Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Mar 6, 2026 • 28min
Episode 694: Love Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who did everything right but still lost his relationship
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Mar 4, 2026 • 32min
Episode 693: You Were Allowed To Be Drunk
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering how much to disclose about a painful moment from their past
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Mar 2, 2026 • 33min
Episode 692: It's Not Pathetic To Tell Someone You Like Them
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck in limbo with an ex who left her on read
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Feb 27, 2026 • 38min
Episode 691: Metabolizing Anger At Your Ex
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose post-breakup fury just keeps rising
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Feb 23, 2026 • 38min
Episode 690: Resentment Toward Someone Who Isn't "Working As Hard"
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks about her resentment for her sister-in-law every single day
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Feb 20, 2026 • 33min
Episode 689: My Friend’s Partner Crossed a Line
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend has crossed the line multiple times while high
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Feb 16, 2026 • 41min
Episode 688: Love in Low Battery Mode
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't showing her love in the way she can feel it
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Feb 13, 2026 • 33min
Episode 687: Where Love Ends and Self-Respect Begins
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wishes her relationship had ended with more dignity and respect
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Feb 11, 2026 • 32min
Episode 686: Learning to Sit With Other People’s Choices
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriends' parents don't have the capacity to improve she wants them to
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Feb 9, 2026 • 35min
Episode 685: It's Time to Get Some New Friends
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel her feelings and not take on other people's perspectives
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