Two Bi Guys

Sign up for my discussion series, FLUID CONVERSATIONS: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/fluid-conversationsMy guest this week is my friend and spiritual guide, Clark Neselrodt -- he's also a coach, meditation facilitator, end-of-life caregiver, and father. We chatted about his unique bisexual journey, how to feel the vibrations and energy of your own queerness and authenticity, the spiritual work he facilitates, how getting in touch with your true self can connect you to divine realms and spirits -- and then we got into a discussion of his forthcoming book, "KINK: Un-crippling Our Secret Selves", how shame operates both on an individual level and in our society, and how the urges and callings of a kink can lead your toward your true life's purpose.If you have no clue what we're talking about in terms of the meditation work that Clark facilitates, feel free to get in touch with me or him to ask! And if you have some idea... you're probably on the right track...Stay tuned for part 2 with Clark next week, plus bonus content on Patreon!Clark's website: https://www.clarknesselrodt.com/Clark on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keyofclarkClark on IG: https://www.instagram.com/keyofclarkClark on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KeyofClarkTwo Bi Guys on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/robertbrookscohenRob's Website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/Sign up for a free intro call with Rob re: individual coaching: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/25-minute-free-intro-call

This episode welcomes the return of Mark Cusack, ICF Coach and founder of the support site “Not Defining”, to discuss his new book, Fluid: A Guide For People With Flexible Sexuality. (Finally, someone who can define one of the most commonly-used labels on this show!) We chatted about fluidity, what it means, how it’s shown up in our lives, and why it can be a helpful way to think about the sexuality spectrum – among other spectrums.Don’t miss 17 minutes of bonus content with Mark on Patreon! We chatted about his teenage self, the cultural history of fluidity (fascinating topic), and more: https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohenBuy Mark’s book, Fluid: https://uk.jkp.com/products/fluidMark’s website: https://www.notdefining.com/NotDefining on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCct1pE5fNVUdIR1aw3wxPew@NotDefining on IG: https://www.instagram.com/notdefining/Rob’s Website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/Free 25-minute intro call with Rob: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/25-minute-free-intro-call

This week I chatted with Jon McCray Jones and Natalie Moe, organizers of “$luts Party”, a monthly sex-positive rave that centers bi and queer people in the Chicago nightlife scene, and hosts of the Fun with $ex Podcast. We talked about their experiences attending play parties all over the world, how “Two Bi Guys” helped Jon recognize and explore his bisexuality, why they decided to create bi-inclusive and fluid-focused rave and play parties, what those parties are really like, and how that scene promotes self-discovery for individuals as well as new ways of being in relationships.For 20+ minutes of bonus content with Jon & Natalie (on masculinity, consent, the wildest things they've seen at play parties, and more) plus full video and early access to all episodes, subscribe on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohenSign up for group coaching with Rob: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/group-coaching-community-buildingRob’s website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/$luts Party on IG: https://www.instagram.com/slutspartychi$luts Party Linktree (events, tickets, podcast, etc.): https://linktr.ee/slutspartychiFun with $ex Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fun-with-sex-podcast/id1742478612Fun with $ex Podcast on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fwspodcast

My guest this week is Wayne Scott, a writer, psychotherapist, and teacher who recently published a new memoir, “The Maps They Gave Us”, which tells the story of a man and woman who fall in love again on their way to getting a divorce. We chatted about what it was liking knowing you were bisexual during the AIDS crisis, the unique circumstances under which he met and committed to his wife, the role bisexuality played in his marriage, why they came very, VERY close to divorce, why they decided to try opening up their marriage (and how they navigated that), and how this arrangement led to new forms of love, understanding, and partnership.There are 10 minutes of bonus content with Wayne on Patreon, plus full video episodes: www.Patreon.com/RobertBrooksCohenSign up for group coaching: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/group-coaching-community-buildingOrder Wayne’s book, “The Maps They Gave Us”: https://blacklawrencepress.com/books/the-maps-they-gave-us-one-marriage-reimagined/Wayne’s website: https://www.waynescottwrites.com/

Get 45% off the Magic Mind bundle with with my link: https://magicmind.com/biguysJAN #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformanceWelcome to Season 9 of Two Bi Guys! I’m trying some new things this season, including a super-sized episode all at once instead of split into two! This week I had the pleasure of chatting with Mike Joseph of the Detoxicity podcast for a crossover episode on mental health, queerness, and psychedelic therapies. You’ll hear Mike’s story about navigating his own queerness as he grew up in the 80s as well as his insightful thoughts on what men really need in our current climate. After that, we discussed Mike’s journey with ketamine as well as my recent plant medicine work. Enjoy!Mike’s website: https://www.mike-joseph.com/Follow Mike on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikejosephcoaching/Detoxicity podcast: https://detoxpod.podbean.com/The Detoxicity episode Rob was on in Dec 2023: https://detoxpod.podbean.com/e/detoxpod-153-robert-brooks-cohen-screenwriterauthor/Radiolab episode about neuroplasticity: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/radiolab/id152249110?i=1000676210394Rob’s website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/Rob’s Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohenFree 30-minute coaching session with Rob (extended through end of Feb 2025): https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/meeting-with-rob

Time to take a look back at 2024 before we move into the new year! My year was transformative, and I hope 2025 brings you even more peace, progress, and love. This isn't exactly a "best of", because all my guests are the best, but more of a year in review, six clips that are really resonating with me at the moment. Enjoy!Until January 10, take advantage of discount pricing for  one-on-one coaching! I specialize in helping bi, queer, non-monogamous or questioning people navigate challenges surrounding identity and relationships. Learn more and book a free 25-minute intro call at my website: www.robertbrookscohen.com/coachingStay tuned in 2025 for more episodes of Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy) as well as new courses and coaching offerings. Happy new year!

