

The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane
The Happy Home with Arlene Pellicane
A happy home doesn't happen by accident, but it can be created with love, intention, and good family habits. If you need encouragement and guidance as a parent and/or spouse, this show is for you! Arlene will help you bridge the gap between your present reality and ideal family. Your host Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books, including Making Marriage Easier, Screen Kids and Parents Rising. She and her husband James have been married for more than 27 years and have three children. Inside this podcast, you’ll meet some of the kindest and smartest experts when it comes to marriage and parenting. Get ready for fun, Biblical insights, and practical conversations that will change your thinking, give you hope, and spark positive change. Let's do this together!
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Mar 21, 2022 • 32min
Louie Giglio - Wonder of Creation
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Do you feel comfortable talking with your kids about faith and science? Today's guest, Passion founder Louie Giglio, reminds us that God can handle scientific scrutiny as He is the creator of all things. In his new book for kids, The Wonder of Creation, you'll find a great resource to share the world of science with your child from a Biblical worldview. We'll also talk about developing a passion for Christ that lasts. Today you will learn: 5:30 The more is discovered in the universe, the more we see intelligent design 6:00 It’s okay to say, "I don’t know the answer to that. Let’s find out." 7:00 Let's dismantle the wall between God and science 9:45 Show your kids the James Webb telescope 10:50 Why you must begin with Genesis 1:1 for children 12:30 Valuing your children but not making them the center of the universe 14:45 Putting down screens and getting outside instead 18:00 How can we raise a worshipper? The power of a dad to influence his kids to follow Jesus 21:00 Your heart can still burn for God in your 40s, 50s, 60s 24:40 Prepare your kids for what the values they will learn in college so it will not rattle them to the core 27:00 Worldview is set young - don’t wait - get your young kids in a worship environment Learn more about Louie Giglio's new book, The Wonder of Creation Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time? Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Mar 14, 2022 • 26min
Mike Nawrocki (aka Larry the Cucumber) - Bible Stories for Kids
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. If you've ever watched Veggie Tales with your kids, you have seen Larry the Cucumber. The voice of Larry and co-creator of Veggie Tales, Mike Nawrocki, is here to help us share Bible stories with our kids consistently and creatively. He and Amy Parker have a new children's book, The Bible for Me - Bible Stories and Prayers that you are going to love. Plus Larry the Cucumber and a surprise guest make an appearance. Today you're going to learn: 3:00 How old do kids need to be to understand Bible stories? 7:00 Benefits of reading versus watching animation 8:10 Book suggestions to read with your older kids 9:10 How do you raise a child who loves reading? 12:20 The connection between what your child is watching and worldview 17:00 The Bible and learning it for a lifetime 19:00 How can we foster creativity in kids 22:00 Advice for kids who are interested in being a voice actor Learn more about Mike Nawrocki's new book, The Bible for Me - Bible Stories and Prayers Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time? Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Mar 7, 2022 • 34min
Zero to Five - Tech for Littles
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. At what age can you safely introduce screens to your kids? Arlene Pellicane shares about ages and stages, examining screen time for babies through five years old. You'll learn what's happening in your child developmentally in the first five years, how to implement AAP recommendations for screen time, and if video chatting is okay for babies. Is tech more good or bad for teeny tiny littles? By the end of this conversation, you'll understand: 4:00 Physical and cognitive milestones for babies and toddlers 6:05 What does the AAP recommend for screen time? Do babies acquire anything meaningful from screen time? 8:00 “Kids need to engage the world in which they actually live.” - Dr. Dimitri Christakis 9:00 Is video chatting for babies okay? 13:30 Help for discerning what is quality programming 15:30 Mister Rogers vs. Paw Patrol 19:30 The dumber the toy, the smarter the child 22:20 Will my child be at a disadvantage if he or she doesn’t play with a tablet? 25:50 Ideas for working from home with littles (without help of devices for babysitting) 30:00 The upside of old tech (hello DVD player!) Learn more from Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids. Visit Happy Home University to take the quiz, "Does my child have too much screen time?" Learn more from the nonprofit Children and Screens (they offer free webinars for parents). Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Feb 28, 2022 • 32min
Dr. Jennifer Thomas - Teaching Your Kids to Apologize
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Have you seen someone wearing a t-shirt, "Sorry, Not Sorry"? As a culture, we are getting good at shifting blame and defending ourselves instead of taking responsibility when we do something wrong. Dr. Jennifer Thomas has teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to develop the Five Apology Languages. How can you teach your kids how to apologize? You'll learn how to use apologies to repair your most important relationships. In today's interview with Dr. Jennifer Thomas, you'll understand: 4:30 What are people looking for in an apology? 5:27 What are the five apology languages? 10:30 Role play: how would I use these five apology languages if I wanted to apologize for yelling at my kids? 15:00 Might you have a problem with over-apologizing? 18:20 How do you help young kids learn how to apologize? What is better to say than “I’m sorry”? 20:00 How to help your kids save face during the apology 23:00 We live in a “sorry, not sorry” culture - how can we teach kids that apologies are important? 24:30 How do you know when to apologize by text or when to apologize face to face? 27:50 How can we reach out to our estranged family members? What if we are not sincerely sorry but we want to connect? Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Thomas is a motivational speaker specializing in the five love languages and communication. Learn more about her book The Five Apology Languages (co-authored with Gary Chapman). Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Feb 21, 2022 • 25min
