The Everyday Style School

Today, I'm pulling back the curtain to share something I've been thinking about a lot lately - which pieces of my own style advice I actually follow, and which ones I don't. As someone who gives a lot of guidance about building a better wardrobe, I think it's important to be transparent about how I apply these principles in my own life. More importantly, I want to share why sometimes breaking the "rules" makes sense, even when the advice itself is solid.Here's what I shared in this episode:Why I don't strictly follow a capsule wardrobe approach, even though I create and sell capsule guides - and how this actually makes me better at developing versatile collections that work for different women's needs and styles.The truth about my "no multiples" rule and when I break it.How I navigate shopping in February and August (months I typically tell others to avoid), and the specific criteria I use to decide if an off-season purchase is worth it.The complex relationship I have with "dressing for your body shape" guidelines, and why following them too strictly can actually hinder your style journey. I hope this episode helps you understand that style advice isn't one-size-fits-all, and that even experts need to adapt guidelines to fit their real lives. The key is to understand the principles behind the advice, and then thoughtfully adapt them to your unique situation, lifestyle, and preferences.What matters most isn't following every guideline perfectly, but creating a wardrobe that helps you live your big, rich, full life with confidence and joy.Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/style-advice-i-dont-follow

Is there ever a morning when you feel like you just don't have time to look put together? As a wardrobe stylist who's worked with thousands of women, I know that mornings can be hectic, and style often takes a backseat to just getting out the door. But what if I told you that you could elevate your style game in less than 10 minutes? In this episode, I'm sharing 10 super simple style hacks that will help you look more put together every single day – and most of them can be done in just 2 minutes or less! Whether you're heading to the office or working from home, these quick wins will help you feel more confident and stylish without adding stress to your morning routine. In this episode, you'll discover: Why outfit planning is the ultimate game-changer for your style. The "reverse Coco Chanel" rule I swear by for adding personality to your outfit. How adding subtle texture can transform your look from basic to polished, even if you prefer a minimalist style. My controversial take on the "third piece rule" in 2025, including which traditional statement pieces to avoid if you don't want to look dated, and what to wear instead. The truth about "condition blindness" and my daily 2-minute routine that keeps clothes looking expensive. I hope this episode helps you realize that looking polished doesn't have to be time-consuming or complicated.  These quick style tweaks are designed to work with what you already own and fit into your real life. Whether you implement one tip or all ten, remember that small changes can make a big impact on how you look and feel. Don't forget to tell me which tips you're excited to try over on Instagram @everydaystylewithjen. Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/10-ways-boost-your-style  

Have you ever finished a closet cleanout and found yourself staring at a pile of clothes, completely stumped about what to do with them? In this episode, I'm tackling the often-overlooked but critically important question of what happens to our clothes after we're done with them. From well-loved basics to those impulse purchases that never quite worked out, the question of how to responsibly dispose of unwanted clothing is actually a global crisis. To help us understand how we can be more responsible with our wardrobe disposal, I've invited Amelia Trumble, co-founder and CEO of Retold Recycling, to share her expertise on textile recycling and sustainable fashion practices. Here's some of what is covered in this episode: Discover why traditional donation methods aren't always the answer for certain clothing items (like intimates, worn-out basics, and damaged pieces) – and learn about a straightforward solution that can help you responsibly dispose of everything from worn-out underwear to old shapewear. Get the scoop on what really happens to our discarded clothing, including those items you wouldn't typically donate to a thrift store. Learn practical strategies that make responsible fashion choices feel achievable rather than intimidating. Embrace the "progress, not perfection" approach to sustainable fashion – because small steps in the right direction are so much better than doing nothing at all. Hear about the exciting initiatives we're planning in the Style Circle this year, including our popular Closet Clean Out challenge that helps members transform both their wardrobes and mindsets. I hope this episode helps you feel empowered to make sustainable choices with your wardrobe without feeling overwhelmed by perfectionism. Here's to making progress together, one closet cleanout at a time! Full show notes and resources: youreverydaystyle.com/retold-recycling-amelia-trumble 

