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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
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Dec 4, 2022 • 53min

It’s Not You, It’s Your Avoidant Partner ft. Chris Rackliffe

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down (again!) with Chris Rackliffe, an anxious attachment style coach. We discuss the telltale signs that you're in an anxious-avoidant dynamic, how to make an anxious-avoidant relationship work, how someone with an avoidant attachment style can learn to open up, learning to appreciate periods of both space and closeness in your relationship, busting the myth that attachment styles are gender-specific, examples of anxious-avoidant couples in pop culture, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to be confident walking away when it's not working, rules for holidays for every phase of dating, how to figure out what ring you want, our new apt, how to prepare yourself for a break up while you are living with someone, and how to reignite a desire to date when you've been taking a break.    Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample pack   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Nov 27, 2022 • 48min

So This Is Why I’m Sober

TRIGGER WARNING: drugs and alcohol/addiction. On today’s solo episode, I talk all about sobriety. Why I’m sober, going to social events sober, dating sober, how to support a sober partner, what to say when people ask why you don’t drink, how it has affected my life, signs and symptoms of an alcoholic, mocktails I like, telling Steven about my sobriety, my wedding sober, what to say to a friend who needs to get sober, how my body changed without alcohol, and more.   Sponsors: Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial     Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Nov 20, 2022 • 58min

Navigating Different Argument Styles In A Relationship ft. Mimi Bouchard

On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with the founder of Superhuman App, Mimi Bouchard. We discuss long term relationships, moving with a partner, navigating different argument styles in a relationship, manifesting wealth and abundance, how meditation can transform your life, how to become the person you want to be, physical symptoms that manifest when your energy is off, how to intuitively eat, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how we go about finances in my marriage, people going through things, and my thoughts on recent Tiktok’s takes.    0:00 - 10:00 - Solo, finances in marriage, TikTok takes, & everyone going through it 13:55 - end - Mimi Bouchard   Sponsors: Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Get filtered shower water at jolieskinco.com or follow on IG @jolieskinco Barenecessities.com code ACME20 for 20% off Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Nov 17, 2022 • 1h 1min

How To Get A Man To Stay Loyal ft. Iskra and Philip

On today’s episode, I got to hang out with Iskra and Philip from Coupleish. We discuss how they met, adapting to a surprise baby, how to get men to stay loyal, why the guy needs to love the girls more, dating when emotionally unavailable, fears before having a child, if having children can change you, why financial security is crucial as a woman, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Love is Blind and my episode with Steven.   1:00-6:30 min - Love In Blind 10:30-End - Iskra & Philip   Sponsors: Hungryroot.com/acme for 30% off and free veggies for life https://babeoriginal.com/ code ACME for 15% off Carawayhome.com to score up to 20% off your next purchase of non-toxic kitchenware Rothys.com/acme for $20 off your first purchase   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Nov 13, 2022 • 1h 9min

My Husband’s Thoughts On The Rules

On today’s episode, I finally sit down with my husband Steven. We discuss his take on the rules, his perspective on our first date, if we would have gone out again if I didn’t text him after date 1, first impressions, his worst date story, if he feels our relationship is too public, what it’s like dating someone sober, how to know if guys need a nudge when dating, why he’s ghosted people in the past, what it was like asking my parents to marry me, what life is like not being on Instagram, and more!    Sponsors: Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample pack https://babeoriginal.com/ code ACME for 15% off Hungryroot.com/acme for 30% off and free veggies for life Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Nov 6, 2022 • 1h 8min

Should We Be Eating More Ass? Ft. Danielle Carolan and Brooke Miccio

On today’s episode, I sit down with Danielle Carolan and Brooke Miccio from Gals On The Go podcast. We discuss how they met their boyfriends, navigating friendship and working together, their sex lives, friendship jealousy, why they don’t live with their SO’s, what dating rules they’ve followed, eating ass, regrets from early career moments, their biggest regrets in choosing to live publicly, how they would describe each other’s aesthetic, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Tell Me Lies.   Sponsors: Download the Match app today! Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order https://babeoriginal.com/ code ACME for 15% off Nextevo.com/recover code ACME for get up to 25% off when you subscribe and spend $40 or more Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Oct 30, 2022 • 1h 4min

Signs You May Be Dating The Wrong Person ft. John Kim and Vanessa Bennett

On today’s episode, I sit down with John Kim, LMFT and Vanessa Bennett, LMFT. We discuss introverts dating extroverts, the major signs you may be dating the wrong person, getting your partner to adhere to your love language, what to do if your relationship can’t handle growth, why not fighting is a huge red flag, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the 5 things I’ve learned in 5 years of WMAA, and Midnights.   Sponsors: Download the Match app today! Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Oct 23, 2022 • 1h 9min

What Does It Really Mean To Live Together? ft. Cyrus Veyssi

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Cyrus Veyssi. We discuss how important family support is, how they became so comfortable being queer, why they respond to their haters, what they were like growing up, why gender isn’t rigid, their meet cute with their partner, the difference between coming out today and coming out years ago, if it’s “trendy” to be gender fluid, living with a partner but not being ready for engagement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why my parents aren’t good roommates, not sleeping, and how life starts when your phone dies.   Sponsors: Download the Match app today! Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Oct 20, 2022 • 59min

The 7 Traits Of Emotional Fitness ft. Dr. Emily Anhalt

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Dr. Emily Anhalt. Emily is the founder of COA (we can link it https://www.joincoa.com/) and host of the podcast Emotionally Fit With Dr. Emily Anhalt. We discuss the 7 traits of emotional fitness, how we know if our mental health is in the right place to date, imposter syndrome, trusting our gut if we have mental health struggles, dealing with a partner who doesn’t take therapy seriously, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss forgiving yourself for embarrassing hook ups, how toxic exes have shaped me, combating seasonal depression, friends changing for the worse with their partners, first time disagreements with SO, making time for your SO, and boys trips and standards/expectations to have.   Sponsors: https://babeoriginal.com/ code ACME for 15% off Download the Match app today! Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample pack Hungryroot.com/acme for 30% off and free veggies for life   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Oct 16, 2022 • 1h 10min

How Nick Went From No To Yes ft. Nick Viall and Natalie Joy

On today’s episode, I sit down with Nick Viall and Natalie Joy. We discuss what Natalie said when she slid into Nick’s DMs, why Nick repeatedly shut Natalie down, if it’s true the worse the relationship the more it’s on instagram, their biggest insecurities, their engagement timeline, if a girl can change a guy’s mind about proposing, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss meeting SO’s friends if you don’t drink, how to act when you run into an ex, what to do if you missed a kissing opportunity, cheating red lines, your 20s and overcoming the stigma of going out all the time, and sex life in an LTR.    Buy Nick’s book!   Sponsors: https://babeoriginal.com/ code ACME for 15% off Getmaude.com/ACME for 15% off your first order on all products with code ACME Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Get filtered shower water at jolieskinco.com or follow on IG @jolieskinco   Produced by Dear Media.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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