

The Attractive Man Podcast
Matt Artisan
The Attractive Man Podcast features the world's best dating coaches giving honest dating and relationship advice to help you live your most confident, successful, and attractive life.
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Dec 4, 2020 • 26min
15 Updated TEXTING RULES That Women Absolutely LOVE
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These are Matt's 15 Updated Texting Rules That Women Love! These 15 updated texting rules are tailored to today's social climate where women usually ghost you, ignore your text, or have a great initial reply and vibe; only to completely stop texting you at some point.
Ever experienced any of that? Then give this video a watch. These include the best texts to send a girl. And some of the worst texts to never send to women. Matt shares the texts that women love, and those that turn her on. These texting rules include the DO's and DONT's of how to text a girl this 2020. Because seriously, texting a girl CAN turn her off - it makes or breaks your chances of ever landing a date.
Were you ever needy or texting too much? Did you probably send a naughty text that made her hate you? Or did you NOT escalate enough and got her bored? We get these questions a lot. You see, texting a girl can be so complicated for most guys. In fact, I've met client's that overanalyze every single word they text a girl!

Nov 25, 2020 • 42min
How To Be Better in Bed, Be a Better Lover & Develop Your Masculine Focus (w/ Special Guest - Ruwan)
Learn how to last longer in bed and have better love making sessions. Get the FREE Arousal Control Secrets Course HERE: https://theattractiveman.com/arousal-control-secrets-course/
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Coach Matt Artisan talks with Jules Bia and special Guest Ruwan to discuss some great tips for men to last long in bed and be better partners to their girlfriends/wives!
Learn how to last longer in bed by following the team and Ruwan's tips for better love making! Men usually THINK they already know how to be better in bed, but you won't be here searching for some sex tips if every guy already knows, right?
Lets face it. Sex education really doesn't tell you how to be good in bed or how to make love with a woman better. The lessons on how to make love with a woman aren't taught in most schools, because sex advice and sex tips are usually taboo.
Guys end up searching how to have better sex in the internet... AND let me say this, watching p0rn isn't going to help you - because thats a show. It's fantasy, and it won't show you what ACTUALLY happens in REAL LIFE.
To know how to be better with sex, its best to seek sexuality advice from men with the knowledge, and experience. Mens sex tips that are quality and authentic are hard to come by. Matt and team talk with Ruwan and discuss how to last longer and have better foreplay - these are the most frequently asked questions when it comes to sex. Ruwan also shares his advice on his arousal control techniques, so you'll understand how to arouse women, master arousal control, and hopefully use that so you and your partner will have more satisfying love making sessions in bed!

Nov 16, 2020 • 25min
6 Ways To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To Women
Matt shares his 6 ways to keep the conversation going and never run out of things to say!
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In this episode Matt will show you the things to talk about with a woman to keep her interested and engaged. Stuff that can even turn her on while you talk to her! Plus some of the basic things to avoid that stop conversations.
Guys keep asking us about the things to talk about on a date.. they always seem to run out of stuff, and why is that? "How to keep the conversation going with a girl, Matt?" "What to talk about on a first date with a woman, Matt?" "How to never run out of things to say to a girl, Matt?" Men, the key to mastering how to never run out of things to say to a woman and finding the right conversation topics does NOT involve memorizing tons of lines or perfoming a variety of fake and cheesy routines.
This episode will explain that. You have to have things you are passionate about, things you experience. You have to know what you want, and have goals you are pursuing. You literally have to have a life outside of trying to impress her - don't simp, man!

Oct 22, 2020 • 22min
5 Ways To Turn Her On INSTANTLY (w/ Demo on YouTube!)
Matt shows you the 5 P's - 5 ways to turn her on instantly! Watch the VIDEO on YouTube to SEE the demonstration - https://youtu.be/BSPrrY8h5hk
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Matt shows you 5, weird, simple, yet powerful ways to turn a girl on instantly. And its quite easy to remember, because they all start with the letter P! In this video, you'll know -
1.) how to turn a girl on instantly
2.) ways to turn her on instantly without creeping her out
3.) how to turn a girl on physically
4.) how to turn a girl on psychologically
5.) how to turn a girl on mentally and emotionally
6.) how to turn her on without overstepping boundaries.
If you want to know more about how to turn women on, how to turn your girlfriend on, plus more examples of how to turn a woman on, like what turns women on when you're texting, touching, or talking to her, then check out the other videos on our channel. We also have content on what to say to women, how to attract women honestly, how to attract a girl online, how to flirt using apps and online messaging, as well as some flirting advice from our female coaches.
#honestadvice #turnagirlon #howtoattractwomen

Sep 14, 2020 • 16min
7 Texts/Messages that you should NEVER SEND Women (w/ Coach Renee Slansky)
THESE are the 7 texts you should NEVER send to women!
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You've finally gotten her number, and you start rampantly texting her. But, she doesn't reply?! Or, she starts to give you the cold shoulder. Or, worse, relegates you to the dreaded friend zone with a "I really like you as a friend text". Could it be you've sent one of these 7 texts and damaged your chances forever? Our Wing Girl Renee is back with her 7 Things you should NEVER text a woman.
These 7 texts will definitely turn her off! Let Renee help you banish these dreaded texts from your conversation arsenal. Renee also shares what you should text a girl instead. Starting a conversation via text can be a great way to break the ice and get to know someone, and Renee will help you learn the do's and don't of texting. Avoid these texts, and follow her advise to get better in your text game.
You'll discover what to text her, (what to text a girl) How to text her, (how to text a girl) When to text her, (when to text a girl) and how to turn her on through text! (how to turn women on through texting!) If you know what NOT to text a girl, then you'd have to learn what to text her to turn her on, too! Watch our other videos and stay subscribed to our YouTube channel, because we have more text videos coming out soon!

