chapters
00:00 Rethinking Church Structures
09:25 Exploring Early Church Practices
17:10 The Role of Pastors and Leadership
25:17 Discipleship: A Slow and Organic Process
33:21 Navigating Church Growth and Community
41:51 The Impact of Consumerism on Church
49:46 Creating Inclusive Gatherings
58:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragements

Sep 17, 2024 • 2h 7min
051: Exploring Growth Track & Why It Can Be Damaging to the Church
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion about the Growth Track model and its potentially damaging effects on genuine discipleship. Examine the contrast between early church practices and today's megachurch culture. The hosts explore the dangers of prioritizing institutional growth over authentic relationships within the church. They critique standardized assessments and the role of personality tests in spiritual growth, advocating for a return to meaningful community engagement and servanthood in leadership. It's a compelling call for reform in modern church practices!


