

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Oct 18, 2020 • 60min
Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, And What Matters When Sliding Into DMs ft. Hunter March
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Hunter March, co-host of E!’s Nightly Pop. We discuss what to put on your dating app prompts, why relationships need 90% security and 10% insecurity, getting to a breaking point in a relationship, dating someone who is very sure about you, a woman he dated that didn’t say thank you, the simple reason people ghost, anti-ghost texts, what matters when DM sliding, if turning your phone off is sociopathic, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss not being sexually compatible at first, bringing trust issues into a new relationship, losing a parent, and your partner having only single friends. www.dipsea.com/ACME for your free 30 day trial! www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! www.blublox.com with code ACME for 15% off! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 11, 2020 • 54min
Let’s Analyze Your COVID Date ft. Harry Hill
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Harry Hill, aka @VeryHarryHill. We discuss his COVID date, cancel culture, TikTok stars, leaving dates early, talking about kids on dates, unfollowing people after a bad date, online personas vs. real ones, WAP, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss pressure to couple up in the pandemic, how to know if you want to marry your partner, being aggressive with guys, dating multiple people during COVID, friends who keep coming back that you want to phase out, how to start convos on dating apps, tips for moving in together, and first trips together. www.issuu.com/podcast with promo code ACME for 50% off our premium account! www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! And use code ACME for 20% off your first order with the Caviar app! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 4, 2020 • 47min
Why Do You Send A Thank You Text After A Date? ft. Real Housewives of NY’s Elyse Slaine
In this episode, I virtually sit down Elyse Slaine, Ramona’s ex friend from Real Housewives of NYC. We discuss what wasn’t working in her first marriage, why people cheating is a symptom of a bad marriage, dating rules we agree and disagree on, slow-playing texts, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss all things college dating. Visit www.hellorory.com/ACME for a Free consultation and $5 for your first treatment! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 27, 2020 • 54min
Is Watching Porn Ruining Our Sex Lives? ft. Frank Rich
In this episode, I virtually sit down with ex-body builder and podcast host Frank Rich. We discuss how addictive porn can be, the difference between how men and women masturbate, if the porn you watch is directly related to what you’re into IRL, how depression feels for men, toxic masculinity and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my 30th birthday, what it’s like living with my SO, adjusting back to NYC life, and not feeling behind when all your friends are having babies. www.dailyharvest.com with promo code ACME for $25 off your first box! www.mejuri.com/acme or use code ACME10 for 10% off your order! www.dipseastories.com/ACME for a free 30 day trial! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 20, 2020 • 39min
My Relationship Trauma, and How To Heal From Rejection and Cheating
Is rejection trauma a real thing? In this full solo episode, I talk about relationship trauma. Specifically, we discuss rejection trauma and how that can affect us in the long-term. Trauma around rejection is no joke, but luckily there are ways to treat the psychological wounds rejection inflicts. I discuss my past relationships in this episode and those wounds, being cheated on repeatedly, big T trauma and little t trauma, your own rejection stories, and how important self-awareness is in choosing a partner. www.sakara.com/ACME to get 20% off your first order! www.issuu.com/podcast and use code ACME for your FREE account or 50% off your premium account! and download the Caviar app and use offer code ACME for 20% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 13, 2020 • 56min
How Two 25-Year-Old Guys Think About Dating ft. David and Jake
In this episode, I virtually sit down with David and Jake from “How The F*** Did You Get That Job” Podcast. We discuss tips for an LDR, how 25 year old men think about dating, is anyone ever really single, getting a guy to define things, meeting on dating apps vs. in person and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss trauma, the early stages of dating, things to overcome in relationships, stalking SO’s followers on Insta, and cheating. www.functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! www.hellorory.com/ACME to try out Nightly Defense for just $5! and download SHIP in the App store to start swiping today! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 6, 2020 • 52min
There Are Two Sides To Every Date ft. Vinay Chadha
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Vinay from the hit Netflix show “Indian Matchmaking.” We discuss what went wrong in his date with Nadia, different castes in India and what they mean, things that can do wrong in the beginning of dating, being single in your 30s, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss tips for making meeting IRL from an app less awkward, how responsibilities change when you become official, depressive episodes, moving back to NYC, and quarantine dependency. www.mejuri.com/ACME10 for 10% off your first order! www.dipseastories.com/ACME for your 30 day Free Trial! Search for SHIP DATING in the APP store to start swiping today! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 30, 2020 • 56min
Why You’re Not Getting Asked On A Second Date ft. Damona Hoffman
In this episode, I virtually sit down with dating coach Damona Hoffman. We discuss what isn’t working for you when it comes to dating, people who don’t date outside their race, being your authentic self, how to date like it’s a job, trying to force a relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss dealing with unemployment in a relationship, dating a divorcée, how young is too young to get married, and what I learned from each break up. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order Ship - Download in the App store today to start swiping with friends! Caviar - Download in the App store and use code ACME for $10 off your order of $20 or more! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 23, 2020 • 60min
What Your Political Stance Says About You As A Partner ft. TJ Ducklo
In this episode, I virtually sit back down with Vice President Joe Biden’s Press Secretary TJ Ducklo. We discuss his father being a Trump supporter, how dating has changed as a result of the current political climate, WTF is going on in this election, navigating friendships with different beliefs, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss when I told friends I was sober, green flags in my own relationship, insecurity in relationships, living with family right now, and expectations before defining things. www.FunctionOfBeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your order www.Mejuri.com/ACME10 for 10% off your first order www.DailyHarvest.com with promo code ACME for $25 off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 16, 2020 • 1h
After Sex Behavior, How To Bring Up Getting Tested, And Sexual Symmetry ft. Dr. Stephen De Wit
In this episode, I virtually sit back down with sexologist Dr. Stephen De Wit. We discuss sexual symmetry, how to act after sex, bringing up getting STD tested and COVID tested, the 5 step process of trying something in the bedroom and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss not wanting to settle down in the same place, taking stresses out on a partner, in-laws, jealousy of SO’s friendships, Married At First Sight, and The Single Wives. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


