

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
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Nov 11, 2020 • 52min
Swinging Questions and STi in the lifestyle
We answer your questions about the swinging lifestyle, want to know what we think about balancing the swinging lifestyle? What our swinging spirit animal is or how we tell people what kinds of swingers we are... listen in
We spend a bit of time discussing sexually transmitted infections (STi) in swinging as one of our community members wanted to know more about how to have 'the talk'
The episode is finished by sharing some of the responses we had to a recent question on twitter "what have you explored since you joined the lifestyle"
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
References mentioned in this episode
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WHO Herpes Information
WebMD Herpes Information
CDC Herpes Information
Living with Herpes
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 23, 2020 • 44min
Swinging Spooktacular
Are you curious what happens at a swinging lifestyle Halloween party? Is Halloween your favorite swinging time of the year? Do you like fireball and dressing up? Have we got an episode for you
We recorded this live with our Patron community (Thank you legends!) and reminisced about our swinging Halloween mishaps over the years and shared some listener experiences as well.
We talk about the 3 golden rules to swinging Halloween outfits (thank you Kelly and Keith), how to make a killer (not literally) Fireball shot and why interactive costumes can get your laid. Join us for some silly fun as we sit at home and social distance the HELL out of this Halloween
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 15, 2020 • 50min
XTC Swinging Lifestyle Gangbang
Don't want the hassle of arranging your own swinging lifestyle gangbang? Would rather outsource your gangbang requirements to a 3rd party? You're not alone!
Today's bonus episode is an interview with Enrique from XTC_GBs in Sydney, Australia. Enrique talks to us about how he has been arranging gangbangs for the past 8 years and how he uses his 18 years swinging lifestyle experience to understand what both the men and the women are looking for.
Enrique will give you tips on arranging your own gangbang or what to look out for when you're selecting the men to go in your stable. This episode is a follow up from EP113 with our top tips to arranging a GB and we would love it if you could go check out that episode too.
Featured in this episode
Enrique from XTC_GBs
Catch him on Twitter
Connect with him on RedHotPie Australia
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 6, 2020 • 54min
The Game Of Lifestyle for Swinging Lifestyle Fun
Curious how to transition from Swinging Lifestyle dates to some sexy fun? Just want to know more about your dates or want to have some fun with your partner? We’ve been a big fan of swinging lifestyle games & on this special episode we play The Game Of Lifestyle for a bit of light-hearted fun.
You’ll learn a thing or two about how we like to engage in the swinging lifestyle, what turns us on or off & what role play we’ve done (or not)
A big thank you to our Patrons for joining us live to create this episode, it was so much fun to play this game
We finish up with some erotica from Darrell when asked the question ‘share a sexual swinging lifestyle fantasy’. There’s a classy alley, some fluid bonding and free hot wings on Wednesdays!
Featured in this episode
The Game Of Lifestyle
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 26, 2020 • 57min
Slutrepreneur with Rebekka Blue / AKA Ana Dee
Episode 114 – Slutrepreneur with Ana Dee AKA Rebekka Blue
What exactly is a Slutrepreneur? In this episode we sit down with the incredible Ana Dee, also known as Rebekka Blue, a self-confessed Slutrepreneur who has built multiple successful businesses by embracing sex positivity, entrepreneurship, and creativity.
Rebekka Blue (Ana Dee) shares her journey from working in the bubble room of a strip club to becoming a bold entrepreneur running multiple thriving e-commerce stores. As a proud Slutrepreneur, Rebekka Blue talks openly about how she monetised her personality, sexuality, and business mindset to build three successful online brands.
During this candid conversation, Ana Dee / Rebekka Blue explains how she built businesses like Alien Outfitters, The Horny Stoner, and Babes for Blades, while also launching the Slutrepreneur Podcast. Her story is one of empowerment, hustle, and redefining what it means to be a modern sex-positive entrepreneur.
We also explore the deeper meaning of being sex positive and what it means to embrace your own sexual journey. Rebekka Blue, known online as Ana Dee, shares how confidence, openness, and authenticity helped her transform her life and career.
Before the interview with Ana Dee (Rebekka Blue), we also chat about how COVID impacted the swinging lifestyle, how couples navigated dating and play during lockdowns, and the ways our community stayed connected while protecting each other.
Want to Learn More About Rebekka Blue (AKA Ana Dee)?
Our guest Ana Dee, also known as Rebekka Blue, has been featured in multiple international publications discussing her journey as an entrepreneur, OnlyFans creator, and self-confessed Slutrepreneur.
Check out these articles to learn more about Rebekka Blue / Ana Dee and her unconventional business journey.
