

Unlocking Greatness with Ryan James Miller
Ryan James Miller
Unlocking Greatness dives into the depths of personal and professional development, guiding Purpose-Driven Achievers on their journey to success. This podcast is dedicated to those who intertwine their faith, family, and professional aspirations, seeking to pursue their highest potential in all aspects of life.
Each episode of Unlocking Greatness features insightful conversations with industry leaders, influencers, and difference-makers who exemplify greatness in their fields. We explore their paths to success, the challenges they’ve overcome, and the faith and meaning that guides them. Our guests share not just their achievements, but also the wisdom they've gleaned in aligning their careers with the rest of their lives.
As your host, I bring my own experiences to the table, offering practical advice and strategies to help you navigate the complex balance of professional ambition, personal growth, and spiritual fulfillment.
Join us as we dive into powerful stories of resilience and purpose-driven achievement. Each episode is an opportunity to learn, grow, and take one step closer to unlocking your own greatness.
Unleash Your Potential, Live Your Faith, Achieve Greatness!
Each episode of Unlocking Greatness features insightful conversations with industry leaders, influencers, and difference-makers who exemplify greatness in their fields. We explore their paths to success, the challenges they’ve overcome, and the faith and meaning that guides them. Our guests share not just their achievements, but also the wisdom they've gleaned in aligning their careers with the rest of their lives.
As your host, I bring my own experiences to the table, offering practical advice and strategies to help you navigate the complex balance of professional ambition, personal growth, and spiritual fulfillment.
Join us as we dive into powerful stories of resilience and purpose-driven achievement. Each episode is an opportunity to learn, grow, and take one step closer to unlocking your own greatness.
Unleash Your Potential, Live Your Faith, Achieve Greatness!
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Dec 8, 2018 • 43min
What Do I Do With Failure
On this episode of the Exsellence Mindset podcast, I am talking failure and what to do about it.
As we accept the inevitability of failure, we need to:
Make sure it doesn’t define you.
Not allow it to discourage us.
Keep making attempts.
Enjoy this episode and as always, I look forward to your feedback.
Also, I mention a few things in the podcast that I want to connect here.
My superstar golf coach – Max Allen, Golf Code 360 – @maxagolf
Personal brand superstar – Brittany Krystle – @brittanykrystle
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Connect with me online:
Website – https://ryanjamesmiller.com
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/rjmsalespro
Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/millerryan78/
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/rjmsalespro
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Nov 29, 2018 • 40min
Business plans and 3 successful goal strategies
I took to Instagram and asked my followers what questions they had related to achieving goals in business.
It’s the end of the year and it’s time to start talking about goals right? Kind of. Now is the time to DO something about goals. If you are at all like me, talking about things (like goals) doesn’t accomplish much. When it comes to goals, it is too easy to:
Talk about them but never take action.
Set them and forget them.
Set wrong ones and miss them.
In order to set goals AND achieve them, you need these 3 things.
Right perspective
Serious motivation
All-star tools
I also talk about evaluating your long-term business plan and/or strategy. This isn’t a set it and forget it so what must you do?
Enjoy this episode and as always, I look forward to your feedback.
Connect with me online:
Website – https://ryanjamesmiller.com
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/rjmsalespro
Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/millerryan78/
Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/rjmsalespro
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Nov 12, 2018 • 28min
Why Motivation Sucks
When people hear ‘motivation,’ they often think of classic incentives like bonuses, extra paid time off, and maybe the super-powered inspirational talk.
In truth motivation is elusive, because it so often depends on the individual and what makes them tick at any given moment.
And that’s why motivation sucks! In this episode, answer these main questions:
Why does motivation suck?
How do we get to the why?
How can we align what we want with what they want?
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Nov 6, 2018 • 53min
Exsellence in Personal Branding
Your success or failure in life or business depends on how you perceive yourself. Dr. Natalia Wiechowski is an internationally known keynote speaker who specializes in personal branding. She is also a LinkedIn marketing strategist. Dr. Natalia believes that how you view, treat, and regard yourself permeates all aspects of your personal life, career, or business.
Join us in this episode of the Exsellence Mindset as Dr. Natalia highlights the importance of digging deep in knowing who you are. She wants people to define their long-term goals, reinvent themselves for the better, and adapt to change. Be sure to listen to one of the most poignant points in this podcast about the ideal attitude towards change, which is a painful, messy, and uncertain process.
2:00 – Who is Dr. Natalia Wiechowski?
5:28 – The Birth of an Inspiration to Help Others
6:39 – Being Great at What You Do Doesn’t Always Translate to Success
7:15 – Success and Rewards Depends on How You Brand Yourself
9:04 – Know Your Why, Define Your Long-Term Goal
9:50 – Do You Know Who You Really Are?
