Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

This episode tackles topics like on again/off again relationships, learning to rebuild, and talking about the future.  Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

They unpack secrecy in relationships and how being hidden can signal boundary problems. They debate when privacy becomes harmful and how to ask for tangible reciprocity. They cover uneven caretaking, intense short-term chemistry, accountability after harassment, and what it really means to be over someone. They end with a book pick and encouragement about personal growth.

This episode tackles topics like being in a sex rut, overbearing families, and when your self-worth gets tied up in how well you do things.  Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pixel Eyewear  Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode tackles topics like unrequited love, the injustice of dating, the rainbow on the other side of this shit pot called life.  Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Under The Skin Podcast with Russell Brand featuring Brené Brown  Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

They unpack when big feelings clash with future plans and whether love can change someone’s life goals. They discuss how to comfort partners facing systemic pain with witness statements, asking what support is needed, and small practical gestures. They explore the line between healthy compromise and settling, and celebrate Lizzo as a body-positive anthem pick.

This discussion dives into the complexities of reconnecting with exes and the emotional turmoil of fuck buddy situations. The hosts explore the allure of problematic crushes and the ways we can lose ourselves in relationships. They provide heartfelt advice for navigating old flames and highlight the importance of boundaries after a friends-with-benefits betrayal. Self-care in the wake of a partner's depression is also emphasized, reminding listeners to prioritize their mental health as they move forward.

Dive into the complexities of love with conversations about when to say 'I love you' and the different ways it’s expressed. Address the challenges of age differences in dating, including the importance of authenticity and clear boundaries. Hear heartfelt advice on moving on after a breakup and the value of processing grief fully before jumping into new relationships. Explore the impacts of people-pleasing and learn how to reclaim your self-worth while navigating personal accountability in tough situations.

This discussion dives deep into the complexities of modern relationships. The hosts explore when to fix or end a troubled connection, emphasizing the importance of honest communication. They share practical checklists to assess relationship joy and tackle tough decisions. Mixed signals from dating are dissected, urging empathy and perspective. The conversation shifts to rebuilding trust, setting healthy boundaries, and recognizing personal needs. Ultimately, it encourages growth and resilience after betrayal, fostering acceptance and the journey toward love.

They dig into loving more than one person and whether actions reflect true love. Conversations about starting over after loss and how money can become a focal point of grief. Practical tips for dating women later in life and building queer community connections. Reflections on Pride, allyship, and the labor behind genuine support.

Dive into a lively discussion about the pitfalls of toxic rom-coms that mess with our perceptions of love and relationships. The hosts critique classic films like The Notebook and Love Actually for their problematic messages around coercion and stalking. They also tackle how social media influences overthinking and anxiety, offering tips to curb obsessive habits. With a blend of humor and insightful advice, they help listeners navigate personal dilemmas like monogamy boundaries and nostalgia for past relationships.