

Real Recovery Talk
Tom Conrad, Ben Bueno, Dr. Pamela Tambini
We are a podcast dedicated to sobriety and recovery from alcohol and drugs. (And whatever other addiction that is out there) It doesn't matter what you have been through in the past. We have all done very bad things in our addiction. This does not define who we are. We know there is a way out of addiction. Family and loved ones, you play a part in this as well. There are plenty of stories out there of families and loved ones not knowing what to do with their addicted loved one. Let us guide you on the right things to do and the right decisions to make to ensure that you and your loved one gets the help that you need.
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Jan 10, 2025 • 50min
We know WHY we are alcoholics and drug addicts: NOW WHAT?
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we dive into some key questions about the 12-step journey. We discuss the value of family members getting involved in a 12-step program and the role of Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) in helping families heal. Can working the 12 steps repeatedly continue to provide value, or is there a point where the returns diminish? We explore whether it makes sense to keep revisiting the steps and how they can evolve over time depending on where you are in your recovery journey. This is a thought-provoking conversation for anyone curious about maximizing the impact of the 12 steps while keeping recovery balanced and meaningful. Tune in to get some clarity and perspective!
Jan 8, 2025 • 41min
Why People Resist Alcoholics Anonymous and What to Do About It
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we tackle a topic that comes up a lot: the objections people have to working an Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) program. Whether it's skepticism about the steps, discomfort with the concept of a higher power, or resistance to group settings, we address the common reasons people hesitate to give AA a try. We'll break down these objections and share insights on how to overcome them, including personal experiences and practical advice for anyone on the fence about joining a 12-step program. If you or someone you know has been hesitant about AA, this episode will help clarify misconceptions and offer a fresh perspective on why it works for so many people. Tune in for an honest, no-nonsense conversation!

Jan 5, 2025 • 1h 12min
Harrison DESTROYED his Life: Look at him now
Register for the Big Book Study: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services On today's episode, we're joined by Harrison, who's about to hit six years of sobriety at just 27 years old. Harrison's story is a powerful example of what sobriety can look like when you fully commit to the process. He shares how building a strong community has been the foundation of his recovery and why staying connected to others in sobriety is so critical. Harrison dives into the importance of personal growth and how he strives daily to be a better person. For him, it's not just about staying clean—it's about living with purpose and being of service to others. He explains how helping people is not only a cornerstone of his recovery but also something that brings him joy and fulfillment. In the last part of the episode, Harrison opens up about his career, the blessings he's experienced through sobriety, and why he feels incredibly grateful for the life he gets to live today. This episode is packed with inspiration, practical advice, and real insight into what it takes to live a meaningful life in recovery. Don't miss it!
Jan 3, 2025 • 1h 8min
Kevin's Journey: 14 Years of Sobriety, Service, and Spiritual Growth
Register for the Big Book Study: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we're joined by Kevin, who reflects on his 14 years of continuous sobriety and the lessons he's learned along the way. Kevin shares how his perspective has evolved over the years, explaining why tangible items no longer hold the same importance to him. For Kevin, it's not about what he owns—it's about the relationships he's built and the lives he's impacted. Kevin opens up about the critical role service plays in his recovery, emphasizing the importance of working with other alcoholics and mentoring newcomers. He explains how staying grounded in his own sobriety is deeply tied to helping others and being part of a strong community. Kevin also highlights why having a tight-knit group of sober men around him is essential—they're not just friends, but accountability partners who call him out when he strays from his spiritual path. This episode is a powerful reminder that recovery is about so much more than staying sober—it's about connection, service, and staying spiritually aligned. Whether you're new to sobriety or years into the journey, Kevin's story offers invaluable lessons and inspiration for everyone. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation!

Jan 1, 2025 • 37min
Did you get SOBER in 2024? Why not?
Register for the Big Book Study: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/bigbookstudy Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services

Dec 29, 2024 • 37min
Maximize Your Recovery: Make 2025 Your Best Year Yet
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services Ready to take your recovery to the next level? In this episode, we're diving into how to maximize your sobriety in 2025. Recovery isn't just about staying sober—it's about growing, thriving, and creating the life you want. We'll cover how to set impactful goals, build stronger connections, prioritize self-care, and give back to the recovery community. Whether you're new to this journey or have years of sobriety under your belt, this episode is packed with tips and inspiration to help you make 2025 a year of growth and purpose. Let's maximize your recovery together!
Dec 27, 2024 • 1h 10min
Sobriety has VERY LITTLE to do with drugs and alcohol: Here's why...
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we're joined by Stuart, who's celebrating 20 years of continuous sobriety. Stewart shares how building a strong community has been one of the most important factors in his recovery. Together, we explore why sobriety isn't just about quitting drugs and alcohol—it's about the relationships we build along the way. Stuart's story is a powerful reminder that connection and community are at the heart of long-term recovery. Whether you're just starting out or have years under your belt, this episode will inspire you to focus on what really matters: the people who walk this journey with you. Don't miss this conversation about hope, growth, and the power of authentic relationships!
Dec 25, 2024 • 60min
YOU can become an Alcoholic at ANY Age: Tammi's story
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this episode, we sit down with Tammi, who's been sober for two years after completing treatment at Rock Recovery Center. What makes Tammi's story so incredible is that she didn't even start drinking until her mid-40s—but within just two years, she was a full-blown alcoholic. Tammi shares what led her to pick up alcohol later in life, how quickly things spiraled, and what it took to finally get sober. She talks about going through treatment just once, doing everything that was expected of her, and taking full advantage of the tools and support she was given. Her story proves that it's never too late to make a change and shows what's possible when you're willing to put in the work. You don't want to miss this one—it's full of hope, honesty, and inspiration!
Dec 22, 2024 • 38min
Russell Brand Discusses the First Three Steps to get SOBER!
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services In this special episode, we're honored to welcome Russell Brand for an inspiring and candid conversation about his recovery journey. Russell reflects on where he is today in his sobriety and shares how his newfound faith has transformed his life. He emphasizes the critical role that God now plays in maintaining his recovery and offers profound insights on the spiritual foundation of sobriety. Russell also discusses the importance of truly committing to the process if you choose to engage in a 12-step program, sharing why doing the work is essential for meaningful change. With his mix of humor, honesty, and wisdom, Russell provides a fresh perspective on recovery, spirituality, and the path to personal transformation. This episode is a powerful reminder of what's possible when we embrace accountability, connection, and faith.

Dec 20, 2024 • 34min
Did we have Russell Brand on the podcast?
Join our FREE FB Support group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realrecoverytalk Download our free guides!: https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/guides Chat with us! https://www.realrecoverytalk.com/services Yes we did have Russell Brand on the podcast, and no, the episode is not out yet! But it will be soon! Here are our thoughts...