Becky Kopitzke - Cranky Mom Fix
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Would your kids ever describe you as cranky? Author Becky Kopitzke knows what it's like to be a cranky mom, AKA the "Momster." She's here to help us tame our inner momster with Biblical wisdom and time-tested tips so we can experience more peace at home. In today's practical conversation, you'll learn: 2:30 Who is the momster? 5:00 What are triggers we can identify before we get cranky with our kids? 8:30 How do you take things off your schedule if you’ve over-programmed your family? 13:00 Good moms take care of their kids, great moms take care of themselves also 16:30 How did you change from being the cranky mom? How did you stop yelling at your kids? 19:00 The process for repairing the relationship with your child after an argument Becky Kopitzke is wife, mom of two, author, speaker, and writing coach. She’s the author of three books including Cranky Mom Fix: How to Get a Happier, More Peaceful Home by Slaying the "Momster" in All of Us. Learn more about Becky at beckykopitzke.com Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Feb 14, 2022 • 24min
Juli Slattery - Finding the Hero in Your Husband
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. What do you do if your husband isn't living up to your expectations? Many wives don't know what to do with their disappointment and how to nudge their husbands to change. Clinical psychologist Dr. Juli Slattery says your efforts to fix your marriage may actually be undermining it. Find out more as Dr. Juli Slattery talks about her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband. You'll hear: 4:20 A challenge that all wives face 5:20 What is the cycle of intimacy? And how do we get into that cycle? 7:00 What is the cycle of self-protection? 8:30 What if I don’t feel valued by my husband? 11:30 How has submission been misapplied? What does Biblical submission look like? 15:20 Why is physical intimacy such a struggle for many marriages? 22:15 But I want to be the boss of the relationship… Learn more about Dr. Juli Slattery and her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband. Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Feb 7, 2022 • 37min
Stacey Morgan - The Astronaut's Wife
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Stacey Morgan kissed her husband goodbye before he donned his space suit and headed to his Soyuz rocket headed for the International Space Station. What's it like having a husband in space? Based on her new book, The Astronaut's Wife, Stacey will share how you can choose hope in the face of fear, and prepare for any mission or adventure life throws at your family. You'll laugh as she confesses that prior to her hubby becoming an astronaut, everything she knew about space she learned from Tom Hanks. On the interview: 1:30 My husband never planned to be an astronaut... 5:00 Welcome to the Cosmodrone 10:00 Countdown to space 15:00 How to overcome that fear of losing your loved one 18:00 Being the rookie mom - how to make new friends when you feel excluded 22:00 An unusual and wonderful way to help single parents 27:00 Keeping in touch when you’re physically separated (calls to the International Space Station) 31:00 What have your kids picked up about faith and adventure? Learn more about Stacey Morgan and her book The Astronaut's Wife. Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month (after all, he's probably not in space!)? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Jan 31, 2022 • 12min
Catch Me Praying
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Have your kids ever caught you...praying? What would happen if our children observed us day in and day out, regularly praying to God and reading our Bibles? This might be the beginning of revival in our homes. Arlene shares from her heart about the importance of prayer and Bible reading, not just at church, but in everyday life. How might we set a "spiritual trap" for our kids so they'll catch us praying? You have more influence and resources than you imagine as heaven is open and God is listening. Find other moms to pray with at MomsinPrayer.org The book mentioned on the podcast is The Prayer Code by O.S. Hawkins. Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Jan 24, 2022 • 30min
Gary Chapman - What to Know Before Your Child Becomes a Teenager
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Maybe you have a teenager or you're going to have a teenager someday. The transition between childhood and adulthood can be a bumpy one. My friend Dr. Gary Chapman, beloved author of The 5 Love Languages, has raised two kids of his own and counseled countless families in his 40 plus years in ministry. Based on his new book, Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager, Dr. Chapman will share on this episode:3:00 What if my teen is always arguing with me?4:30 What if my teen doesn't want to go to church anymore?6:20 Why isn't my teen as talkative as he or she used to be?8:30 Raising teens who are responsible10:30 What if my teen is totally unmotivated?15:00 Talking about intimacy and relationships18:00 How to deal with anger and your teen28:00 Providing guidance for the future Learn more about Dr. Chapman and his book Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager at his website, 5lovelanguages.com And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Jan 17, 2022 • 31min
Bonnie Gray - Panic Attacks to Peace
Visit donate.accessmore.com and give today to help fund more episodes and shows like this. Today's guest Bonnie Gray endured panic attacks, anxiety, and depression for years – all rooted in her traumatic childhood. As an adult, Bonnie embraced her identity as God’s beloved child, and healing began. How did she do it? In today's conversation you'll learn about: 3:30 Bonnie's birth to a mail order bride from Hong Kong and a bus boy in San Francisco's Chinatown 8:00 When I told my kids about my family secrets 10:30 My dad never came back 12:00 This journey was for me, going back to what the little girl went through 14:00 I chose the hardest story to tell my boys first 19:30 Panic attacks and faith 24:00 How do you explain PTSD to your spouse? 25:00 How to use ten minutes to lessen your anxiety 28:00 Meeting my dad again Bonnie Gray is a soul care expert and host of a wellness podcast entitled Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast. Her latest and most personal book is Sweet Like Jasmine: Finding Identity in a Culture of Loneliness. And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.


