

The Attractive Man Podcast
Matt Artisan
The Attractive Man Podcast features the world's best dating coaches giving honest dating and relationship advice to help you live your most confident, successful, and attractive life.
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Apr 5, 2022 • 10min
How Shy Guys Can Attract Women Like Crazy (w/ Tripp Advice)
We're joined by Tripp Kramer from Tripp Advice where he shares his BEST advice for shy guys if they want to learn how to get a girlfriend. So many men are too shy to even try to learn how to get a girl in today's dating climate. Men seeking dating advice today all display a remarkable fear to approach women.. and we can't actually blame them.
With all that's happening on dating apps, social media and in real life, you'd think understanding how to get a girlfriend if you're shy is near IMPOSSIBLE. But its actually the opposite. Being shy or introverted actually gives you the advantage.
Matt Artisan and Jules Bia from The Attractive Man, are joined by Tripp Kramer from Tripp Advice in today's video teaching and speaking the truth related to how shy guys get the girl.
You'll learn: - how shy guys can attract women like crazy - how to get a girlfriend if you're shy - how to get a gf if you're introverted - simple techniques and methods to gain enough confidence to approach women - dating advice for nerdy guys and shy guys who aren't used to talking to women - how to talk to girls even if you're shy, but still get a positive response - the best dating advice for shy guys that doesn't involve manipulation or lying - how to attract women without being creepy - how to attract girls by overcoming and owning your shyness - many more!

Mar 31, 2022 • 17min
How to Get a Girlfriend When You Have A Busy Schedule
The most successful men often have the busiest schedules. In today's video, our team of elite coaches discuss how to get a girlfriend when you have a busy schedule!
Its usually mostly not just about time management. Multitasking may be the key, but most of all, having the guts to ask someout out over luch is also a must. That's just one piece of advice that will help you get a date and get a girlfriend even if you're entire day is booked. Tight schedules isn't a big problem for our clients anymore. There's a freedom that comes in knowing how to balance your life around your work, career, passions, AND relationships! Listen to the team, because this advice is a must-see for all the single men out there!

Feb 24, 2022 • 8min
The KIND of CONFIDENCE That's SEXY to Women (Hint: Don't be a Jerk!)
Matt shows you the RIGHT kind of confidence that women love and 2 Easy Ways to develop this kind of natural, attractive confidence. Yes, this kind of true confidence drives her wild - and no, it’s not that douchey alpha male jerk type. (The one you see stereotypical jocks and a-holes show).
It’s not a question that confidence is a woman’s best turn on. So-called “experts” repeat this all the time. But, did you know that certain types of “confidence” can actually hurt you in the long run and ever ruin your chances of ever feeling happy with yourself or in your relationships? In today’s video, Matt discusses the harmful effects of fake and pretend confidence that some men believe they have.
He also discusses how insecurities can lead men to think they have confidence when they truly don’t; and these are the kind of men who end up being complete jerks to others just to make themselves feel good. He’ll also show you his 2 Best tried and proven methods to develop the best kind of true confidence that women absolutely love.
The ones that drive women crazy for men with real and actual core confidence. This is the kind of confidence that doesn’t make you a jerk, it doesn’t focus on demeaning others, and best of all it shows you your honest and true personality - while increasing your true attraction!

Feb 17, 2022 • 7min
5 BEST Responses to her saying "I Have A Boyfriend!"
97% of Men freeze up when a girl says she has a boyfriend after they approach them. (Believe me, I’ve been there, too!)
Matt shares his best responses to the line “I have a boyfriend” so YOU don’t have to experience all that awkward silence when this situation arises. It’s inevitable. You will encounter this at least once in your lifetime when you go out approaching and meeting gorgeous women - some of them will have boyfriends or partners. Some of them who don’t have any, TEST you and say they have one.
This episode will help you know what to do or say whenever you get to this point - just make sure you don’t freeze in place!
You’ll learn:
- the best response to her saying I have a boyfriend
- how to talk to girls confidently when they have a boyfriend
- what to say to her if she says I have a boyfriend and its not going to work
- how to respond positively to rejection
- how to react and what to say if she rejects you and says she's taken
- what to do if you like a girl but she already has a boyfriend
- many more!

Jan 17, 2022 • 5min
What to do When a Guy Tries to STEAL Your Girl
The Attractive Man’s team of elite dating coaches meet up yet again to discuss one of the most requested topics from our viewers - “how to attract women when every guy in the room is trying to steal her!”
IThat’s actually a very common problem in the dating scene. Especially for guys who want to attract women or get a girlfriend by approaching them (instead of relying solely on “online dating” or dating apps). So today’s short - but concise and effective - dating advice will answer that problem.
Matt Artisan and the rest of our team of international dating coaches won’t simply help you master how to get a girl to like you, or how to flirt effortlessly so you can get a girlfriend. Our team will provide you with the knowledge and tools you need to become your very best - while still staying your true self. (You don’t have to drastically change your personality!)
In this episode you will learn:
- how to be attractive to women despite having competition around
- how to get a girl to notice you in a crowded place or a room full of people
- how to flirt and keep the conversation going after another man interrupts you
- how to deal with other men trying to steal your girl
- how to get a girl to like you over other men
- how to handle an awkward situation
- many more!

