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Everyone needs a little help being a human. From sleep to saving money to parenting and more, host Marielle Segarra talks to experts to get the best advice out there. Life Kit is here to help you get it together. Want another life hack? Try Life Kit+. You'll support the show and unlock exclusive curated playlists and sponsor-free listening. Learn more at plus.npr.org/lifekit
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Sep 27, 2022 • 22min
When something feels personal, here's how to cope
Diana Apong, a dedicated reporter and mental health advocate, dials into the conversation on coping with personal offenses. She highlights the power of mindfulness in managing reactions and the link between personal perceptions and self-worth. Experts discuss overcoming feelings of rejection and rumination while offering practical strategies like mental distancing and self-coaching. They emphasize navigating negative emotions' evolutionary roles and how moderation can enhance emotional clarity. Listeners leave with actionable tips to bolster self-esteem while minimizing the sting of external negativity.

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Sep 26, 2022 • 18min
When it comes to parenting, lead with connection
Becky Kennedy, a clinical psychologist and host of the Good Inside podcast, shares her wisdom on parenting that focuses on connection. She stresses that children inherently have good intentions and explores how empathy can transform discipline. Instead of seeking external validation, she encourages fostering self-trust in kids. Kennedy also emphasizes that it’s never too late for parents to grow and improve their relationships. Plus, she offers practical hacks from her book to enhance parenting skills, making it a relatable discussion for any caregiver.

Sep 24, 2022 • 10min
Dear LK: My parents ran a background check on my boyfriend
Nedra Glover Tawwab, a renowned therapist and best-selling author, dives into a listener's dilemma: her parents conducted a background check on her boyfriend. They explore the emotional fallout and ethical concerns surrounding trust and boundaries within families. Nedra highlights the importance of setting healthy boundaries and the complexities of navigating parental involvement in adult relationships. Discussions emphasize rebuilding trust through vulnerability and accountability, ultimately encouraging a path toward mutual understanding.

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Sep 22, 2022 • 19min
How much water does your body really need?
Aaron Scott, an expert on hydration and water balance, delves into the science behind how much water we really need. He challenges the myth of the eight-glasses-a-day rule and discusses the risks of both dehydration and overhydration, highlighting a critical incident from a marathon. Scott explains the body's intricate water regulation system and emphasizes the importance of listening to thirst cues. He also debunks common hydration myths, such as the idea that coffee dehydrates, and shares practical tips for optimal hydration.

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Sep 20, 2022 • 25min
Stuck doing all the household chores? This practical guide can help
Experts tackle the often-ignored burden of household chores, shedding light on the emotional weight of unequal labor. They propose strategies to reframe domestic responsibilities, urging open communication to foster fairness. Listeners learn to assess their roles and values to encourage equity in homes. The discussion also explores how upbringing and societal norms shape perceptions of chores, providing practical tips for balanced responsibilities. Discover how clear roles, chore charts, and accountability can create a more harmonious living space.

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Sep 19, 2022 • 16min
How to start a new job
Starting a new job can be nerve-wracking, filled with jitters and the pressure to make a great impression. The host shares personal experiences and gathers advice on overcoming anxieties and building connections with new colleagues. Patience and authenticity are emphasized as key tools for navigating this transition. Practical tips, like seeking support and staying organized, help ease the process. It's a relatable journey that reminds us we're not alone in tackling the challenges of new beginnings.

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Sep 17, 2022 • 9min
Dear LK: Do I have to read the book my husband wrote?
In this engaging discussion, award-winning speaker and licensed marriage and family therapist Kiaundra Jackson shares valuable insights into the complexities of married life. She tackles the delicate issue of supporting a partner's creative endeavors, even when preferences clash. Kiaundra emphasizes the importance of honest communication and using methods like the 'hamburger method' for constructive feedback. Listeners will discover tips for nurturing creativity while balancing personal tastes, ultimately understanding how to foster supportive relationships.

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Sep 15, 2022 • 17min
How to counteract common thinking traps
Woo Kyung-Ahn, a psychology professor at Yale and author of 'Thinking 101,' dives deep into cognitive biases that often lead us astray. She explains how overconfidence can cloud our self-assessment, using a fun BTS dance exercise to illustrate the point. Ahn discusses the psychological impacts of loss aversion, revealing why we cling to decisions despite better options. She also offers strategies to escape cognitive traps, encouraging a broader perspective for personal growth. Finally, she emphasizes active engagement in overcoming biases.

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Sep 13, 2022 • 20min
A friendship expert shares the science of making and keeping friends
Psychologist Marisa Franco, author of "Platonic," dives into the invaluable role of friendships in adulthood. She highlights how often we overlook these relationships despite their profound impact on happiness and mental well-being. Marisa shares practical tips for forming and nurturing platonic bonds, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and open communication in deepening connections. She also explores the essence of camaraderie, showing how these non-romantic ties are essential to our identities and social welfare.

Sep 12, 2022 • 9min
The omicron boosters are here. What you should know about them
In this engaging discussion, Allison Aubrey, NPR health correspondent, shares vital insights on the new COVID-19 booster shots designed to target the Omicron subvariants. She explains their availability and eligibility criteria, stressing the importance for vulnerable populations. The conversation delves into the ongoing debate among experts about the booster necessity for younger individuals and highlights the potential shift towards annual vaccinations in the future, offering listeners guidance on optimizing their protection.