Do you ever wonder if you're the only one struggling to get dressed, or if you spend way more (or less) on clothes than other people? Well, you're not alone! In this special episode, I'm breaking down the fascinating results of our 2024 Style Survey, where thousands of women shared their most honest thoughts about fashion, personal style, and wardrobe spending. Get ready for some eye-opening insights that might just change how you think about your closet. Not only will you hear how your fellow style sisters responded to the survey, but I'm sharing some insights between some of your answers and some of your struggles--turns out, there's a connection! I hope this episode helps you recognize that your style struggles are completely normal and, more importantly, that you have the power to transform how you feel about getting dressed. Building a wardrobe you love is a journey, not a destination – and you're not alone in navigating it. Let's make getting dressed something you look forward to, not something you dread! Here's some of what you'll discover in this episode: The surprising breakdown of how much women spent on clothing in 2024, with some game-changing strategies to help you become more aware of your shopping habits. Why your clothing choices matter more than you might think, and how dressing intentionally can be a powerful form of self-care. The disconnect between how women want to dress and how they actually dress, with practical tips to help you bridge the gap. Why 78% of respondents struggle to get dressed, and why having the right pieces in your closet can transform your entire approach to personal style. Value vs. Price: what truly makes a clothing purchase worthwhile? Transformative tips that can solve your struggles and improve your style.   Full show notes and resources: youreverydaystyle.com/2024-survey-results 

In this episode,  I’m sharing 10 trends for the season that you can use to look current and boost your spirits while the days are cold and short. Listen and learn what’s trending for the season and tips for making the trends work for you. Need more help getting your wardrobe looking current? Many of these styles are featured in our Winter 2024 Capsule Wardrobe Guide, available now. The Guide shows you how to combine 39 pieces (mostly basics, with a few trends peppered in) to create over 200 fab fall outfits. The Guide is available in the Style Circle membership, where you also get access to all of our Style Masterclasses, our Facebook Community, and lots of other style resources. Plus, you get our exclusive members-only podcast, The Everyday Style School: Extra Credit. This month, I’m sharing which shoes to pair with which jeans and pants--and how to show your socks in 2024. Join the membership and get everything you need to make style easy. Full show notes and resources: youreverydaystyle.com/winter-trends-2024

Are you tired of buying clothes that don't solve your style struggles? In today's episode, I'm revealing how creating a strategic shopping list will transform how you approach your wardrobe and save you money. By tuning in, you'll discover: A revolutionary approach to shopping that can help you build a wardrobe that works for your real life, not just your impulses. Six powerful questions to help you identify exactly what your wardrobe needs, from understanding your style challenges to recognizing gaps in your current clothing collection. How to prioritize your shopping list into "Needs," "Wants," and "Nice to Haves" - a method that ensures you invest in the right pieces at the right time without breaking the bank. Practical tips for diversifying your wardrobe while staying true to your personal style, including how to buy pieces that complement what you already own. A mindset shift that gives you permission to invest in the clothes you actually wear every day, rather than fantasy pieces that sit untouched in your closet. I hope this episode helps you see shopping as a strategic, empowering process instead of a source of stress. Remember, building a wardrobe that makes you feel confident is about being intentional, not perfect. Your everyday style matters, so let's make getting dressed something you look forward to! Full show notes and resources: youreverydaystyle.com/stop-wasting-money

