Order of Man

Ryan Mickler, founder of Order of Man and author on men's leadership and fatherhood, shares candid stories from his recovery and leadership journey. They cover cultural confusion about masculinity, reclaiming personal sovereignty over family and finances, the need for in-person brotherhood, and balancing ambition with presence at home. Practical, raw, and challenging conversation for men wanting to raise their standards.

A short call to stop negotiating with uncertainty and start making clear decisions. The conversation digs into how ambiguity and indecision quietly drain energy and exhaust the nervous system. It explains why courage to act on what you already know restores calm confidence and prevents resentments and bigger conflicts. Practical prompts push you to identify one hard question and take decisive action.

They tackle staying steady after divorce and why consistency matters more than chasing quick fixes. The conversation covers parenting strategies for sons and daughters, including nature-first childhoods and apprenticeship learning. They explore uncommunicated expectations wrecking relationships and how embodiment practices help regulate anxiety and improve leadership.

Paul Rosolie, explorer and conservationist who founded Jungle Keepers and lived in the Amazon to defend it. He recounts contact with uncontacted tribes, near-death wild encounters, and the shift from adventurer to land protector. Conversations cover pragmatic conservation tactics, storytelling to save ecosystems, and why defending wild places requires personal sacrifice and real-world action.

Practical rules for healthy relationship limits are unpacked with eight clear boundaries to set in personal, professional, and romantic life. Topics include reciprocity, shared initiation, flow and compatibility, realistic capacity, self-preservation, emotional regulation, when to walk away, and judging people by present behavior.

They discuss setting clear, reciprocal boundaries to prevent resentment in relationships. They talk about physical touch between men as a way to build trust and brotherhood. They cover motivating yourself with carrots versus sticks and choosing a guiding word for the year. They also tackle jealousy, social media comparison, gratitude with action, and mentoring young men through real-life involvement.

Joshua Becker, author and leader in modern minimalism, founder of Becoming Minimalist and The Hope Effect co‑founder. He explores how consumerism and algorithms manufacture desire. He talks about using purpose to filter possessions, experimenting with owning less, phone dependence, the costs of things, and how generosity and stewardship reveal when you already have enough.

Pain is inevitable, and how men handle it defines their strength. Numbing emotions and acting tough often leads to bitterness, while accepting and processing pain can fuel growth. Ryan Michler shares insightful principles on metabolizing suffering through physical actions and extracting meaning from struggles. By embracing suffering, men can evolve into compassionate leaders, turning obstacles into opportunities for resilience. Discover how to let suffering make you useful and build a stronger character.

This discussion dives into the ups and downs of testosterone replacement therapy while considering natural alternatives. The hosts emphasize the importance of rites of passage for men, framing them as essential experiences rather than one-off events. A focus on modern masculinity reveals its evolving nature amidst today’s culture. Conversations about giving advice highlight confidence and clarity, while teaching sons financial resilience is positioned as crucial for navigating future challenges. A powerful reminder unfolds: being a man is all about consistent action.

In this engaging discussion, psychologist Mark Walsh explores the disconnect modern men feel from their bodies and reality. He emphasizes the importance of embodiment in developing character and emotional resilience, using practices like cold showers and martial arts. Mark critiques modern materialism and hyper-individualism, arguing they erode community and moral values. He champions the significance of commitment over fleeting happiness and shares practical advice on reconnecting with oneself through awareness and challenging experiences.