Lessons from a Quitter

Goli Kalkhoran
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Nov 11, 2025 • 22min

Hierarchy of Needs

In this week's episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into an unpolished but powerful reflection on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and how understanding it can help us navigate uncertainty and reduce unnecessary suffering. We explore the difference between "clean" and "dirty" pain and how our brains are wired to always look for problems—even when life is objectively good. By recognizing where we are on the hierarchy, we can cultivate more compassion for ourselves, redirect our minds toward meaningful goals, and find gratitude for the structure and challenges that keep us grounded, even in seasons of self-doubt or transition.
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Nov 4, 2025 • 27min

Happy Life of Mediocrity

This discussion dives into the pressures of perfectionism and how chasing unattainable goals leads to burnout. Instead of striving to be the best, finding joy in mediocrity is celebrated as a path to less stress. The host highlights the liberating idea that life balances between highs and lows, urging acceptance of being average. Emphasizing the importance of prioritizing meaningful experiences over perfection, listeners are encouraged to choose happiness over excellence and consider how 'good enough' can lead to a more fulfilling life.
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Sep 9, 2025 • 32min

Experimenting with a 3-day workweek

In this week's episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I share a personal experiment I've started in my own business: taking Mondays and Fridays off to create a three-day workweek. While it sounds dreamy on the surface, the reality has been much messier—and that's exactly why I wanted to bring it to you. We dive into how hustle culture and perfectionism make rest feel uncomfortable, why our brains resist slowing down, and how important it is to give ourselves permission to experiment. This conversation is about challenging old rules, embracing imperfection, and creating more space for what you truly want.
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Aug 26, 2025 • 50min

How to stop Emotional Outsourcing with Beatriz Albina

Beatriz Albina, NP, MPH, SEP, is a somatic life coach and host of the Feminist Wellness Podcast. In this engaging conversation, she explores the detrimental effects of emotional outsourcing, revealing how it leads to codependency and perfectionism. Béa shares powerful strategies for self-regulation and reconnecting with the body to reclaim joy. The discussion delves into overcoming people-pleasing tendencies, the science behind emotional regulation, and the importance of authenticity. Béa also teases her upcoming book, offering listeners a glimpse into transformative techniques for emotional well-being.
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Aug 19, 2025 • 30min

How to Change the Story You Tell Yourself (and Change Your Life)

Discover how changing the story you tell yourself can unlock your potential. Learn to combat limiting beliefs that keep you stuck, exhausted, and feeling inadequate. The discussion emphasizes the power of reframing negative self-talk to reshape your reality and boost happiness. Celebrate your successes and reclaim your self-worth as you transform your self-narrative. Personal experiences and client transformations illustrate the profound impact this mindset shift can have on your life.
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Aug 12, 2025 • 28min

Why I've offered a guarantee for my mastermind

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on why I decided to offer a 100% money-back guarantee for my new high-ticket mastermind for high-achieving women feeling unfulfilled. I share the thought process behind creating a safety net for participants, how it addresses trust issues in the coaching industry, and why I'm willing to take the financial risk. I talk about privilege, integrity, and how this decision pushes me to deliver the deepest transformation possible. Whether you're a business owner or not, you'll gain insight into making bold, values-aligned decisions that prioritize both client trust and personal growth.
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Aug 5, 2025 • 41min

How Ysabella Allard continues to reinvent herself (and why she's joining the mastermind)

In this powerful episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I'm joined by Ysabelle Allard for a vulnerable conversation about what it really takes to transform your life from the inside out. Ysabelle shares her journey of walking away from a successful corporate career, surrendering to deep grief, and ultimately learning to trust her inner voice. We explore what it means to slow down, invest in yourself, and step into the unknown — even when it's terrifying. If you've ever felt stuck, burnt out, or like you're being called to something more, this episode will speak straight to your soul.
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Jul 29, 2025 • 19min

Mastermind Anouncement

In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, I share an exciting new chapter: the launch of Your Next Act Mastermind, a 6-month group program for high-achieving women in transition. If you're feeling stuck, burned out, or questioning what's next after "doing everything right," this episode is for you. I open up about my own evolving journey and why this mastermind—complete with one-on-one coaching and an in-person retreat—is the most aligned offering I've created yet. This is for those ready to release old identities and step into the next version of themselves with clarity, community, and courage.
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Jul 22, 2025 • 31min

Mid-Year Check In

In this mid-year solo episode, I share a deeply personal update on navigating a season of transition and uncertainty. From shutting down my membership to questioning what's next, I reflect on what it means to evolve without attaching self-worth to productivity or clarity. I talk about the emotional toll of global events, holding space for conflicting truths, and allowing open-ended exploration instead of forcing answers. If you're feeling unmoored, uninspired, or unsure about your next step, this episode offers a grounded perspective on how to sit with the unknown and redesign your life with curiosity, compassion, and intention.
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Jul 15, 2025 • 25min

Replay: Managing Fear

In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into the fear that keeps us stuck. It's not the lack of information that holds us back—it's the "what ifs" and unanswered fears that paralyze us. I walk you through a powerful tool: answering the fear-filled questions your brain throws at you. What if you fail? What if they judge you? Instead of spinning in anxiety, learn how to map out worst-case scenarios, strategize solutions, and take back your power. Plus, I introduce a free quiz to help you figure out whether it's time to quit and what to focus on next.

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