Dating Beyond Borders

Marina Iakovleva
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Mar 26, 2026 • 48min

100th Episode Q&A: Podcasting, Dating & What I've Learned

100 episodes later… I’m finally answering your questions.In this special 100th episode of Dating Beyond Borders, I open up about everything: from dating and relationships to travel, podcasting, and my personal life behind the scenes.You asked about meeting people abroad, cultural differences, and what it’s really like building this podcast.Thank you for being part of this journey! I wouldn’t be here without you.Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Mar 19, 2026 • 1h 12min

Ep. 99 - Dating Spain vs the UK: Gender Roles, Long Distance and Hard Choices (Ft. Patry Ruiz)

This week, I’m joined by Patry Ruiz, a Spanish content creator from Madrid who has spent much of her life in the UK. We explore dating in Spain, her experience marrying a British man, the nuances of Spanish women, and the realities of long-distance love.Say hi to Patry: https://www.instagram.com/_patryruiz_/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Mar 17, 2026 • 12min

She Escaped North Korea But Wasn't Ready for THIS (Mini Pod)

Eunhee Park, a North Korean defector who escaped at 21, recounts rebuilding life in South Korea after fleeing. She talks about unexpected culture shock and why freedom felt harder than expected. She shares experiences of loneliness, discrimination and being mistaken for a foreigner. She also discusses healthcare surprises, missing small comforts from home, and the overwhelm of sudden abundance.
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Mar 12, 2026 • 43min

Ep. 98 - Three Expats Expose Scandinavian Relationships & Work Culture

Get 10% off your first month of therapy with today's paid partner BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/datingbeyondbordersI chat to three expats living in Sweden, Norway and Denmark about their honest experiences living in Scandinavia, from the mentality to communication differences, work culture and relationships with their partner.Say hi to Ana: https://www.instagram.com/ana.marcal/Say hi to Hendo: https://www.instagram.com/hendoinnorway/Say hi to Derek: https://www.instagram.com/derekhartmandk/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Mar 5, 2026 • 1h 10min

Ep. 97 - Dating in Mexico: Mexican Women on Machismo, Foreign Men & the “Spicy Latina” Stereotype

In this episode, I sit down with three Mexican women to discuss the truth about dating in Mexico. From dating Mexican men to the perception of dating foreigners as “upgrading,” we explore stereotypes like the “spicy Latina,” sex and taboos in Mexican culture, and how gender roles shape modern relationships in Mexico.Say hi to Amairany: https://www.instagram.com/latinalanguage/Say hi to Fernanda: https://www.instagram.com/fernandamn__/Say hi to Jennifer: https://www.instagram.com/my.deiti/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Feb 26, 2026 • 1h 23min

Ep. 96 - North Korean Defector: The Freedom Nobody Warned Me About (Ft. Eunhee Park)

In this special episode, I speak with Eunhee Park, a North Korean defector, about her escape from North Korea and her journey to South Korea.We explore the questions many people have about life inside North Korea: did she ever question the Supreme Leader? What does being “well off” actually mean in North Korea? Do North Koreans fall in love and have romantic relationships? Eunhee shares the unexpected hardships she faced after arriving in South Korea: from discrimination and intense culture shock to overwhelming freedom, endless choices, and the pressure of adapting to a highly competitive society. She opens up about the difficulty of starting over from zero, rebuilding identity, and facing loneliness in an entirely new world.Why do so many North Korean defectors struggle to feel like they belong in South Korea? What hurts the most when you leave your country behind? And what do we, living with freedom and choice, take for granted every day?Read "The Courage to Die": https://shorturl.at/edYGBSay hi to Eunhee: https://www.instagram.com/northkorea_eunhee/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Feb 24, 2026 • 8min

Dutch vs American Humor: Why They Don't Get Each Other's Jokes Ft. Double Dutch (Mini Pod)

In this podcast snippet, I speak with Derek, an American who has lived in the Netherlands for many years, about the differences between American and Dutch humor, self-presentation, and communication styles.Say hi to Derek: https://www.instagram.com/letsdoubledutch/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Feb 19, 2026 • 1h 6min

Ep. 95 - From the UK to Southern Italy: The Reality Behind the Dream (Ft. Lauren Quacquarelli)

This week I’m joined by Lauren, an English-Italian content creator who left Derby to start over in Puglia. We talk about the reality of life in Southern Italy, beyond the dream, including bureaucracy, lifestyle differences, micro-connections, and the challenge of building new friendships. We also dive into a deeper question: can moving abroad improve your mental health, or do you take yourself with you?Say hi to Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenquacquarelli/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Feb 12, 2026 • 59min

Ep. 94 - The Hard Truth About Dating in Paris: Power Games, Nonchalance, and Cheating

This week, I chat with Penelope, a French-American woman living and dating in Paris. We dive into the truth behind “the city of love”—the reality of dating in a city defined by nonchalance, where excitement often comes before commitment, and marriage and family can take a backseat to more transient encounters. We compare France and the U.S. on nuance, dating labels, and end goals, and tackle age-old questions like: Are French men great lovers? Do they cheat more? And are French women really intimidating?Say hi to Penelope: https://www.instagram.com/penelope_brg/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Feb 10, 2026 • 15min

Men on Vulnerability: Sweden vs Mexico vs Korea (Mini Pod)

In this podcast snippet, I speak with men from Sweden, Mexico, and South Korea about what makes them feel emasculated in relationships. We also talk about vulnerability — whether men feel safe opening up today, and what actually makes them feel “less than a man.”Say hi to Max:   / _maxem_  Say hi to Carlos:   / charliealbarrancomedy  Say hi to KT:   / ktpark_striking  Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram:   / datingbeyondborders  Dating Beyond Borders channel:    / datingbeyondborders  

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