Sep 1, 2020 • 8min
6 Simple and Easy Ways to Enhance Your Look and Style
We've said in this channel that it's not ALL about the looks or money. But that doesn't mean you have permission to look like a bum all the time! Our fashion guru, Leavehi, will tell you how to look better in just 6 simple steps!
Don't worry - you don't need loads of cash for this, it's about upping your fashion game and looking confident inside and out! Because when you're confident in what you're wearing, you'll be guaranteed to become better at approaching women...
Take note that men with confidence always look better in the eyes of women compared to guys who are shy and timid. Leavehi will show you how to look good in what you wear. How to be comfortable with clothes that suit your personality.
And how to carry yourself to have more energy and confidence. You see, knowing how to look better is not about buying all the expensive brands. Learning how to look attractive doesn't necessarily require you to have the best genes.
This video is all about upping your game, inside and out! Because when you look good, you feel good!

Aug 30, 2020 • 1h 1min
Using INSTAGRAM and TINDER to Get Dates (w/ Coach Kal and Lynn)
This is how to use Tinder & Instagram to Get More Dates! Head Coach Matt with our texting coach Kal, and online dating consultation coach Lynn, show you how to optimize your dating apps and dating profiles to help you get the date with the women you like on Tinder and on Social Media!
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If you're wondering how to use dating apps like Tinder, then this video might help you out! Lynn and Kal, our online dating coaching experts help you learn how to get matches on tinder by using your Instagram! Social media has been existing for some time now, so are dating apps.
So much that guys are already searching for tinder tips MORE than dating advice and tips! The key to get more matches tinder lies on your profile and pictures - thats what all the videos about tinder say.
BUT..how do you do that? What photos should be there? What stuff should you share?
And.. is it a good idea to link your Instagram to your Tinder profile? Apparently, Kal says it helps a lot. While Lynn has her own advice on how to use social media in conjuction with Dating apps like Tinder. Lynn explains how tinder dating shouldn't be that complicated and that it might be a numbers game, and that if men want to understand how to get girls, they have to know how to tap into that emotional trigger, as well as get a woman's attention with their profile.
Standing out is the main reason guys win at how to get girls on tinder. All our tinder tips and tinder dating podcast episodes focus on that. When it comes online dating, coach Lynn and Kal have all the experience and knowledge on how to date online and get dates. Yes - actual physical dates with women. Want us to train you on how to approach the women you love?

Aug 26, 2020 • 8min
Going BALD? Confidence Problems with THINNING? I Tried All These and It Helped..
If you’re losing hair, going bald, thinning your hair and it’s freaking you out and you’re desperately looking for a solution.. Then don’t worry. Matt's got your back. He's literally tried it all… And finally found what works!
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Male pattern baldness, or having thinning hair problems is no joke. For most men, this can deal a serious blow to their confidence. I mean, who doesn't feel insecure when they've got a huge bald spot on their head? Only a few can truly pull off a great bald look like Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson or Will Smith. You name it, Matt's done it: Drugs. Shampoos. Micropigmentation (wtf?) Rogaine. Even hair transplants. So before you go out and spend a ton of money to keep from going bald... Watch this video to learn how Matt spends less than $10/mo for a full head of hair!

Aug 17, 2020 • 37min
What IS Seduction? | PickUp vs. Seduction w/ Zan Perrion
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We're joined by Zan Perrion, one of the best seduction coaches out there and one of Jules inspirations to find purpose in teaching men the joy of approaching and interacting with women naturally. In today's episode, Zan shares his life story on how he became who he is now, and he and Jules explain Pickup vs. Seduction.
Pickup is different from Seduction. There are principles to seduction while there are "tricks" in pickup. Thinking in a deeper perspective when mastering attraction and seduction means you will have the internal, natural flow of social interactions rather than the "pull something out from your bag of tricks and illusions" style in pickup.
Men have to understand that being attractive does not require you to put up some kind of act or performance in front of women. Listen to Zan and Jules stories and lessons on why you shouldn't be the dancing monkey in front of women. Why giving value is more important than showcasing lines or routines that are memorized and flat. While pickup might work for some initially, having a fake persona (not being the true you) will leave a bad taste in your mouth. Also, women can smell a fake person - and being fake? That's highly unattractive, man!

Jul 28, 2020 • 20min
The #1 Thing Men ALWAYS Miss Out When it Comes to ATTRACTING WOMEN
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We're joined by Zan Perrion, one of the best seduction coaches out there and one of Jules inspirations to find purpose in teaching men the joy of appraoching and interacting with women naturally. They talk about the #1 thing that man always miss out when it comes to attracting women.
Men miss out on a lot of things. No worries, even our best coaches, at sometime in their lives, missed out on this one too. Its natural to have differences and its okay to not know these things. SInce these were never taught to you or you probable never experienced the same to have you understand how it works.
Seduction and Attraction isn't that complicated. It shouldnt be! It should come out naturally. However, because we're so disassociated with our natural sexual urges, and we tend to focus more on distractions rather than what our body reacts to, we have confused our mind and our psyche to feel wrong when it should be feeling right. Zan and our team discuss this on todays episode!


