

Coaching Culture
Coaching Culture Podcast
A podcast for leaders and coaches sharing practical strategies and tools to build your team's culture and help you grow as a leader. Co-hosted by J.P. Nerbun and Nate Sanderson of TOC Culture Consulting, and Betsy Butterick. Get the podcast notes and learn more about us at tocculture.com
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Sep 12, 2021 • 28min
209 How to Overcome the Trap of Permissiveness
- The importance of focusing on solutions.
- How to establish a permissiveness approach in your program.
- How to hold players accountable while maintaining the coach-athlete relationship.
- How to use progressive consequences in your program.
Get the Transformational Discipline Toolbox by subscribing to our Newsletter buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Check Out Online Courses at https://thriveonchallenge.com/#courses
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
√ The Playing Time System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX

Sep 5, 2021 • 29min
208 Why Threats (Blaming, Shaming, and Yelling At Athletes) Aren't the Best Ways to Lead
- Is the way I’m coaching the best way to coach?
- How to discipline and motivate your players.
- How to build the character of your players.
- How to strengthen relationships.
- How to increase the inner motivation of your players.
Get the Transformational Discipline Toolbox by subscribing to our Newsletter buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Check Out Online Courses at https://thriveonchallenge.com/#courses
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
√ The Playing Time System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX

Aug 29, 2021 • 27min
207 How to Apply Positive Discipline Tools to Common Behavior Problems | Dr. Jane Nelsen Author of Positive Discipline Part 2
Dr. Jane Nelsen, a prominent author specializing in positive discipline strategies, delves into applying these techniques in sports and education. She emphasizes the necessity of connecting before correcting misbehavior, offering insights for handling athlete disruptions. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding mistaken behavior goals and advocates for positive approaches over punitive measures. Nelsen also explores the collaboration between parents and teachers to promote effective communication and emotional regulation strategies for youth.

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Aug 22, 2021 • 36min
206 The Alternative to Punishment and Permissiveness | Dr. Jane Nelsen Author of Positive Discipline Part 1
Dr. Jane Nelsen, author of Positive Discipline, discusses the alternative to punishment, 5 criteria of positive discipline, effective team meetings, and the importance of connecting before correcting. The podcast highlights the value of respectful consequences, weekly meetings for issue resolution, and empowering through guidance and curiosity questions.

Aug 15, 2021 • 35min
205 Three Ways to Transform the Parent & Coach Relationship | Guests Sean Keating, Nick Pocius, & Billy Armstrong
Special Guests:
Sean Keating @CoachKeating, Nick Pocius @nposh2117, & Billy Armstrong @CoachBArmstrong
Highlights
- How to Promote Your Culture Through Transparency.
- How to be Proactive in Your Communication with Parents.
- How to Get Parent's Buy-In and Trust with Effective Communication.
- How to Set Boundaries for Parents-Coach Meetings.
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com NSanderson@ThriveOnChallenge.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson

Aug 8, 2021 • 30min
204 Three Special Experiences You Can Create for Parents & Players | Guests Darren Douglas, Al Baker, & Tim Trendel
Special Guests:
Darren Douglas @CoachDougHoops, Al Baker @Coach_Al_Baker, & Tim Trendel @TTrendel
Highlights
- How to Create Opportunities for Parents to Experience the Team Culture.
- How to be More Transparent with Parents.
- How to Create a Family Type Atmosphere.
- How to Bring People Together to Connect on a Human Level and Not Just on the Athletic Sport Level.
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson

Aug 1, 2021 • 33min
203 Parents & Coaches Working Together to Support the Athlete Part 2 | Asia Mape
Special Guest: Asia Mape
Website: ILoveToWatchYouPlay.com
Twitter: @AsiaILTWYP
- The Challenges Facing Sports Parents Today
- The Line Between Supporting and Pressuring Athletes
- Consistently Reviewing Goals with Athletes
- When an Athlete Wants to Quit How Can We Support
- Nate’s 3 Asks of Parents
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson

Jul 25, 2021 • 33min
202 Improving the Parent-Coach Relationship Part 1 | Asia Mape
Guest: Asia Mape
Website: ilovetowatchyouplay.com
Twitter: @AsiaILTWYP
- Helping Parents Raise Happy, Healthy, and Successful Athletes
- Being Consistent in Your Communication with Parents
- Ways Coaches Help & Hurt the Coach-Parent Relationship
- Working with the “Entitled” Sports Parents
- Managing the Crazy Sports Parent
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson

Jul 18, 2021 • 30min
201 How Suns Head Coach Monty Williams Calls His Players Up Not Out with E.A.R.N.
- High level of communication to call a player up not call them out.
- Support players and help them change their behavior.
- How to be an effective communicator.
- The 7/35/55 rule in human communication.
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
√ The Captain's Council Leadership System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson

Jul 11, 2021 • 28min
200 Building a High-Level Team Culture | Barry Davis, Ph.D.
Guest: Barry Davis, Ph.D.
Website: www.drbarrydavis.com | www.barrydavis.co
Twitter: @barrydavis42
- Successful programs have common traits.
- The importance of leadership development
- The importance of delivering a constant message.
- High standards must be part of every program.
- The importance of you having a growth mindset and the people that you surround yourself with.
Learn more about our online course The Captain's Council Leadership System
Schedule a call with J.P. or Nate to discuss how we can support you! thriveonchallenge.com/schedule-a-call/
Learn more about the mentorship program: buff.ly/3bofckX
Check Out Our Other Online Courses at ThriveOnChallenge.com
√ The Competitive Cauldron Training and Spreadsheet
√ The Playing Time System
Podcast Notes PDFs buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Get FREE Practical Tools to Build Your Culture
√5 Ways to Eliminate Playing Time Issues √Culture and Leadership Guide PDF
√5 Ways Any Leader Can Improve their Culture PDF
√Culture Transformation Kit PDF
√Weekly Newsletter with Articles and Podcast Notes buff.ly/2KlPrsg
Emails jpnerbun@thriveonchallenge.com coachNsanderson@gmail.com
Twitter @jpnerbun@CoachNSanderson


