The Art of Love With Lucia
Lucia
Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!
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Mar 25, 2026 • 14min
7 Triggers That Make An Avoidant Break No Contact
If an avoidant dumped you, ghosted you or pulled away, this episode is for you. I'm going to break down the 7 triggers that make an avoidant break their silence and reach out. You'll learn what really makes them feel the loss, why they often come back after distance, and what causes them to finally confront their feelings.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram!#avoidantattachment #getexback #exback #getavoidantexback
Mar 18, 2026 • 9min
The 2 Exceptions To No Contact
A lot of breakup advice about no contact is either oversimplified or flat-out wrong.In this episode, I talk about why no contact is not right for every situation, why "respond so you don't look angry" is terrible advice, and the exceptions to no contact that most people don't know about.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #getexback #exback
Mar 11, 2026 • 10min
If They Were So Interested, Why Haven't They Texted?
If they were consistent and then pulled away, don't assume it means you ruined it or they don't care.In this video, I break down the "Silence Loop" (the emotions that keep people from reaching out) and what to do so you don't make things worse.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule #avoidantattachment
Mar 4, 2026 • 8min
When Avoidants Do THIS, They Expect YOU To Break First
When an avoidant goes silent, after they've ghosted or dumped you, sometimes they're waiting to see if you'll reach out first.In this video, ex back expert Lucia breaks down the subtle signs that an avoidant is watching from a distance and leaving the door slightly open - without ever saying it directly.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #exback #nocontact
Feb 25, 2026 • 7min
Your Ex Is Silent For A Reason (It's Not What You Think)
If your ex hasn't reached out, it doesn't always mean what you think. Most people misread the silence - and make things worse.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia breaks down what it actually signals and how to handle it without sabotaging your position.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram!#nocontact #exback #nocontactrule #getexback
Feb 19, 2026 • 10min
The ONE Person Avoidants NEVER Fully Let Go Of
Every avoidant has one person they can never fully let go of emotionally, no matter how much time has passed. Are you that person?In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the specific traits and circumstances that make you unforgettable to someone with an avoidant attachment style.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #exback #nocontact
Feb 11, 2026 • 10min
Taboo Ways To Make Avoidants Miss You
Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia walks you through taboo ways people unintentionally make avoidants miss them - by doing less instead of more.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#exback #avoidant #avoidantattachment #nocontact #nocontactrule
Feb 4, 2026 • 9min
Blocking An Avoidant Is The Worst Mistake You Could Make
Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want.Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire with avoidant attachment, what it does to their nervous system and the new rule you need to understand before you decide whether to block or not.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidNo Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #getexback #blockinganex
Jan 28, 2026 • 10min
Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants
When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #getexback
Jan 21, 2026 • 9min
Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires
Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while nothing changes, this episode is for you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #breakups #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule
