Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond

I am unsure how to be in the relationship with this man whom i care deeply about but because of all thats coming to the surface around my sexuality and sense of feeling unworthy, i feel too vulnerable right now to sleep with him, but don't know how to tell him and ask for the space i need right now as its a big part of the relationship.  You said in podcast to just leave the relationship alone for now, which i agree with but unsure how to navigate this piece with him. Any thoughts appreciated. 

Listener question: You may recall our conversation regarding my dilemma about moving. In brief: my partner had asked me to marry him a few months ago and so a move was on the cards and my daughter was very unhappy about this. An update on that:  last week we moved and my daughter started her new school. Sadly she hates it. She has cried and cried and cried (as have I) the entire week. We've barely slept or eaten.  Myself and my partner have been into school and had extensive meetings and the school have put a robust system of support in place for her. My partner has been brilliant with her and of course she's getting a lot of support from me. So from that respect she is not alone. None of that changes the fact that she hates it. She says no-one speaks to her apart from one girl (but she doesn't see this girl all of the time because they are in different lessons). So she is largely alone during the days.  I don't think there is anything wrong with the school and I don't think the kids are being deliberately mean, I think she is just feeling so vulnerable, out of her depth, misplaced, scared, insecure, lost, shy, awkward etc. that it's so hard for her to connect with anyone- and of course the more she feels alone the less she feels she can join in and the worse it is- so it's a vicious cycle. She says she's living a nightmare and it's killing me witnessing it.I'm considering moving back because I can't stand to see her suffer like this but there is a part of me that knows with love and support that I shouldn't run away from the suffering, and that neither should I be taking it away from her necessarily.  My partner is not in favour of us or her (there is an option for her to live with her relative) moving back. He feels we should work through this with her and help her get to the other side. I see that point, but I am finding it very hard to see her suffer and I want to make things ok for her again.I feel so lost with this. Is there anything you can see that might be helpful? 

Can you say more about when there is a trojan horse request where the outside superficial ask is hiding a deeper, what most of us would call an unconscious, ask? For example if I were to post repeatedly in a facebook page seemingly to be helpful and really a deeper desire is to be seen or approved of. Why would we listen to, or ask for, the unconscious ask when emotions and thoughts are so transitory? Why take that unconscious ask seriously? Aren't both coming from an insecure self?

Listener question: I had a falling out with my friends several years ago. Should I contact them to try to reconcile? 

Clare said on the last webinar something like, "Nonduality teachers say there is nothing to do but there are things we can do to settle the mind.". What things can be done to settle the mind?

Listener question: what are the pros and cons of the COVID vaccine from the 3P perspective? 

In July i began to listen to the subliminal you made for me.The funny thing is that my ego construct is a bit afraid to listen to it.  It seems to me this is an attempt to control and protect the self identity..I still listen to it but i was wondering if you heard this before and what you think about this.

Finding the concept of the self being pre-programmed into the system fascinating. I can see how the incredible ability to conceptualise is key within society and all the incredible things that have come from it. But I wonder if you could talk more about  if there is a point where the evolutionary benefit of having the avatar/self is outweighed by the suffering/threat to survival of having an avatar/self. Hope this makes sense? 

In meetings at work I often find myself very self conscious and so I don’t often speak. I try to force myself to but i feel awkward and even more self conscious. How can I stop feeling like this? 

Dear Clare,If someone has spent most of their life dancing between fight, flight or freeze and living in the survival mode. It is likely that this may have taken a toll on the physical body at the cell level. If, as a result, the cells are no longer to work optimally this suggest that the cell trauma might then limit a persons connection to their 'life energy' and even an ability therefore to connect to their 'truth'. Literally, as if the cell 'processor' for truth and life energy is worn out. In your view, if the body isnt functioning very well at that cell level, does that inhibit being able to 'access the back room' and is there a place for taking things like 'bio-hack' health supplements, etc OR should we leave alone and trust that our bodies 'innate' built-in health repair system is 'on the case'. Is healing at the physical level more about letting go of the resistance and conditioned patterns and getting our minds out of the way OR does taking bio-hack type supplements, etc support us in changing conditioned patterns from stored trauma in the body.