

Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships
George Lizos
Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nov 7, 2025 • 49min
Ep.73: The Truth About STIs, PrEP & Sexual Health with Christos Krasidis
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this candid and educational episode, we unpack the facts and myths around sexual health, HIV prevention, and STI testing. Christos Krasidis joins me for a practical, stigma-free conversation about what it really means to take care of your sexual health in today’s world. We explore how to spot early STI symptoms, when and how often to get tested, and why testing regularly should be treated as an act of self-care rather than something to feel ashamed of. We also break down the differences between PrEP, PEP, and condoms, discuss who should consider which option, and talk about the emotional side of sexual health — from handling a diagnosis to reducing fear and anxiety. Whether you’re curious about prevention, looking to build more confidence in your sex life, or ready to drop the shame around testing, this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and inspired to take charge of your wellbeing. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT CHRISTOS KRASIDISChristos Krasidis is an activist, professional trainer and international consultant for sexual health, combination prevention and human rights. He is currently the Chairperson of the AIDS Solidarity Movement in Cyprus and has served as the Steering Committee chairperson of AIDS Action Europe and a member of the Steering Committee of “Cobatest”, a network of organisations across Europe that offer community-based voluntary counselling and testing (CBVCT) services. He is also an active member and trainer of EATG (European AIDS Treatment Group) since 2018, and participates as a community expert in the ECDC EU/EEA Sexually Transmitted Infections Network Coordination Committee (STI NCC), and in WHO Europe’s informal workgroup for MPOX.He is a Community Health Worker at the Cy Checkpoint, a PrEP peer-consultant at the Cyprus PrEP Point and the Communications Representative for AIDS Solidarity Movement.Website: http://cycheckpoint.org/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cy.checkpoint?igsh=MTF5NTB6enA1N3Zvcg==CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 24, 2025 • 58min
Ep.72: The Psychology of Heartbreak with Cole Zesiger
In this engaging discussion, breakup and relationship coach Cole Zesiger delves into the emotional landscape of heartbreak. He explains why breakups can feel akin to life-or-death experiences. Listeners learn about the no-contact rule as a necessary detox and how micro-wins can reignite personal strength. Cole also shares insights on grieving without getting stuck and the transformative journey of love post-breakup. His practical tools and relatable stories offer a refreshing perspective on healing and self-growth after relationships.

Oct 10, 2025 • 36min
Ep.71: Healing After a Breakup – My Twin Flame Journey and the Lessons It Taught Me
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, I open up about my recent breakup and the emotional and spiritual healing that followed. It was my first real heartbreak, and navigating the grief, confusion, and contrast of losing someone I loved deeply taught me profound lessons about love, self-awareness, and growth. I share what it’s like to end a twin flame relationship, the karmic contracts behind it, and how heartbreak can become a powerful catalyst for inner healing. If you’re moving through a breakup or feeling the pain of letting go, this episode will help you find meaning, peace, and strength in your own healing journey.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipEp.8 –Dealing With Unrequited Love: My Best Friend and I Share Our Story: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0deEp.18 – Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas: https:://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d4CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 23, 2025 • 34min
Ep.70: Healing in Relationship – The Inner Work You Can’t Do Alone
Dive into the complexities of relationships as the hosts explore whether love alone is enough to sustain a partnership. They candidly discuss navigating monogamy versus non-monogamy, sharing personal experiences with jealousy and commitment fears. The episode highlights the challenges of differing lifestyles and conflicting goals, while emphasizing the inner work required to foster growth. Listeners also learn about overcoming performance anxiety and the importance of communication in maintaining intimacy.

