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sarah pan
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Oct 24, 2025 ⢠28min
a quick life check-in
anybody else feeling kinda overwhelmed by the end of the year? today we chat through it all and catch up a little on life updates, small businesses, the struggle of figuring out consistent self-care, and the big question: am i actively participating in my own life? so grab your mugs and... let's check in!today's specialty drink on the menu: iced lattechapters(00:00:00) intro(00:00:59) new here? welcome!(00:01:49) seasonal depression got handsā¦(00:02:54) drink of the day(00:04:41) biweekly check-in(00:09:12) (not our) wedding storytime(00:11:59) the small business owner life(00:14:53) am i actively participating in my own life?(00:17:56) life audit(00:20:07) we want your feedback!(00:20:49) new pawducer?(00:22:02) small business launch(00:25:42) closing thoughts

Oct 17, 2025 ⢠47min
my stalker is writing me poems⦠| reading your halloween horror stories
welcome back ~ghouls & goblins~ this time, our special guest for our second halloween special is...you! today we're delving into your horror stories involving creepy men, roomate dramas, and a lot more things that now keep us awake at night (jk). so grab your mugs, dim your lights and get ready to be (slightly) horrified.at least we were.today's specialty drink on the menu: english breakfast teachapters(00:00:14) intro & life updates(00:05:52) our costumes(00:07:56) drink of the day(00:09:09) pregnancy scare š³(00:12:21) mean manager story(00:14:25) i have a stalker who writes poems?(00:17:50) no dignity, no bra & no explanationā¦(00:21:33) āwhere my hug atā guy (scary)(00:23:47) men are scary(00:25:48) moose is now a male podcaster(00:26:13) tea gathering (except no one is coming)(00:31:53) surprise family trip breakup(00:35:52) friend roommate drama(00:37:33) our horror roommate experiences(00:41:10) marital drama & childhood stories(00:43:53) parting words(00:46:02) bloopers

Oct 10, 2025 ⢠57min
are you humble or just holding yourself down?
james is back once again and looking BALDER than ever šØā𦲠to start of our halloween series we bring you one of the scariest topics of all: pride & humility. today weāre diving into family beliefs on being humble, our experience with pride in social situations, how the workplace mindset might be holding us back and why it is so scary to sometimes justā¦be proud about yourself!today's specialty drink on the menu: pumpkin spice cream sodachapters(00:00:18) intro(00:03:59) our costumes(00:07:40) drink of the day(00:08:00) the pant mug!(00:09:00) pride vs humility(00:10:41) jamesā background on humility(00:11:45) corporate talk(00:14:53) sarahās first commission(00:17:02) is pride just a social thing?(00:19:44) how prideful are you āallowedā to be?(00:22:08) sarahās background on humility(00:23:52) do you sometimes not want to be seen?(00:25:37) being āfake humbleā(00:27:56) performance anxiety(00:30:45) tiptoeing around accomplishments(00:32:11) intermission(00:37:48) your circle really matters(00:42:53) linkedin talk(00:43:37) trying to find the balance(00:47:05) being strategic (the summary)(00:53:00) outro(00:56:09) bloopers

Oct 3, 2025 ⢠35min
I quit my tech job to make pants (update)
james is back!! today we chat with our favorite co-host about his brand launch, how quitting his job is going 1 year later, and what we missed this summer after being away ~ so strap in, grab your mugs & let's chat! :)today's specialty drink on the menu: soy milkchapters00:00:00 preview & intro00:03:54 drink of the day 00:04:57 james's career backstory00:09:27 navigating multiple interests 00:12:29 speed of execution00:13:32 moose intermission00:14:14 james's spiritual awakening00:16:00 a chat about confidence00:18:42 james got a mullet!00:20:41 summer: the turning point00:27:37 sarah's personal growth00:30:20 long term direction00:33:59 bloopers

Sep 26, 2025 ⢠1h 37min
joma tech on quitting his 2M YouTube channel, going back to corporate & getting married
today is a special guest episode with joma! with his recent comeback to YouTube, some big life updates and changes that may or may not include corporate life AND a wife, joma is here to explain what he's been up to the last 2 years and why he left so abruptly ~ so grab your mugs and join us for a fun convo :)today's specialty drink on the menu: shirley templejoma's page: https://www.youtube.com/@jomakazemosaic styles app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/mosaic-styles/id6746295487chapters(00:00:00) preview(00:00:19) intro(00:03:08) who is joma?(00:07:05) what do you call yourself?(00:12:48) joma's comeback video(00:16:37) drink of the day(00:17:18) first impressions(00:20:30) why did you quit?(00:23:29) joma's wife & life while on hiatus(00:25:04) turning down six-figure film deals(00:27:06) recruiting again for tech jobs(00:29:49) working in corporate & a chat about privilege(00:34:29) navigating depression(00:38:08) skillsets & turning down a film deal(00:40:43) how much are your videos inspired by your life?(00:44:42) joma doesn't like acting(00:53:36) collaborating with composers(00:55:31) using AI for video production(01:00:23) mosaic styles app(01:04:32) intermission!(01:06:12) hotseat(01:14:00) joma's sciatica(01:15:37) sarah's tabi, burnout & overworking(01:21:22) what's next for joma?(01:28:24) online comments, hate & negativity(01:31:03) putting effort into your craft(01:34:56) any parting words?(01:36:36) bloopers

