

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Headgum & Nicole Byer
Love and dating can be messy—so let’s talk about it! On this multi-award-winning podcast, comedian Nicole Byer explores romantic highs, lows, and all the juicy stuff in between, alongside comedians, experts, and sometimes an ex or two. New episodes every Friday!
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Aug 30, 2019 • 1h 7min
Problematic Issues of Porn (w/ Erika Lust)
"I would like to see films where women's pleasure is also in focus. Where it's important to the story that she is also having a good time."Erotic film director, screenwriter, and producer Erika Lust discusses the science behind what arouses us, the problematic issue behind "teen porn", porn's worst stereotypes, and her favorite porn bloopers. Plus, Nicole shares her ultimate porn fantasy.Why Wont You Date Me listeners get a free week trial of XConfessions! Sign up today at: https://xconfessions.com/special-offer-nicoleCheck out Erika's Ted Talk: "It's Time for Porn to Change": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 23, 2019 • 55min
Married at 20 (w/ Ron Funches)
Comedian and actor Ron Funches shares his experience of getting married at 20 and the challenges of re-entering the dating world. He discusses mistaking his girlfriend for a robot on Bumble, living in silence, and the impact of losing weight on his dating life.

Aug 16, 2019 • 1h 8min
Dating Dogs and Werewolfs (w/ Justin Simien)
"When he came, did he go AWOOO?"Justin Simien (Creator of Dear White People) joins Nicole to talk about the kinkiest thing he's ever done, teach her about gay "puppy-pack" arrangements, and Nicole shares a story about dating a werewolf.Plus, Nicole's dogs are eating her weed, and she expresses her thoughts on Logan Paul.Be sure to check out the new season of Dear White People on Netflix!You can play along and see Nicole's dating app profiles and photos on her Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 9, 2019 • 1h 1min
The Joy of Being Alone (w/ Ashley Nicole Black)
Ashley Nicole Black chats with Nicole about the joy of being alone, funny dating mishaps, entertaining anniversary date fantasies, and their love for Guy Fieri. They share hilarious stories of mix-ups in the entertainment industry, awkward dating app encounters, humorous conversations on racism and music, and dating red flags. The episode is filled with laughter and relatable experiences.

Aug 2, 2019 • 1h 8min
Power-Bottom (w/ Monique Heart)
Drag queen Monique Heart shares his experiences growing up in a religious environment, fear of STDs, and kinks. Nicole keeps walking in on friends having sex. They discuss crazy public places for intimacy and receiving threesome offers from fans.

Jul 26, 2019 • 51min
Making a Polyamorous Relationship Work (w/ DeRay Davis)
Actor DeRay Davis shares insights on living in a polyamorous relationship with 2 women, discussing respect, communication, and breaking stigma. Comedian Nicole Byer recounts a failed attempt to sleep with an audience member. They explore polyamory dynamics, boundaries, and challenges, along with humorous dating anecdotes and personal preferences.

Jul 19, 2019 • 1h 5min
A Boyfriend for Every Stage of your Life (w/ Jessica McKenna)
Jessica McKenna (Off Book podcast) has had a boyfriend in every stage of her life. She details the drama behind her middle school romance, to meeting boys in high school mock trial, and charming her current man with her Disneyland bathroom knowledge. Nicole shares a moment she had with a homeless man, and shares her story of sexual assault in public.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedyBuy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=9649See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 12, 2019 • 54min
Microdosing (w/ Johnny Pemberton)
"I thought I was going to die. I was actually laughing at the idea of living."Johnny Pemberton (22 Jump Street, Superstore) discusses taking LSD at Disneyland, and accidentally overdosing while trying to microdose. Meanwhile, Nicole's candy-flipping and wants to start microdosing shrooms.Plus, Nicole goes over some of her latest awkward dating app conversations, and Johnny suggests some new wild dating tips for Nicole to try out.You can play along and see Nicole's Tinder bio and photos on her Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/NicoleByerComedyBe sure to rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts. Leave a dirty comment for a chance have it read on-air.Follow Nicole Byer:Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdatesTwitter: @nicolebyerInstagram: @nicolebyerFacebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 5, 2019 • 59min
Nicole's Choice of Porn (w/ Ronnie Adrian)
Ronnie Adrian (Comedy Bang Bang, White Women) joins Nicole to discuss flirting struggles and bad date exits. Nicole shares her favorite porn. They talk about peeing on toilet seats. An entertaining and candid conversation on intimate topics.

Jun 28, 2019 • 1h
The Opposite of a Meet-Cute (w/ Alice Wetterlund)
Comedian Alice Wetterlund joins Nicole Byer to chat about Girl Code tour horrors, men who lie about dating celebs (we see you, Moby), and Alice's newfound interest in butt stuff. Plus, Nicole spills details on her new book deal!