This week features part two of my chat with Aaron Hammersly, filmmaker and production executive at Disney, board member on the LA Bi+ Task Force, and outspoken advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, working especially for more inclusive representation in front of and behind the camera. In this episode, we continued discussing “Bi+ Narratives: A Guide to Authentic Representation in Storytelling”, the first comprehensive guide to portraying bi+ characters in film and television, which Aaron co-authored, diving into dozens of case studies of bi+ representation in the current film & TV landscape (like Schitt’s Creek, Heartstopper, Game of Thrones, Call Me By Your Name, Baby Reindeer, and many more), what they’re doing well, what’s backwards or harmful, what’s missing, and what we’d ideally like to see in the future. We also discussed the “manic pixie bi boy” trend, and finally we went through the guide’s test for creatives to determine if what they’re producing is authentic Bi+ representation.Thanks for listening to season 8 of Two Bi Guys (By One Bi Guy)! We’ll be back in 2025!Get Magic Mind at 50% off with this Black Friday offer, available only through my link until December 6th: https://magicmind.com/biguysbfFollow Aaron on IG: https://www.instagram.com/secretsyrin/The Bi+ Narratives Guide: https://www.rewritethebiline.com/bi-test“Manic Pixie Bi Boys”: https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/the-manic-pixie-bi-boys

This week I sat down with my friend Aaron Hammersly, filmmaker and production executive at Disney, board member on the LA Bi+ Task Force, and outspoken advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, working especially for more inclusive representation in front of and behind the camera. Earlier this year, Aaron co-authored Re-Write the Bi-Line’s “Bi+ Narratives: A Guide to Authentic Representation in Storytelling”, the first comprehensive guide to portraying bi+ characters in film and television.In this IN-PERSON (!!) interview, we talked about Aaron’s queer journey; “the social insidious nature of biphobia and bi erasure”; why it’s difficult to represent queerness within the major studio system and in our current climate; the costs and benefits of being out at work for writers, producers, and other creatives; why it’s unfair and unproductive when writers’ rooms fill a “diversity slot” instead of valuing diverse identities and experiences across the board; and how Aaron got involved with “Still Bisexual”, “Rewrite the Bi-Line”, and co-author Christina Fialho in order to write the Bi+ Narratives Guide.We then dove into the recommendations in the guide (like “if the audience does not know if the character is bi+, we cannot change the narrative for bi+ people”, and “expand opportunities and empower new voices”), and we began to discuss case studies of bi+ representation in the current film & TV landscape. Stay tuned for more with Aaron in next week’s season finale when we continue going through the guide!Magic Mind: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code TWOBIGUYS20 at checkout. You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/TWOBIGUYS20The Bi+ Narratives Guide: https://www.rewritethebiline.com/bi-testFollow Aaron on IG: https://www.instagram.com/secretsyrin/“Manic Pixie Bi Boys”: https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/the-manic-pixie-bi-boysSURJ: https://surj.org/DSA website: https://www.dsausa.org/

PLEASE VOTE for Kamala Harris! The stakes could not be higher. Once you've done that, then you can listen to this lovely episode, the second part of my chat with Dutch bicons Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg. We talked a bit more about the queer scene in the Netherlands before moving on to a longer discussion about non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, play parties, and why their sexualities bring them joy. Enjoy!Follow Vera on IG: https://www.instagram.com/verawestenberg/Follow Leroy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/leroyduivenvoorden/Marketing Schmarketing: https://www.marketingschmarketing.nl/“One Thing Does Not Exclude the Other” (Vera & Leroy’s podcast) on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/het-een-sluit-het-ander-niet-uit/id1615666895Leroy’s photos from the Bi+ Netherlands Pride Boat: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg_cgA1o1Wh/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==Vera’s photos from the Bi+ Netherlands Pride Boat: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChACzpmICKF/?img_index=6

Try Magic Mind: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code TWOBIGUYS20 at checkout. You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/TWOBIGUYS20This week I’m so excited to share part 1 of my interview with Vera & Leroy Duivenvoorden-Westenberg, my friends from the Netherlands! In addition to running a marketing company together called “Marketing Schmarketing” – which designed the “Studio 54” Bi+ boat in the 2022 Amsterdam Pride canal parade – Vera & Leroy are Bi+ activists and hosts of the podcast “One Thing Does Not Exclude the Other” (“Het een sluit het ander niet uit” in Dutch). We chatted about my trip to Amsterdam Pride when we all met, their journey as a married couple both navigating bisexuality, what’s great about the queer scene in the Netherlands (and also what’s missing), and much more. Stay tuned for part 2 next week – and don’t forget to VOTE in the Nov. 5 US election!Follow Vera on IG: https://www.instagram.com/verawestenberg/Follow Leroy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/leroyduivenvoorden/Marketing Schmarketing: https://www.marketingschmarketing.nl/“One Thing Does Not Exclude the Other” (Vera & Leroy’s podcast) on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/het-een-sluit-het-ander-niet-uit/id1615666895Leroy’s photos from the Bi+ Netherlands Pride Boat: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg_cgA1o1Wh/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZAVera’s photos from the Bi+ Netherlands Pride Boat: https://www.instagram.com/p/ChACzpmICKF/?img_index=6