The Reframe
The Reframe Podcast
Welcome to The Reframe!
I’m Kathleen, a former biglaw litigator turned early retiree.
Here we explore how to reframe our relationships. . . with our time, our money, and our stuff.
Let’s hop OFF the hedonic treadmill -- examine all those scripts we’ve inherited -- and finally design a life on our own terms.
I’m Kathleen, a former biglaw litigator turned early retiree.
Here we explore how to reframe our relationships. . . with our time, our money, and our stuff.
Let’s hop OFF the hedonic treadmill -- examine all those scripts we’ve inherited -- and finally design a life on our own terms.
Episodes
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Jul 7, 2025 • 19min
Ep. 58 - 45 Things I've Learned In My First 45 Years
Explore 45 invaluable lessons on relationships, from the fleeting nature of some friendships to the deep bonds that can endure. Discover the significance of open communication in marriage and the joy of cherishing moments with children. Delve into the connection between financial health and personal fulfillment, emphasizing the pursuit of passions and individual values. Finally, embrace the wisdom that comes with aging, celebrating resilience and a youthful spirit. Tune in for a heartfelt reflection on life's complexities!
Jun 30, 2025 • 29min
Ep. 57 - The What, Why, and How of a Super Fun “Use It Up” Challenge
Let's talk philosophical "whys" and tactical "hows" of undertaking a challenge to Use It Up all throughout the house. Join for discussions of Granny Habits, jelly jar cocktails, and creative combos to help us use our things, rather than letting them go to waste.Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.
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Jun 23, 2025 • 20min
Ep. 56 - Tiny Home System Improvements with Big Payoff
Frustrated with home systems? Discover how minimalism can transform your living space! Learn practical strategies to reduce clutter and enhance functionality for a happier daily routine. The episode also dives into optimizing your digital spaces, emphasizing simplicity and clarity to improve your user experience. Small tweaks can lead to big payoffs in both physical and digital environments. Get inspired to declutter and streamline your life!
Jun 17, 2025 • 54sec
One Year of Podcasting!
One Year Podcast Anniversary! A big warm thank you, and a small request…
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Jun 16, 2025 • 18min
Ep.55 - Are You FI-Curious? Part 3: Doing the Deep Work of Finding Your “Enough”
Explore the transformative journey of defining what 'enough' means for your personal financial independence. Discover how to break free from fear-based spending and embrace a more intentional, joyful approach to your finances. The discussion includes insightful questions and real-life examples, prompting listeners to evaluate their spending habits and prioritize true contentment. Learn to make psychological shifts that lead to financial freedom and a more fulfilling life.
Jun 9, 2025 • 31min
Ep. 54 - Are You FI-Curious? Part 2: Controlling Large Fixed Expenses, The Earlier The Better
In Part 2 of the "Are You FI-Curious" series, let's go ahead and anger the Fancy House People, the Private School People, and the Country Club People. Not really (or at least not intentionally?)... but we do walk through the true, full costs of these large, fixed expenses. And we analyze what it costs us in "life years" when we choose these luxury options over more modest -- but still totally awesome --alternatives.Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.
Jun 2, 2025 • 48min
Ep. 53 - Are You FI-Curious? Part 1: Finding Your Favorite Flavor of Financial Independence
Face off: Jimmy Choos + ZoomLife to 65, or the freedom to shape our days when we still have a spring in our steps? This week we start a three-week series exploring FI (financial independence) and FIRE (financial independence, retire early) at a 101 level. The first steps: figure out how much we realistically want to spend, then translate it into an invested asset "FIRE" number. Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)_Mom.Recommended resources:https://www.insideoutmoney.org/https://lizgetsloaded.com/https://earlyretirementnow.com/ https://earlyretirementpodcast.com/
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May 26, 2025 • 17min
Ep. 52 - Are We Trading Time We Don’t Have for Money We Don’t Need?
Are we sacrificing time we can't afford for money we might not need? This thought-provoking discussion dives into the complexities of valuing time over money. It emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in our professional lives and encourages listeners to reclaim agency over their time. The host invites everyone to reflect on their choices and share thoughts on finding balance in the chaos of life.
May 19, 2025 • 21min
Ep. 51 - Putting Stoicism Into Practice With A Cancer Diagnosis
Surprise! (Bad surprise, but still... surprise!). This week we talk about using stoic principles to help walk through hard times with a special and very personal application.Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.
May 12, 2025 • 19min
Ep. 50 - My Money Story (Special Mother's Day Edition)
In Episode 41, we walked through questions to ask ourselves when exploring our money stories. Today, I share a little sliver of my own money story, focused on how my Most Excellent Mom positively influenced my views on money and its role in our lives. Thank you, Mom. I love you, and happy Mother's Day!As always, folks, please reach out: theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com or Minimal(ish)Mom on Instagram.
