Swinger University™ - The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel
Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University
After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.What You'll Learn:What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)Communication and boundary strategies that actually workHonest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and eventsHow to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamicsPractical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationshipsFeatured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence. .Connect with Us:Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityWebsite & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll Links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity
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Apr 22, 2022 • 44min
Are You Missing Out? - There's More to Swinging Than Full Swap!
Want to send us a message? If your end game in swinging is always full swap, you might be missing out! We discuss the expansive creativity, and FUN, that occurs when full swap is off the table. Come listen to all the juicy details.Join us at #PCAP2022 Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 15, 2022 • 35min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Wrap Up
Want to send us a message? We provide our final review of the Costa Rica Hotel Takeover for the week of April 2-9, 2022. It had it's pros but if you actually wanted to have sex with other people…find out if it was worth the Swinger Tax!SHOW NOTES:Perspective - CaliforniaCostVenueClassesEntertainmentPercentage of Actual SwingersWrap up Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 8, 2022 • 44min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 6
Want to send us a message? Sadly our last daily recap because we head home tomorrow. We'll do a round-up once we're home and settled in... It's the white night theme. We have some more sexy conversations and get to know our new sexy friends a bit better. We meet a few new couples, and so e full contact swinging in the playroom. Phoebe and I have two different experiences at the same time. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 7, 2022 • 34min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 5
Want to send us a message? Recapping the fifth day here in Costa Rica. Fetish night, getting out of our slump, and some of the ups and downs of the trip. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 6, 2022 • 33min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 4
Want to send us a message? Phoebe and I recall the day's journey with some serious introspection and some thought and questions for all our listeners. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 5, 2022 • 48min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 3
Want to send us a message? Catching up on all the adventures of the day. Jungle night, searching for the "right" couple (as in right now), pool sex with Phoebe. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 4, 2022 • 35min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 2
Want to send us a message? Another day in Costa Rica at a fabulous adults-only, all-swinger takeover. More fun, friends, and frolicking in the sun, and on the dance floor. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 3, 2022 • 19min
LLV Costa Rica Takeover Day 1
Want to send us a message? Recording live from the event here in Costa Rica!Our first night of fun and meeting fun new people. Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Apr 1, 2022 • 34min
The Surprising Truth: Casual Sex vs Deep Connection
Want to send us a message? Is the swinging lifestyle all Sport Forking? Can you make love to someone who isn't your primary partner? This episode breaks down the difference between the two styles of sex and what our lovemaking session was like with one of our favorite couples. SHOW NOTES:Lovemaking in the LifestyleForkingvin the LifestyleSexy Encounter with Mr. & Mrs. RedDefining my Sexual ExperienceSexual Preferences Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Mar 18, 2022 • 29min
Most Common Swinger STI: Trichomoniasis
Want to send us a message? Many STIs and Trichomoniasis can be spread through oral sex. We talk about how to detect it, avoid it, and treat it. Plus, the emotional shame, anger, and resentment that can impact your quality of life.Join us at Podcast-A-Palooza! https://podcast-a-palooza.com/SUPSHOW NOTES:How common is Trichomoniasis?How did I get Trichomoniasis?Who can get Trichomoniasis?Symptoms of TrichomoniasisTreating TrichomoniasisDo I tell others I have Trichomoniasis?Emotional impact of TrichomoniasisPrevention for TrichomoniasisResources and Links (see below):RESOURCES https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/trichomoniasis/symptoms-causes/syc-20378609https://www.cdc.gov/std/trichomonas/stdfact-trichomoniasis.htm https://www.emedicinehealth.com/can_a_man_give_a_woman_trichomoniasis/article_em.htm https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/stds-hiv-safer-sex/trichomoniasishttps://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment-guidelines/trichomoniasis.htm https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm#anchor_1638992941914 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/286165338_The_impact_of_sexually_transmitted_diseases_on_quality_of_life_Application_of_three_validated_measuresCONDOMS https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a25922204/cosmopolitan-condom-power-to-decide-survey/FEMALE CONDOM Support the showWant More?👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Bonus episodes, exclusive content, and 🌶️Extras: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️🎉Looking for lifestyle events in your area? T4P is the go-to directory for clubs, parties, and resort events. Browse now at Ticket4Play.com Custom SU T-shirts and gear: Our Amazon StoreSwingerLinks.com - live schedule, special offers*, and our 🌶️links!Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products3 Ways to get your question on our show:RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.comCALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.* We get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