Have you ever felt like you were holding yourself back? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Tara Mohr, the bestselling author of "Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead." Together, we dive deep into why so many of us (yes, me included!) find ourselves "playing small" in both our professional and personal lives. From staying quiet in meetings to talking ourselves out of opportunities, we explore how these patterns show up in everything we do – even in our style choices! As someone who's personally been transformed by Tara's work, I couldn't wait to bring her wisdom to the Everyday Style community and explore how playing small impacts everything from our careers to our closets. In this episode, you'll discover: Why even successful women often find themselves "playing small" and the surprising ways this shows up in our everyday lives. How to recognize the difference between our inner critic and our inner mentor. The fascinating connection between personal style and playing big – and how what we wear can actually help us step into our full potential. How to recognize when you're talking yourself out of opportunities, whether it's in the boardroom or your bedroom closet. Real strategies from Tara's internationally acclaimed Playing Big leadership program that you can start using today to show up more confidently in all areas of your life I hope this episode helps you recognize those moments when you're playing small and gives you the courage to step into your full potential – whether that's speaking up in meetings, rocking that bold outfit you've been afraid to wear, or finally going after that big dream you've been keeping quiet. If I can go from being too afraid to reach out to my dream podcast guest to having this amazing conversation with Tara, just imagine what you can do when you decide to play big! Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/tara-mohr

Do you have a favorite way to buy clothes? Do you prefer to shop online, with a glass of wine and no bra? Or do you like to put on pants and actually go to the store? When it comes to building a fabulous, functional wardrobe, is there a "best way to shop? That’s what this episode is all about! In a previous episode, I shared the difference between Hunting and Gathering, two common approaches to shopping. Today, we're digging a little deeper into just how we build our wardrobes, taking on online vs in-store shopping, and discovering whether one is better than the other. I'm sharing the pros and cons of each, and times where one shopping strategy has a clear advantage. I'm also breaking down how they stack up when it comes to saving time, saving money, building a quality wardrobe, and building a stylish wardrobe. I hope these tips inspire you to be thoughtful about the way you shop, so you can end up with a wardrobe that's perfect for you. In This Episode: The pros and cons of in-store and online shopping When online shopping is a better idea, and when in-store shopping is a better move. The one item that you should buy in-store (when at all possible) Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/online-instore-shopping

Whether you're dealing with cool mornings that turn into warm afternoons or you're stuck in a Summer rut while waiting for Fall, this time of year can be a real challenge for getting dressed. To help you make the most of fashion's best season, I've got a few simple strategies that will help you look like fall, while you're still feeling like summer. Plus, I'm sharing some key pieces from my own closet that have made this seasonal shift smoother and more stylish. Even if fall has already arrived where you are, you can use these strategies and pieces for any transitional weather--and these crazy weeks will happen again next week, so be prepared! In This Episode: Four simple steps to transition your wardrobe through changing seasons Where most women go wrong when it comes to layering, and how you can fix it My 5 essential pieces for transitional weather I hope these tips and pieces inspire you to tackle your wardrobe transitions with confidence. Remember, there's no bad weather, only bad clothing, so make sure your closet has the pieces you need to get dressed every day, no matter what's going on outside! Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/fall-transition-pieces

One of my pet peeves is experts who appear to know it all and never struggle. And in our Instagram-filtered world, this is only getting worse. But guess what? Everyone has their off days! As a wardrobe stylist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in the power of sharing our challenges to inspire and empower others, to let you know that, if you're struggling with your wardrobe, you're not alone. Because of that, today I'm sharing my personal style struggles and the steps I'm taking to overcome them.  I share my own experiences with body changes and how I went back to basics to reassess what works for my current shape. I also talk about how I tackled my shoe situation to elevate my outfits. Awareness is the first step to making meaningful changes! I hope these takeaways resonate with you and encourage you to embrace your own style journey.  In This Episode: Experts, including wardrobe stylists, also face struggles and challenges - you're not alone! The importance of giving yourself grace when dealing with body changes, and to actively seek solutions rather than remaining stuck in frustration. Upgrading foundational garments, like underwear, can significantly improve how clothes fit and feel - it's worth the effort to find the right styles. Reassess your wardrobe and be mindful of how your body shape and style preferences may have changed over time. How to build a more satisfying and functional wardrobe by identifying the reasons behind your style struggles. Your wardrobe should be a source of joy and confidence. Remember, everything in style is "figureoutable", but it starts with identifying the root of your struggles and being willing to put in the work to find solutions.  Full show notes and resources: https://youreverydaystyle.com/my-style-struggles