

Death, Sex & Money
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Anna Sale explores the big questions and hard choices that are often left out of polite conversation.Get more Death, Sex & Money with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of DSM and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the Death, Sex & Money show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/dsmplus to get access wherever you listen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Dec 31, 2024 • 41min
Love Actually: Real Romance Stories From Mahershala Ali, Jane Fonda, and More
Nikki Giovanni, a celebrated poet, opens up about the complex love for her parents, intertwining her childhood memories with insights on vulnerability. Oscar-winning actor Mahershala Ali shares a heartwarming glimpse into his love story with Amatus-Sami Karim, showcasing the journey of romance amid life's challenges. The podcast also features Jane Fonda discussing the pain of heartbreak and the decision to end a marriage. Together, these captivating stories explore the beauty, struggles, and transformative power of love in various forms.

Dec 24, 2024 • 55min
Should You Divulge a Disability in Your Dating Profile?
Join Carvell Wallace, writer and co-host of "How To", alongside Jessica Slice and Caroline Kupp, authors of "Dateable", as they dive into the complexities of dating with disabilities. They discuss the important yet daunting question of disclosing disabilities like multiple sclerosis on dating profiles. Expect insights on vulnerability, authenticity in relationships, and the societal pressures surrounding ableism. Through personal stories and expert advice, they illuminate the path toward genuine connections and understanding in the dating world.

Dec 17, 2024 • 42min
Chaz Ebert on Loss, Intuition and Her 'Cougar' Group Chat
Chaz Ebert, widow of legendary film critic Roger Ebert and author of "It's Time to Give a FECK," shares her profound journey through grief. She reveals her ongoing connection to Roger and her intuitive gifts, a legacy from her mother. Chaz discusses themes of love, compassion, and the transformative power of grief, all while promoting her new book. She reflects on widowhood, the importance of community during challenging times, and her latest creative projects, including a rock opera that champions divine feminine consciousness.

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Dec 10, 2024 • 35min
Betting on America: Two Gamblers, One Presidential Election
On election night, a unique twist emerged as Americans watched not just for political results but also for potential monetary wins. Personal stories of two gamblers reveal the emotional stakes of betting on presidential candidates, showcasing contrasting motivations and backgrounds. The discussion dives into the evolving landscape of political gambling and its appeal, especially among younger voters, while exploring the implications on electoral integrity. As tensions rise, humor and reflection on the fallout of election results add depth to this intriguing intersection of politics and personal finance.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 52min
From Social Work to Improv to the Best Show on HBO
Jeff Hiller, known for his role in HBO's 'Somebody, Somewhere,' shares his journey from social work to discovering improv comedy. He highlights the importance of adaptability in both performance and life, drawing parallels between friendship dynamics and small-town quirks. Jeff humorously recounts his experiences growing up, confronting bullying, and the quest for LGBTQ+ pride symbols. He reflects on the joy of performance as a means of coping and self-expression, sprinkling insights on navigating relationships and the magic of unexpected contributions in improv.

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Nov 26, 2024 • 45min
Why I Chose Estrangement
Martina Starosta, a writer and filmmaker who experienced estrangement from her parents, shares her personal journey of navigating family ties. She discusses the difficult decision of going no contact and reflects on the emotional toll of estrangement, especially during significant life events. Martina emphasizes the complexities of identity and belonging, particularly when familial love clashes with political beliefs. Her insights delve into the impact of boundaries in relationships, making a poignant case for understanding amidst disconnect.

Nov 19, 2024 • 50min
How a Betrayed Spouse Became an Infidelity Expert
Therapist Lauren LaRusso, a specialist in infidelity, shares her journey through betrayal and healing. She discusses why she approaches infidelity with curiosity rather than judgment, drawing from her personal experience. Lauren highlights the emotional complexities faced by unfaithful partners and betrayed spouses, advocating for open, non-judgmental dialogues. She also explores therapeutic strategies for recovery and the challenges of rebuilding trust in relationships after betrayal.

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Nov 12, 2024 • 1h 14min
Will He Still Love Me When I'm Off Ozempic?
In this engaging discussion, Ronald Young Jr., host of Weight For It, Anna Holmes, award-winning writer, and Jill Lewis, body-positive therapist, tackle the complexities of body image in the Ozempic era. They explore how weight loss medications affect romantic relationships and the moral implications surrounding their use. The trio shares personal anecdotes about self-acceptance, societal pressures, and the emotional journey of embracing one’s body. Listeners' stories shine a light on the importance of love, understanding, and self-worth in navigating today’s dating landscape.

Nov 5, 2024 • 44min
A Celebration (and Critique) of American Freedom
Alynda Segarra, the talented frontperson of Hurray for the Riff Raff, reflects on their upbringing and the American system's challenges. They share powerful stories of loss and resilience, particularly in relation to their father's struggles with PTSD. Music serves as a lifeline throughout the chaos, offering solace during tough times. Alynda also discusses the transformative effects of grief on family dynamics and the search for personal authenticity amidst societal pressures. The conversation is a profound exploration of vulnerability, joy, and the meaning of freedom.

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Oct 29, 2024 • 45min
The Making and Unmaking of a Productivity Perfectionist
Kendra Adachi, author and podcaster famed for her "Lazy Genius" approach, shares her transformation from a productivity perfectionist to someone who embraces flexibility and self-compassion. She discusses the importance of redefining success beyond societal pressures and highlights the emotional journey of parenting amid perfectionism. Kendra reveals valuable insights on managing time with grace, prioritizing meaningful relationships, and adopting small, manageable steps to navigate life's demands more effectively.