11:37 – The Need to Harmonize With The Person You’re Helping
12:21 – Reinventing Yourself
18:37 – Changing Your Approach to People and Organizations
22:41 – Taking on Challenges, Doubts, and Fears with a Positive Mindset
29:15 – Surrender to the Certainty that You Can Do It
31:30 – Failure is an Opportunity to Learn and Grow
34:16 – Pain Prompts Change, and Change is Painful
37:20 – Don’t Judge Yourself. Just Let Go
41:05 – Being Open to Other Options, Reasons, and Interpretations
42:50 – What People Think: Should You Care?
46:50 – Natalia’s Goal of Writing Books
47:55 – Greatest Regret: Trying to be Everyone’s Darling
48:29 – Greatest Fear: Getting Out of the Comfort Zone so You Can Go Somewhere
To learn more about personal branding, get in touch with Dr. Natalia Wiechowski using the following contact details:
Email – action@thinknatalia.com
LinkedIn Profile – https://www.linkedin.com/in/nataliawiechowski/
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Oct 22, 2018 • 57min
Exsellence in Emotional Intelligence
By nature, humans are emotional creatures. Even in business, it is impossible to take emotion out of the equation. How you manage your emotions can make or break your professional growth.
Kris Macchiarola is an emotional intelligence (EQ) champion who specializes in creating business cultures where team members feel engaged, energized, and motivated. She is a professional coach who focuses in bringing the human factor in an otherwise supposedly emotionless business environment.
In this episode of the Exsellence Mindset, Kris discusses the role of emotions in the workplace. She talks about the importance of EQ and IQ and how these affect personal and professional growth as well as overall business culture. Kris also explains how the human mind works, how to manage emotions constructively, and how to set goals.
2:55 – Who is Kris Macchiarola personally and professionally
3:49 – Separating Emotions in Business is Impossible
6:09 – How Kris Championed Emotional Intelligence and Quotient
7:00 – Top Performers and their Emotional and Social Skills
10:44 – Real Hindrances to the Application of Psychology to Professional Development
12:40 – Financial Incentives Relating to EI and EQ
14:49 – How Our Brains are Wired for Safety, Security, and Survival
16:53 – Seeing Your Blind Spots through Other People’s Honest Feedback
18:55 – Triggers to Emotion: A Tale of Two Daughters
23:35 – What Happens When We Assume Bad Intentions
25:43 – Planning Your Conversation: Reducing Emotional Response
27:32 – Definition of Success and How Do You Measure It
31:17 – Kris’s Contract With Herself
32:45 – “It’s maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t really you so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.”
34:00 – Ripping and Burning Out What’s Not Needed In Your Personal Unwritten Rulebook
36:47 – The Importance of Writing It Down
40:09 – The Disparity Between Inner Truth and the Way You Want to Project
42:14 – The Imposter Syndrome
43:54 – Using Fear, Trusting Others, Being Optimistic, and Grabbing Opportunities
47:55 – Go Ahead and Invest in Your Dreams and Passions
48:40 – Hard Work, Success, and How to Handle Success
To get in touch with Kris, use the following contact details:
Website: https://kmaccsolutions.com/
Email: kris@kmaccsolutions.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedincom/in/kris-macchiarol
Instagram: @kris_macc18
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Oct 3, 2018 • 56min
Exsellence in Creating an Amazing Client Experience
What you wear speaks a lot about you.
Meet Dave Welch, a fashion analyst, chief image officer, and founder of b.spoke Clothing. Wanting to make the world a better place one better-dressed person at a time, he and his team make sure that clients get an awesome experience. His company is not just about selling great-looking garments.
In this episode of the Exscellence mindset, Dave provides insights on the importance of looking good so you’ll feel sure and confident about yourself in every situation. He explains their “product of your product” approach, which identifies the core advantage that the customer will be getting if he purchases your product. As an entrepreneur, Dave also emphasizes the importance of both genuine client and team interaction.
Finally, Dave shares awesome tips on men’s fashion and branding yourself through the clothes you wear.
2:36 – How does b.spoke Clothing work?
