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A caller asking how she can help her husband's performance anxiety issue. An email from a husband asking about the difference between telling your spouse vs asking. A wife is wondering if her perspective as the higher desire is wrong. On the Xtended version ... Indecisiveness in life and sex. Many people face it - how do you confront it better? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Indecisiveness #486 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Marni Feuerman joins me as we discuss the times when couples may need discernment counseling. What is it and how does it work? Learn more about Dr Marni at her site https://thetalkingsolution.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Marni and I continue the conversation by talking about the things we see in couples seeking our help that will get in the way of successful therapy. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box. The post Discernment Counseling #485 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a listener concerned about some of the guests we have on our show and the fact that their values may go against the values of SMR. A follow up on the topic of swallowing with an email from a listener who wants us to explore another aspect of oral sex. On the Xtended version ... Let's face it, it's hard to escape the world of guilt and shame when it comes to sex. Today we talk about how to address it in your life and marriage.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post I Still Feel Guilt and Shame #484 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Amy Killen joins me to discuss several of the myths that people face when it comes to aging and sex and sexual dysfunctions. Learn more about Dr Amy on her site - https://dramykillen.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Amy and I continue the conversation and move into the solutions that many people may not know about when it comes to addressing their sexual function. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at  https://intimately.us/ The post Sexual Dysfunction #483 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A voicemail from a wife who doesn't want to swallow, even when her husband is using the line "If you love me you'd be willing to do this." An email from a husband who found our new App Intimately Us (https://intimately.us) and his wife refuses to engage with the App along with him. On the Xtended version ... Negotiating sex in marriage - choreplay vs foreplay - and who are we at our core? We go deep this time in the XTD content. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at  https://intimately.us/ The post Swallowing #482 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Today Hilary Jacobs Hendel joins me to talk about her book It's Not Always Depression, and the Change Triangle. You can learn more about Hilary on her site https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/ On the Xtended version ... We continue the conversation with Hilary Jacobs Hendel and move into how the Change Triangle plays out in sex. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post The Change Triangle #481 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read more about it here https://intimately.us/ Today we talk with the man who helped us create this app, Dan Purcell. Learn more about Dan at https://getyourmarriageon.com/ On the Xtended version ... Pam and I have a conversation about the importance of novelty in marriage - and some ways you can add novelty that you may not think about. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at  https://intimately.us/ The post Intimately Us #480 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020. Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/ On the Xtended version ... Kathleen and I dive into the world of Bowen Systems Theory. Yes we geek out a little but it's a great way to understand what's going on in families. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy The post Everything Isn’t Terrible #479 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago.  A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around his sexuality and sex life with his wife. On the Xtended version ... A clarification from last week's XTD content. And a conversation about the main concepts taught by Schnarch and our understanding of them. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Power Plays #478 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with "I have needs." A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned over the past couple years is it because he's stopped viewing porn over that timeframe or is it because sex is only on his wife's terms. On the Xtended version ... We share a blog post from an author where he gives 8 steps to confront your wife's sexual refusal - and our reaction. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box. The post Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.