

"Come On, Man" Podcast
Paul B.
Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.
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Sep 7, 2020 • 32min
An Intro To The Law of Attraction
This week I touch on the law of attraction
Some books I’ve read on the subject:
The Secret – Rhonda Byrne (Law of attraction)
The Power – Rhonda Byrne (Love)
Mastering The Law of Attraction – Andy Shaw
Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill – Came out in 1937
Very good book about setting definite goals and using the power of autosuggestion to plant and visualize an idea in your mind
The importance of putting emotion behind an idea, the biggest being faith
He refers to all of this as using your 6th sense to tap into infinite intelligence
Books on my to-read list
You Were Born Rich – Bob Proctor
Wallace D. Wattles Trilogy – Wallace D. Wattles – Inspired the Secret – Books came out in 1910
The Master Key System - Charles F. Haanel – Another precursor to The Secret – Published 1916
What is the law of attraction?
Wikipedia says the law of attraction is the belief that positive or negative thoughts bring positive or negative experiences into a person's life. The belief is based on the ideas that people and their thoughts are made from "pure energy", and that a process of like energy attracting like energy exists through which a person can improve their health, wealth, and personal relationships.
Why does it apply to 3% man?
Corey’s book talks about having an abundance mindset when it comes to dating women
There’s another bus every 15 minutes
Corey also has us do an exercise where we sit down and write out a list of wants and don’t wants in our dream girl and to study that list every day.
Corey also has us write out a love letter to our imaginary woman, and do it with feeling and intention. Write it in the present tense. That is all an exercise of using the law of attraction to put out to the universe, or as Napoleon Hill puts it, put it out to infinite intelligence to attract what we want.
Why it works – It’s not hocus pocus mumbo jumbo
We and everything around us is made up of energy
Powerful enough microscope you would see that your body isn’t solid, it’s made up of atoms and atoms are made up of energy.
A blade of grass outside is made up of atoms and energy
The walls around you are made up of atoms and energy
Science has been able to measure brain waves from outside the body
Krilian photography can detect energy leaving the body
Science has also been able to prove that our positive and negative thoughts can control that energy
Quantum physicists actually believe that consciousness has an impact on the universe around us.
Corey gives us an example in the book on why this works.
He says when you buy a particular car, you start noticing that same model everywhere.
A better example
After reading the book, The Power of Habit, I think a better analogy is showing the power of our subconscious mind
Ever been driving for hours to some place you’ve been to a million times?
Ever experience the feeling of getting somewhere, but you don’t remember the last 30 minutes on how you got there?
That’s because your subconscious mind went on autopilot and drove you there. It allowed you to focus on other thoughts and issues
Sometimes it happens in the shower. You zone out, and you come up with your best ideas!
Do things appear out of thin air… I’ve never seen that
Mostly comes as a divine thought or a hunch
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Aug 31, 2020 • 43min
3% Bros Group Call
This week’s episode is a real treat! It was a collaboration between Paul, the creator of the 3% Man Facebook group Chris and fellow 3% student Steve! We got together from various parts of the U.S. to discuss all sorts of things from how we got onto the 3% path, some of our dating triumphs and failures, the difference between our 3% Man Facebook group and the notorious bizarro world 3% man Facebook group out there, plus many other things. I’m sure you all will really enjoy this master mind session!
3% Man Book - https://is.gd/IBsv5h
Coach Corey Wayne’s YouTube Chanel - https://is.gd/vc3Yr7
3% Man Facebook Group - https://is.gd/PwfCo0

Aug 24, 2020 • 36min
What I've Learned About Texting - Episode 2
What I talk about in this episode:
Comment about the last episode – Great response and feedback
Update on distribution to other platforms
We’re on Apple Podcasts
We’re approved on Stitcher
Submitted to Google Play
Already on Spotify, Anchor and Player.fm
What I’ve learned about texting
Attraction grows in Space – Atomic Attraction
You have to give her room to wonder about you
Some chicks can’t handle it
"Cheri" – When I first started listening to Atomic attraction – Have to be consistent from the beginning
"3rd times the charm" chick
The best way to slow her texting down without being a dick
Don’t tell her you’re busy – I did that, she reaches out because she wants your presence. Telling her you’re busy shuts her down
Significantly space out your replies – Set a timer on your phone
Never apologize or explain
It’s perfectly fine to wait until the next day to reply
Don’t ignore her
Don’t be a robot
If you already have a date set, and she texts you in between you can’t use that opportunity to set another date… Think a little bit
Keep your responses short, but space out your replies so she knows (Or thinks) you’re busy
Mirror game
This is actually kind of fun to play
Really great for guys who are in the habit of replying too quick
It’s psychological, but you want a woman to be more interested in you than you are in her… She needs this too in order to feel invested
Take longer to reply than she does
Match her effort
Stay away from "How To Text a Girl" by Chase Amante – Garbage book.
You are not going to make a woman fall in love with you over text
Keep texting short, don’t be writing huge paragraphs.
Find a segue quickly to setting a definite date
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Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne
3% Man Facebook Group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/2382677118460934

Aug 18, 2020 • 37min
She Canceled On Me! - Episode 1
In this episode:
What kinds of things I talk about
3% man book
3% man group on Facebook
Other books I’m listening to
Law of attraction – how it applies to 3% Man
Dating experiences, and what I’ve learned
My date for tonight cancelled
She did ask to move it to Thursday
What her suggesting another date means
Shit test? Maybe
Still shows interest
What the book says about chicks who cancel
How I used to feel when a chick would cancel on me
How I deal with it now
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How To Be A 3% Man book on Amazon
Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube
3% Man Facebook Group


