Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
You’re tired.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
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Oct 4, 2024 • 21min
Q & A with Chris 001| 425
Chris Hilken, a thoughtful leader and participant in a lively Q&A at a recent retreat, tackles some deep theological questions. He discusses hell as the absence of God and clarifies the significance of baptism, underscoring obedience to Christ. Gambling gets a nuanced take, as Chris balances permissibility with potential risks. He also explores humanity's desire to colonize space, interpreting it as a quest for knowledge rather than rebellion against God. The conversation takes intriguing turns, covering everything from smoking to the meaning of divine intent.
Oct 2, 2024 • 24min
Kaleb's Corner: Finding Jesus in the Wilderness of Your Soul 001 | 424
Pastor Kaleb Allen, focusing on spiritual wilderness, dives into the internal struggles many face, even when life looks successful from the outside. He discusses the journey of faith through active and passive nights inspired by St. John of the Cross, stressing reliance on God during challenging times. Kaleb illustrates how detachment from worldly comforts is crucial for spiritual growth. He encourages listeners to embrace their wilderness experiences, emphasizing that true joy comes from trusting God's presence, even amid feelings of abandonment.
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Sep 30, 2024 • 50min
How to Lead Your Marriage Like Christ Leads the Church|423
Explore the powerful call for husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church, embracing a sacrificial and servant-hearted approach. Hear transformative stories from a recent retreat that inspired men to grow together in faith and accountability. Delve into the spiritual dimensions of marriage, highlighting the importance of support and emotional connection. This discussion emphasizes that love in marriage reflects a deeper relationship with God, enriching both partners' lives.
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Sep 23, 2024 • 34min
How to Cut Distractions and Lead with Focus with Jerrad Lopes| 422
Discover how to navigate the chaos of parenting while being intentional in your relationships. Explore the importance of defining your mission and aligning daily activities with what truly matters. Learn how spiritual closeness and proper rest can enhance your role as a spouse and parent. Get excited about an upcoming community retreat designed to foster fellowship among fathers. Gain practical insights on saying no to distractions and focusing on meaningful connections.
Sep 16, 2024 • 34min
Faith, Identity,and Belonging for the Young Generation with Newt Crenshaw| 421
Newt Crenshaw, the president and CEO of Young Life, shares invaluable insights on building authentic relationships with young people. He discusses a study revealing Gen Z and Gen Alpha's yearning for connection and stability, especially with adults. Newt highlights the struggles adolescents face with social media and underscores the urgency of fostering resilience. He encourages parents to actively engage with their children, emphasizing the significance of 'open window moments' for deepening relationships and guiding faith journeys.
Sep 9, 2024 • 33min
Men Who Lead are Men Who Pray with Jerrad Lopes | 420
The discussion kicks off with exciting upcoming retreats and conferences aimed at empowering men in their roles as husbands and fathers. Listeners are invited to engage in a transformative guided prayer session, diving deep into the Lord's Prayer. Themes of adoration, submission, and forgiveness are explored, encouraging men to cultivate a routine of prayer. This practice fosters a stronger connection to God and an opportunity for personal reflection.
Sep 2, 2024 • 27min
Faith, Recovery and Fatherhood with Zach Williams| 419
Zach Williams, a Christian artist who transformed from a wild rocker to a devoted follower of Jesus, shares his profound journey of faith and the challenges of parenting in today's digital age. He emphasizes the importance of grace in raising children while recounting personal anecdotes that highlight the unique personalities of his kids. Zach introduces his new children's book, inspired by his song 'Less Like Me,' aiming to teach kids about the fruits of the spirit, and how to manage their emotions positively.
Aug 26, 2024 • 34min
How to Walk with a Grieving Child with Chris Hilken |418
Pastor Chris Hilken specializes in guiding children through grief and trauma. He emphasizes the necessity of preparing kids for loss, blending emotional support with faith-based teachings. The conversation dives into a structured approach called 'PREP' to help children articulate their feelings. Hilken discusses the importance of empathy, reassurance, and open dialogue, all while instilling hope in their journey through sorrow. He advocates for parents to navigate their own grief while remaining a solid pillar for their children.
Aug 19, 2024 • 29min
How Comfort Can Weaken Your Faith with Jarred Lopes| 417
Jerrad Lopes discusses the critical need to stay connected to God during good times. He highlights how complacency can creep in, using personal stories and biblical examples. The conversation touches on the emotional complexities of parenting and how milestones can spark spiritual introspection. Listeners are encouraged to rely on prayer, especially during life's transitions. The podcast also examines David's journey, revealing the perils of comfort and the importance of resilience and vigilance in faith, even when life feels prosperous.
Aug 12, 2024 • 1h 9min
Discipline and the Restoration of Joy in the Family with Douglas Wilson| 416
In this discussion, Pastor Douglas Wilson, a noted authority on family and education, tackles child-rearing and the importance of discipline. He argues for a holistic approach to parenting, emphasizing the need for parents to model joyful behavior and address children's emotions. Wilson also highlights the significance of 'keeping short accounts' in family dynamics and fostering a loving home environment. Additionally, he advocates for alternative education paths, like homeschooling, to align with family values while nurturing spiritual growth.