Jan 13, 2022 • 9min
HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS | What to Say to Her
Men haven't actually been taught how to talk to girls.. Sure, you think you've learned the formal way to talk to girls (being a gentleman who knows what to say to her and what not). But do you understand how to carry a conversation WHILE knowing how to get a girl to like you?
Almost every email and request I get involves a question related to how get a girl to like you, how to get a girlfriend, how to make a girl want you, and how to get a girl turned on.. Despite having literally multiple things to work on in order to answer these - I've found one thing that helps as a great first start: Conversation skills.
Most dating advice centers around how to talk to girls and how to flirt. You're thinking.. "Well talking involves so much preparation and memorization and adjusting and..." - STOP. Don't overthink it now!
If you've been with us for a while, you know that our channel focuses a lot on how to approach a girl and how to be confident. Having memorized thousands of one-liners or pickup lines or banter doesn't matter. Because that will end up with you faking your interaction.
Matt Artisan, our head coach and president of The Attractive Man team, will show you how to talk to girls the RIGHT WAY while being HONEST, AUTHENTIC, and NATURAL. (This means no more memorizing fake lines or routines!) In this video, you'll learn: -how to talk to girls the right way -how to attract women even if you're an introvert -how to be charismatic and confident with your conversation -how to talk to women without being creepy -how to approach girls and talk to them while being yourself -how to turn a girl on without being a jerk -how to talk to girls and make them like you without any manipulation -many more!

Jan 9, 2022 • 8min
3 BEST Ways to Make A Great First Impression (How to Get a Girl Like You)
Ever wanted to meet a girl and make the BEST possible impression on her when you meet and date? Reality is, first impressions always LAST. And you'd want to make an amazing first impression while being honest and genuine.. ..But how exactly would you do that? International Dating Coach and Expert, Matt Artisan, shows us the 3 BEST ways to make a great first impression, based on proven methods and research, and his decades worth of experience teaching men worldwide how to be the best, most attractive version of themselves.

Nov 11, 2021 • 10min
How to KISS Her (THIS turns her on!) | Kissing Tips for Men
Kissing advice and how to kiss her is a direct question I always get from my clients and viewers. That's quite understandable. Since learning how to kiss a girl was never taught in school. In this kissing tutorial video, I'm going to show you exactly how to kiss her in a way that will completely turn her on. She's going to keep thinking of you even after the kiss. She's going to want more and more. If you've done it right, a woman might even want to sleep with you. Learning how to turn her on using your kissing technique can be the game changer for you. Of course, you'll have to master the basics on how to kiss a girl, what comes after - well, watch the video to find out how to make that kiss your own!

Oct 26, 2021 • 5min
The Dark Side of Online Dating | #1 Tinder Mistake
Matt talks about the dark side of tinder, his #1 Tinder mistake, and an online dating tip that no other coach talks about.. Tinder has been a much talked about topic from our fans and clients. Online dating sites and online dating apps have dominated the dating scene lately, and its been giving men all the wrong ideas. International dating coach Matt Artisan explains to us why he doesn't recommend relying on dating apps too much. He'll show you how to build confidence the right way.. by focusing MORE on REAL, AUTHENTIC approaches rather than spending all day on your phone swiping on Tinder.

Oct 20, 2021 • 10min
Make EVERY interaction successful/You NEED to make her FEEL THIS (100% success rate)
You need to make her feel THIS if you want to make a girl fall for you.. And it isn't what you normally think you would have to do in order to make a girl want you. That is probably the number one reason why men mess up the date. Or mess up the relationship. Even mess up a perfectly good chance to make her say "yes" - because they fail to prioritize ONE thing: A woman's comfort.
Now hear me out. We're not simping or putting her on a pedestal. Listen to what I have to say in the video - because even if you have all the things in a womans checklist that you THINK matters (like looks, muscles, money or all that) but you CAN'T make a girl feel comfortable.. Then your chances will go from "incredible" to "never".
In this video, you'll discover:
- why women don't like certain dates
- how to know if a girl likes you
- how to make a girl want you
- how to make her comfortable
- how to have excellent interactions with women
- how to get a girlfriend
- how to turn her on
- how to not mess a date up
- how to not be creepy
- many more!
Visit www.theattractiveman.com for more info! Watch more of us over on our channel, The Attractive Man on YouTube.


