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Everyone needs a little help being a human. From sleep to saving money to parenting and more, host Marielle Segarra talks to experts to get the best advice out there. Life Kit is here to help you get it together. Want another life hack? Try Life Kit+. You'll support the show and unlock exclusive curated playlists and sponsor-free listening. Learn more at plus.npr.org/lifekit
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Dec 6, 2021 • 22min
Coping with grief during the holidays
Pulitzer Prize-winning poet Tracy K. Smith shares her insights on navigating grief, especially during the holidays. She discusses the emotional challenges of loss during festive times and emphasizes the importance of honoring memories through rituals. Tracy highlights how adapting traditions and creating connections, even virtually, can aid healing. She shares personal stories that illustrate the balance between remembrance and embracing new practices, shedding light on how families can support each other through grief while finding solace in shared moments.

Dec 4, 2021 • 21min
How to be a kinder, more caring neighbor
Delve into the world of neighborly kindness and community connection. Discover how childhood lessons from shows like Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood can inspire small acts of kindness today. Unpack the balance of nostalgia and modern challenges in building neighborly ties. Explore how social connections enhance our well-being and tackle the concept of 'stranger danger' with empathy. Gain insights on fostering a supportive living environment through engagement and understanding, creating a safer and more inclusive community for everyone.

Nov 30, 2021 • 23min
How to decide if freezing your eggs is right for you — and where to get started
Delve into the emotional and practical aspects of egg freezing, exploring why individuals in their mid-30s might consider this option amid career and personal pressures. Listen to personal stories that illuminate motivations for fertility preservation and reflect on the unique challenges faced by the trans community. The journey is detailed, addressing age-related fertility, cultural barriers, and the financial implications. Gain insights into the technicalities of the process while navigating emotional challenges and fostering self-care throughout.

Nov 29, 2021 • 21min
How to give good advice by less fixing, more listening
Discover how to elevate your advice-giving skills through the power of listening. The discussion highlights the importance of empathy and body language in creating a supportive environment. Personal anecdotes reveal how understanding someone’s feelings can be more valuable than jumping to solutions. The conversation also emphasizes recognizing when to guide versus when to refer to professionals, making advice more compassionate and effective. Learn to enhance your conversations with impactful questions and better timing.

Nov 25, 2021 • 18min
How To Have Meaningful Conversations At Holiday Gatherings
Discover the art of meaningful conversations at holiday gatherings! Learn about the power of eye contact and boundaries to create connections. Dive into techniques for transforming small talk into deeper dialogue. Explore how digital distractions can hinder genuine interactions and master the skills to engage attentively. Uncover the beauty of embracing silence and humor to enhance conversations. Get ready to navigate festive chats with authenticity and charm!

Nov 23, 2021 • 14min
How To Make Tastier, Prettier Pies, According To A Self-taught Pie Artist
Lauren Ko, a self-taught baker and author of "Pieometry," shares her creative journey from baking simple apple pies to crafting intricate masterpieces. She recounts a humorous Thanksgiving disaster that taught her key baking techniques. Ko discusses her transformation into an Instagram sensation, while offering beginner-friendly tips like using a food processor for tart dough. She emphasizes the importance of egg wash for visual appeal and encourages listeners to share their unique pie designs, merging culinary art with social media flair.

Nov 22, 2021 • 19min
This Thanksgiving, You Can Carry On Family Recipes In Your Own Way
Chef Judy Kala, author of "Palestine on a Plate" and "Beladi," shares her culinary wisdom on recreating cherished family recipes. She emphasizes the emotional connections fostered through cooking and encourages listeners to embrace culinary imperfections. The conversation highlights the significance of preserving family heritage through meals, the power of cooking in creating shared memories, and the joy of culinary collaboration. With practical tips for stress-free holiday cooking, Judy inspires everyone to trust their instincts in the kitchen.

Nov 19, 2021 • 21min
How To Document Family Stories
Kim Hawley, founder of Strength Through Story, shares insights on the healing power of documenting family narratives. She emphasizes that learning about our loved ones helps us understand our own lives. The discussion includes practical tips for interviewing family members, highlighting the art of navigating conversations and the importance of creating a comfortable environment. Hawley also addresses mental health challenges, encouraging listeners to preserve their cherished memories before they're lost.

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Nov 16, 2021 • 22min
Remembering Petra Mayer: Everyone's a 'real writer.' Here's how to write that book
Celebrate the legacy of Petra Mayer, who championed the idea that anyone can be a 'real writer' simply by writing. Discover methods to overcome self-doubt, including using 'time confetti' for focused writing sessions. Gain insights into balancing structure and spontaneity in your creative process. Embrace the power of constructive feedback from writing groups, while finding the courage to claim your identity as a writer. This episode is a heartfelt reminder of the passion and community that fuels storytelling.

Nov 15, 2021 • 17min
How to simplify your Thanksgiving menu
Eric Kim, a New York Times food writer and Thanksgiving expert, shares his secrets for a simplified holiday feast. He highlights the joy of spending time with family while minimizing kitchen stress. From easy recipes for salt-and-pepper roast turkey breast to make-ahead stuffing, he covers it all. Kim emphasizes the importance of Friendsgiving, nurturing chosen families, and teamwork in meal prep. With personal stories and humor, he encourages a joyful celebration that's straightforward and flavorful.


