The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

In this episode, you’ll learn:How to talk with kids about tricky topics likeWhy they were relinquished for adoptionWhy they can’t see their familyWhy their family doesn’t want to see themWhy their family has gone on to have a new familyResources mentioned in this podcast:Marcella’s new podcast! Adoptees DishListen on SpotifyFollow on InstagramRobyn’s podcast series on memoryhttps://robyngobbel.com/traumamemorybehavior/https://robyngobbel.com/mentalmodels/Robyn’s eBook and video series on memoryhttps://robyngobbel.com/course/traumamemorybehaviors/Read a summary or the full transcript at: https://robyngobbel.com/adoptiontruthConnect with Marcella here:https://marcellamoslow.comOn Instagram at @marcellamoslowWe've rolled out the red carpet just for you!!! If you're looking for more tools, more strategies, more understanding, and more community (not to mention, growing your owl brain so you can actually USE the tools and strategies you learn) come join us in The Club! We're welcoming in new members until Friday!CLICK HERE! ---> RobynGobbel.com/TheClub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

Discover the vital distinction between influencing behavior and controlling it. The discussion highlights how parents can navigate their responsibilities without falling into the trap of blame. Learn about the impact of attachment on child behavior and how to foster self-compassion as a caregiver. Unravel the complexities of emotional management to create healthier relationships, supporting your child's development while addressing those baffling behaviors.

We talk about ‘being with’ our kids and each other and our clients.But what does it mean to be with?And why is it important?In this episode, you’ll learn:What it means to 'be with'Why it mattersWhat is require to be withThe role of 'tools' in being withRead a summary or the full transcript at:robyngobbel.com/beingwithkidsWe've rolled out the red carpet just for you!!! If you're looking for more tools, more strategies, more understanding, and more community (not to mention, growing your owl brain so you can actually USE the tools and strategies you learn) come join us in The Club! We're welcoming in new members until Friday!CLICK HERE! ---> RobynGobbel.com/TheClub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

Explore the emotional rollercoaster of loving someone with a neuroimmune condition. Discover the unique challenges caregivers face, especially during health crises like COVID-19. The discussion highlights feelings of isolation and the importance of understanding and validation. Gain insight into navigating complex relationships affected by these conditions, and how shared trauma can create deep connections. Personal stories illuminate the need for ongoing healing and support in fostering better familial bonds.

Dive into the complexities of neuroimmune conditions as a husband shares his personal battles with a fragile nervous system. Discover what children facing these challenges often can't articulate and gain insight into effective caregiver responses. Explore the hidden emotional struggles within families and learn how these experiences can reshape perceptions of behavior. Emotional vulnerability and support emerge as essential themes, highlighting the need for compassion in navigating these tough journeys.

Dr. Qazi Javed, a board-certified psychiatrist and integrative medicine expert from Austin, discusses the intricate link between trauma and neuroimmune disorders, like PANS and PANDAS. He explains common symptoms and when to seek assessments, especially for trauma-affected children. The conversation delves into the importance of a multidisciplinary approach, highlighting how relational trauma and immune health interplay in children's behavior. Javed also emphasizes the need for holistic treatments and understanding to foster emotional safety for families.

No one likes to feel manipulated.  It feels gross and yucky and we instinctively want it to stop.In this episode, you’ll learn:What manipulation really isWhy children manipulateHow you can help your child find their voice and decrease manipulationRead a summary and full episode transcript at: https://robyngobbel.com/manipulationWe've rolled out the red carpet just for you!!! If you're looking for more tools, more strategies, more understanding, and more community (not to mention, growing your owl brain so you can actually USE the tools and strategies you learn) come join us in The Club! We're welcoming in new members until Friday!CLICK HERE! ---> RobynGobbel.com/TheClub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

A short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of a social media post and a post I made in The Club a while back.Loving someone who is held captive by toxic shame is so so hard.  I hope this short episode gives you a little understanding of toxic shame and self-hatred, as well as a few practical ideas about how to be with a child who is stuck in a pit of toxic shame.The Club On-Demand Video Library houses a three-part video training on the neurobiology of toxic shame.We've rolled out the red carpet just for you!!! If you're looking for more tools, more strategies, more understanding, and more community (not to mention, growing your owl brain so you can actually USE the tools and strategies you learn) come join us in The Club! We're welcoming in new members until Friday!CLICK HERE! ---> RobynGobbel.com/TheClub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

Parenting can be a traumatic experience, especially for those caring for children impacted by trauma. The podcast delves into the hidden struggles parents face and emphasizes the need for community support. It discusses signs of toxic stress and how these affect both parents and children. Listeners are encouraged to seek resources that help them feel seen and understood, fostering healing through shared experiences. The discussion illuminates the importance of recognizing and addressing the emotional toll of parenting in challenging circumstances.

A short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of an email I previously sent out.Sometimes good parenting advice can actually leave us feeling more alone, isolated, and yes- hurt.It's not bad advice.  It's just not enough.In this episode I mention my interview with Marshall Lyles about Ableism and Parenting, as well as my ow memes and reels (LOL- oh the irony) over on Instagram.Read the transcript at https://robyngobbel.com/whenparentingadvicehurts/We've rolled out the red carpet just for you!!! If you're looking for more tools, more strategies, more understanding, and more community (not to mention, growing your owl brain so you can actually USE the tools and strategies you learn) come join us in The Club! We're welcoming in new members until Friday!CLICK HERE! ---> RobynGobbel.com/TheClub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)