15 snips
Sep 19, 2025 ⢠53min
the 10 rules of starting over in life
Exploring the ten rules for starting over in life, the discussion highlights the importance of reducing noise for clarity and embracing the necessary purge of old habits. From decluttering with the BOGRO method to climbing your personal 'second mountain,' listeners learn why healthy grieving is vital in transitions. The conversation emphasizes curating influences, caring about personal appearance for confidence, and experimenting with identity during changes. By trusting in neuroplasticity, the journey of evolution becomes exciting!

Jun 6, 2025 ⢠7min
*SOJU WITH SARAH* SEASON 1 BLOOPERS
a little extra drop for our soju shotties! ā¤ļø

May 23, 2025 ⢠1h 19min
drinking a whole bottle of soju together (season finale!)
to all my soju shotties listening ā THANK YOU ā¤ļø for the last year Iāve spent every week with you all and spilled some of my most inner thoughts and feelings to what I believe is the kindest and most amazing community out there. thank you for sitting through these long chats, sharing your stories and always letting me connect with you guysl! I never thought weād make it to 50 episodes but here we are and Iām excited for whatās in store for season 2 š„¹ until then, stay awesome & have a GREAT SUMMER (HAGS, as we used to say in school !!)today's specialty drink on the menu: raspberry yakult sojuchapters(00:00:00) intro(00:05:38) our pawducers!(00:08:00) are you happier now?(00:19:27) best things this season(00:26:18) intermission(00:28:54) juices with james(00:35:54) claymaking(00:36:30) so true with sarah(00:43:16) hotseat(00:47:00) truth or drink(00:58:10) sponsor?(01:00:14) awards!!(01:10:32) sappy thank yous(01:18:29) bloopers

May 16, 2025 ⢠54min
why im ending the podcast (and the biggest lessons iāve learned)
hello soju shotties! today we're breaking down some brutally honest stories & lessons that I learned through starting soju with sarah this last year ~ this has been one of the most meaningful things I've done in my adult life and I'm so happy to have shared so many episodes with you all as we navigate shared experiences of adulthood ā¤ļø regardless of where you found this podcast on your journey, thank you for being here and allowing me to do this every week! it's been truly such a blessing :) I can't wait to catch y'all next week in the last episode of the season ~today's specialty drink on the menu: green teachapters(00:00:00) intro(00:03:07) what is it like starting a podcast?(00:03:38) don't let planning get in your way (+ podcast origin story)(00:12:27) just because you start somewhere, doesn't mean you land there(00:15:49) self-imposed ceilings(00:18:30) the respect for "silent work'(00:22:20) copying as a creator(00:24:03) juices with james(00:29:40) the pressures of going viral(00:31:46) transparency around work-life balance (recently)(00:36:04) lead the life you want to share(00:39:18) think like an artist(00:42:13) figuring out your niche as a podcaster(00:45:12) finding the "why" in everything you do(00:50:39) TO MY SOJU SHOTTIES: THANK YOU!!(00:52:13) what's next(00:53:54) bloopers

May 9, 2025 ⢠38min
*chaotically* reading your honest assumptions about us
hey all you soju shotties! welcome to the 3rd to last episode of season 1 -- today we read assumptions about us and debunk what's true vs false. thanks for tuning in and have a wonderful soju friday :)today's specialty drink on the menu: rice milkchapters(00:00:00) preview(00:00:53) intro (00:03:57) episode topic(00:05:14) drink of the day(00:05:47) vanilla vs. kinky(00:06:26) moose's tax fraud (00:06:53) our arguments(00:09:54) who wears the pants?(00:12:51) video games(00:14:06) homebodies (00:20:38) who is the provider? (00:23:58) do we touch butts? (00:25:48) baby voice(00:28:23) friend zone(00:28:56) who's the better cook?(00:31:03) marriage(00:32:44) saying sheesh and dabbing(00:34:48) outro(00:36:41) bloopers