• https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-make-money-online-onlyfans-creator-2023-2
• https://www.businessinsider.com/3-onlyfans-creators-on-how-they-achieved-financial-freedom-2023-4
• https://www.marca.com/en/lifestyle/celebrities/2022/06/24/62b6178cca4741ff298b45dd.html
• https://metro.co.uk/2022/06/22/woman-earns-thousands-a-month-selling-toenails-pants-and-even-spit-16871368/
• https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/woman-earns-8k-per-month-27302582
• https://www.buckinghamshirelive.com/news/uk-world-news/exotic-dancer-sold-burps-bag-7404713
• https://www.dailystar.co.uk/real-life/i-make-thousands-selling-toenail-29698928
• https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/25364865/only-fans-model-sells-toenails-earwax-spit/
• https://www.beat102103.com/editors-pick/model-and-influencer-who-makes-e45-by-selling-burps-in-a-bag-says-men-love-it-1825023
• https://nypost.com/2023/04/28/i-get-paid-to-burp-in-a-bag-now-im-a-millionaire/

Sep 14, 2020 • 59min
How To Arrange A Gangbang
Are you curious how a gangbang in the swinging lifestyle is created? Wanting to gather some tips for arranging a gangbang for your hotwife?
In today's episode we're sharing our 6 tips for arranging a gangbang, we run you through how to discuss the gangbang, setting expectations, vetting and plans for the evening.
Worried about creating a transition to play? We share a story on how D was curating a themed gangbang night which set up how the play would unfold.
In our latest swinging lifestyle podcast episode we share our 6 tips to arranging a GB; here’s a quick look ⠀
Why – Why are you wanting a Gangbang
What – What is it that you want to get out of this, what are your rules, boundaries and desires
Vetting – It’s time to run through our best practice ways to vett people with some hints on companies you can use
Logistics – How, what to plan for, what items are you going to need and why
On the night – what to expect on the night, how to transition to play
Aftercare – some tips on caring for yourself post GB Play ⠀ ⠀
These tips might seem a little over the top for you if you’ve had a GB before, you might be more of a fly by the seat of your pants couple and that’s totally cool! You do you (ya sexy thang), but in this episode we share how to curate a themed event
Mentioned in this episode
XTC Gangbang Sydney
The Playpen East Melbourne
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 7, 2020 • 56min
Sex Positive Australia and Adult Industry
Do you believe that your city / country is sex positive? In this bonus episode we debate how sex positive Australia really is and then we finish up with an interview with Jett Black who is responsible for promoting and supporting many sex positive adult entertainers.
We talk about growing up and the impact that sex positive (or lack of) resources have on us, our beliefs on why Australia is or isn't a sex positive country and how far away we are from being able to be 'out'.
Jett Black joins the podcast to talk about the adult entertainment industry in Australia, XAwards and Sweet Release Agency as well as his time being a sex worker from a young age and going from the boudoir to the boardroom.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Featured in this episode
Jett Black
XAwards Australia
Sweet Release Agency
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 1, 2020 • 60min
Swinger Transitions, Full Swap and MFM Dates
Have you ever wondered how swinging couples transition from a swingers date to sexy fun in the bedroom? What about when the full swap is exactly how you hoped it will turn out?
In today's episode we're sharing some of our recent experience with a slightly awkward transition we had on a swingers date.
We will also dig in to some recent sexy full swap with another couple, an MFM threesome date that didn't quite go to plan and finally Cate gets personal with something she's nervous to share!
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you'll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Naughty In Nawlins is now 11-15th November
Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel
Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle?
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Aug 13, 2020 • 1h 2min
Cliques in the Swinging Lifestyle
Do you remember the feeling of a clique during high school? Have you encountered a clique at a swinging lifestyle event or party and it left you thinking the party was a flop? Are you curious about how to manage cliques in swinging?
In today’s episode we explore the reality of cliques in the swinging lifestyle and breakdown their existence, what responsibilities the party hosts have to break down the barriers and how you can circumvent them so your next swingers event isn’t a flop.
This episode was recorded live for our Patreon members, come and join us for our next live podcast and play a Game Of Lifestyle with us.
Featured in this episode
Bed Hoppers Podcast
Mark Sexy
TB Texas
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us 28-30th August for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Naughty In Nawlins is now 11-15th November
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Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle?
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Jul 30, 2020 • 53min
Playboy Swing + SexEd with Wendy Miller
Ever watched an episode of Playboy Swing? Wendy Miller worked at Playboy TV for 7.5 years and produced numerous TV shows. She was the Vice President of Programming & Production and oversaw the well known Swingers TV show Playboy SWING.
We talk with Wendy about her time at Playboy, being sex positive in a corporate world, washing sex toys in an office sink, visiting a sex club in a shipping container, reducing shame and stigma of sexual desires in women & much more.
Wendy is the producer of Sex Ed The Musical with many hilarious episodes on being sex positive with jingles, we would love you to check out her show & read her blog.
Featured in this episode
Wendy Miller
Sex Ed The Musical + Instagram
Writing on Medium
Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel
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Naughty In Nawlins, August 2020 in New Orleans *** new dates now in August ***
Podcast-A-Palooza; October 2020 in Miami
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Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle? Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
xx
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.