May 9, 2025 • 28min
Ep.69: How I Manifested My Ideal Partner (Step-by-Step)
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this solo episode, I share the real story behind how I manifested my ideal partner—without dating apps, timelines, or forcing anything. I open up about my past struggles with love, trauma, and limiting beliefs, and how the heartbreak eventually led me to surrender the search entirely. Instead, I focused on exploring my sexuality through Can’t Host, doing deep inner work, clarifying what I truly wanted, and trusting my unique path. Three years later, love found me. If you’ve ever felt like giving up on dating, this episode is your permission to let go, tune in, and magnetize the love you deserve.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipEPISODES MENTIONEDEp.2. – The Problem with Top/Bottom: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0e4Ep.18 – Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas: https:://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d4CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 25, 2025 • 30min
Ep.68: Bisexual in a Straight Marriage with Wayne Scott
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this deeply honest episode of Can't Host, writer and therapist Wayne Scott opens up about the complexities of queer identity beyond binary labels like "gay" or "straight." Reflecting on his journey of coming out later in life while raising children and navigating a heterosexual marriage, Wayne shares the nuances of bisexuality, the pain of having his truth oversimplified, and the liberation found in embracing his queerness. We explore how shame has shaped—and ultimately evolved—his story, what it means to not “queer correctly,” and how he’s reclaimed his narrative outside the confines of traditional queer tropes. For anyone questioning their identity within a straight relationship, this episode offers profound insight, compassion, and hope.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT WAYNE SCOTTWayne Scott’s writing has appeared in The Sun, Poets and Writers, The Psychotherapy Networker, Huffington Post, and The Oregonian, among others. His New York Times essay, “Two Open Marriages in One Small Room” (January 2020) was adapted for the Modern Love podcast and read by Edoardo Ballerini (summer 2021). He is a writer, psychotherapist, and teacher in Portland, Oregon.Website: https://www.waynescottwrites.com/Instagram: @waynejosephscottCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 11, 2025 • 40min
Ep.67: Kinks, Fetishes, and Fisting Training with Alexander Cheves
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this raw and radically honest episode of Can’t Host, I’m joined by sex writer and activist Alexander Cheves—author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions—to dive deep into the world of kink, fetish, and fisting. We explore the psychology behind bottoming anxiety, how to train for intense sexual experiences, and the sacred role kink can play in healing shame. From his evangelical upbringing to becoming a national voice for queer erotic liberation, Alexander opens up about sex work, substance use, and the fears many gay men carry around their bodies and desires. This is an unfiltered conversation about reclaiming pleasure, breaking taboos, and turning your kink into a path of self-love.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT ALEX CHEVESAlexander Cheves is a Berlin-based author and sex educator. He writes the "Last Call" sex and culture column for Out Magazine and is the author of "My Love Is a Beast: Confessions," an erotic essay collection from Unbound Edition Press, and his next book will come out in the fall of 2026. Website: http://alexcheves.com/Instagram: @badalexchevesEPISODES MENTIONEDOrgies, Sex Parties and the City: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/67065c2447b414d1544aa774Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 28, 2025 • 40min
Ep.66: Somatic Sex Secrets for Deeper Pleasure with Court Vox
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/What if the key to mind-blowing sex isn’t a new position—but a deeper connection to your body? In this juicy episode, somatic sex coach Court Vox breaks down the transformative power of touch, breath, and body awareness in unlocking deeper pleasure, healing sexual shame, and getting out of your head and into your crotch. We talk mindful masturbation, breathwork for better orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, and how to use somatic practices to create more intimacy—solo or with a partner. If you’ve ever felt disconnected during sex or want to feel more, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and turn yourself the f*ck on.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT COURT VOXCourt Vox is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coach, Surrogate Partner, and the Founder of The BodyVox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, he helps clients overcome limitations and shame, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with their whole selves. Website: http://www.thebodyvox.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodyvoxCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Mar 14, 2025 • 30min
Ep.65: U=U, Dating Poz, and Breaking HIV Stigma with Adrian Posea
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, HIV advocate Adrian Posea shares his journey of living Poz with pride, breaking stigma, and navigating dating and relationships with an undetectable status. We explore the emotional impact of an HIV diagnosis, the realities of disclosure and rejection, and the misconceptions around U=U. Adrian also opens up about his work in LGBTQ+ activism, the lessons he's learned from different cultures, and the importance of self-acceptance, offering a candid and empowering perspective on life with HIV.Adrian's Instagram: @adrianposea89CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 28, 2025 • 50min
Ep.64: Psychic Medium Channels the Spiritual Mission of Queer People with Anthony Zambito
Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, psychic medium Anthony Zambito channels messages from spirit guides and ancestors to reveal the deeper spiritual mission of queer people. We explore the unique gifts and sensitivities of queer individuals, past life connections, breaking toxic relationship patterns, and the role of queer love in spiritual evolution. Anthony also shares spirit’s perspective on soulmates, open relationships, and sex, offering a fresh and empowering look at queerness through a spiritual lens.Episode 27: The Benefits of Being Single - https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0cbAnthony's Psychic Medium Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sotto.cielo.psychic/Anthony's Performance Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anthonyzambito/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