5:55 – The Product of Your Product
9:15 – A Personal Story: How Dave Entered into the Custom Clothing Space
13:32 – The Change of Times
14:15 – Making the World a Better Place One Better-Dressed Man/Woman at a Time
15:30 – Why Cheap Isn’t Always a Good Option
16:46 – Make Your Product an Experience, Not Just a Commodity
21:49 – Of Connections, Self-Image, and Genuineness
25:55 – Why You Should Analyze Client Interaction and Situation
29:11 – Be Genuine With Your Team
32:41 – Take Ownership for Your Mistakes and Learn: It’s More Genuine
37:52 – Tips in Branding Yourself Through Your Wardrobe
44:36 – The Right Fit For You Is Everything
51:12 – The Evolution of “Bespoke”
To get in touch with Dave and b.spoke, use the following details:
Website: http://bspokestyle.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bspokestyle
Instagram Profile – @bspokestyle
Email: info@bspokestyle.com
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Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/exsellencemindset/
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Sep 25, 2018 • 47min
Exsellence in Real Estate Leadership
Like many successful entrepreneurs, Aaron Zapata started out working for an agency. After 12 years of helping his employer build his business, he realized it was time to follow his own path to success. Using those 12 years of experience as pillars, he established his own real estate firm, Impact Properties.
Aaron, together with his team, does not just sell dream homes. Impact Properties also provides mentorship and training for real estate agents that strive to be the best.
In this podcast, Aaron shares his knowledge about the challenges of entrepreneurship. He talks about helping others, factors that make a great leader, hope and inspiration, and more. He provides surprising yet enlightening insights to the point that he discourages you from venturing into a business that you’re not passionate about. Finally, he explains the value of a reliable team and reasons why businessmen should have people to critic their actions.
Check out this episode of The Exsellence Mindset.
1:00 – Aaron’s Journey: From Agent to Impact Properties Founder
4:25 – Why Establishing A Business of Your Own is The Right Decision
6:21 – Proving to Oneself and Helping Others at the Same Time
8:52 – Handling Disapproval and Dislikes
10:05 – Don’t be Afraid to Decide
13:06 – The Role of Family in Business
22:20 – The Value of a Trusted and Devoted Team
24:42 – In Business, You are Either All In or You are Out
29:12 – Hope vs Inspiration
34:20 – The Need for a Mentor
35:55 – The Culture of Impact Properties
40:09 – Are You Competing With Other People or Yourself?
45:04 – If You’re a Leader, You Have to Grow and Get Better
Follow Aaron by clicking on the following links:
Podcast: IMPACT Real Estate SUCCESS podcast
Email: aaron@aaronzapata.com
Web: www.impactprop.com
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Sep 17, 2018 • 31min
Beginning with the end in mind
On this episode of the Exsellence Mindset podcast, I share the fear I have of wasting my life, honesty around that fear, and ways to prevent living in mediocrity by beginning with the end in mind.
Experiencing personal tragedy and near-death caused me to reconsider where and how I was spending my time. I sought, I prayed, and eventually it caused huge changes for me.
I hope this episode helps you to consider what you are spending your time on and where you are going.
Here’s a couple links to things I mentioned:
7 Habits of Highly Effective People – Stephen Covey
Good to Great – Jim Collins
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Sep 11, 2018 • 54min
Exsellence in Marketing Acceleration
Ubiquitous yet mysterious. Simple yet complicated. Such are the mysteries of sales and marketing, the primary driving force of a business’s survival and growth.
In this podcast, entrepreneur Dennis Carlson shares his thoughts about the intricacies of sales and marketing. Being in the insurance and employee benefit industries, Dennis delves deeper into about the disconnect between sales and marketing, measuring success, pride of knowledge, and more. His insights are surely valuable eye-openers for those salesmen and marketers.
3:00 – Dennis’s Responsibility and Agency Leverage
5:15 – The Benefits and Passion of Human Relationship in the Employee Benefits Industry
9:47 – Pride and Pleasure of Having Special Knowledge
14:56 – Explaining the Disconnect Between Marketing and Sales
19:56 – Apathy as an Obstacle in Sales
22:02 – The Quality of Family Life as a Measure of Success in Business
30:26 – Show Up, Commit, and Be Passionate
36:00 – Establish a Business that You’re Passionate About
41:35 – Dennis’s Dad as a Figure of Influence and Inspiration
45:30 – Fear of Unrelentless Growth
48:54 – Just Do Something About It
51:12 – “The Hard Thing About Hard Things” by Ben Horowitz
You can check out Dennis using the following links:
LinkedIn Profile https://www.linkedin.com/in/denniscarlson/
Email: dc@agencyleverage.com
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Sep 4, 2018 • 33min
Confidence throughout the sales process
On this episode of The Exsellence Mindset podcast, I provide practical resources and debunk poor belief about having confidence throughout the sales process. This includes picking up the phone, moving the deal along, and closing the sale.
The three most important things to building confidence in the sales process are:
Be prepared
Know your stuff
Serve your audience
In regard to preparation, I mention my Meeting Prep Tool a few times. You can find it here – RJM Meeting Prep Tool
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