The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 6 In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. In this episode, we are talking about the dangers of trusting in your feelings.Quick Quotes: The world says to follow your truth & follow your feelings but this is a dangerous thought. Your feelings were not meant to be your guide. If you follow your heart, it'll always lead you to the right place, true in Hallmark, not true in real life. When you dig to the root of "I'm not attracted to my spouse anymore" maybe the answer is that you've allowed your eyes and heart to wander away to other people & other things. ----For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's special Hump Day Episode we are interviewing Blake Guicet, or The Girl Named Blake. Blake has an awesome podcast were she tackles hard topics and answers questions the church isn't always willing to talk about. We know you will be blessed by this interview, and you'll laugh a lot.Learn more about Blake here: https://thegirlnamedblake.com/------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 5. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. In this episode, we are talking about keeping score in your marriage.Quick Quotes: Scorekeeping: Keeping an invisible scorecard where you are always winning and your spouse is always losing. You are keeping track of their wrongs and justification to do your own thing. Reminder: you are scoring your marriage together, not scoring your spouse. ----For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's special Hump Day Episode we are interviewing our friends Jeremiah & Mo AikenLearn more about their ministry here: https://www.instagram.com/5thwheelmissions/------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 4. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about love vs leftovers. How much of your energy are you giving to your spouse every day? Do they get your best or do they just get whatever you have left at the end of the day?Quick Quotes:We don't want to give our spouse our leftovers in how we treat them, we want to give our spouse our best time not give our best to strangers. Signs you are giving your spouse leftovers: Coming home angry or apethetic Taking on hours / or things that take away from family time. ----For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's Hump Day question: Can I force my husband to come to church with me? On today's episode, we are joined by our friends Chris & Paulette Monroe to help us answer today's question.------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 3. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about what you should do when your kids are having a negative impact on your marriage.Quick Quotes: One of the best gifts you can give your kids is the gift of a great marriage. Whatever we feel like we are winning at, is what we try to lean in to, but what happens when we do this with the kids is that we sabotage their launch into adulthood. ----For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's Hump Day question: How do we both climax during sex?------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Habits that Lead to Divorce // Episode 2. In this series, we're outlining 9 habits that we have seen lead to divorce. On this episode, we are talking about the his and hers trap. Is everything in marriage to be shared, or are there things can be just the husbands or wife's?Quick Quotes: Pride is the root cause of divorce one way or the other. Stay connected during the day and find rhythms that makes sense for you as a couple Talk about the habits that you have to get consistent for you to forge new habits together. ----For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We will be back with more of your questions next week but wanted to share a special interview with our great friends Scott & Vanessa Martindale. The Martindale's just released their amazing book "Blended & Redeemed" this week and we want you to go grab a copy! Scott & Vanessa run the non-profit Blended Kingdom Families where they are bringing hope to blended families.Even if you aren't a blended family, you probably know someone that is and this resource would be a great gift to help them in their step-parenting.--Buy the book here: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/new-release-preorders/products/blended-redeemed--For all other links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices