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What does it mean to be diagnosed with "anything but ADHD?” How many times do you have to be dismissed before someone finally listens?If you've ever left a doctor's office feeling unheard, unseen, or handed the wrong label, you're not alone.For Jessi Sorensen — TV producer, documentary filmmaker, and late-diagnosed ADHD adult — that question became the foundation for her feature documentary. Anything But ADHD follows a group of women navigating a medical system that consistently misses, dismisses, or misdiagnoses them.In this episode of Late, Not Less, host Devin Pitts-Rogers sits down with Jessi to unpack her journey: from a childhood of overachieving through burnout to avoid punishment, to a career in reality TV that was accidentally ADHD-friendly, to finally getting diagnosed after visiting six different doctors.✨Highlights ✨✔️ Why so many adults have to fight and pay out of pocket just to get a diagnosis✔️ The brain science that finally makes ADHD make sense✔️ How ADHD in girls gets socialized out of sight before anyone thinks to look✔️ The misdiagnosis pipeline and why the wrong label can follow you for decades✔️ What hyperactivity actually looks like when it doesn't fit the stereotype✔️ The unexpected ways treatment can help beyond just focus✔️ The connection between ADHD, physical health, and symptoms we're taught to ignore✔️ How ADHD traits that feel like liabilities can become unexpected strengths✔️ The workarounds, systems, and adaptations that actually make life work✔️ Why community, not gatekeepers, is the future of ADHD awareness"I could not have done this three years ago. I would cry immediately just thinking about all this shame. But I think that's been it, it's just meeting other people, learning from each other, supporting each other. That's been the best unexpected part of this whole thing." — Jessi Sorensen💬 Were you ever dismissed, misdiagnosed, or told it was "anything but ADHD"? Drop your story in the comments, your experience might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.--------------------------------------------------------------------𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗨𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗮𝗺:Jessi Sorensen: https://www.instagram.com/jessi_sorensen/Devin Pitts-Rogers: https://www.instagram.com/p0weredbyd0nuts/?hl=enNew Merch - https://www.redbubble.com/people/attndifferent/shopSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Your relationship with food and your ADHD brain are more connected than you think. 🧠🍽️Nicole DeMasi Malcher is a Registered Dietitian, Diabetes Educator, and founder of Damasi Nutrition and Eating with ADHD, a virtual nutrition practice helping neurodivergent people stop dieting, heal binge eating, and rebuild their relationship with food and body image. She discovered her own ADHD at 33, after nearly a decade as a practicing dietitian, and that diagnosis changed everything.In this episode, Nicole joins Stephen and Aaron to explore the under-discussed connection between ADHD and disordered eating, from dopamine-driven cravings and missed hunger cues to the shame cycles that diet culture makes worse. 🔄✨Highlights✨✔️ The "gremlin hormone" and how ADHD affects hunger signals✔️ Why labeling food as good vs. bad makes bingeing worse✔️ The late-night compensatory eating cycle (and how to break it)✔️ How diet culture fails neurodivergent people✔️ Why your body is the least interesting thing about you✔️ Where to start if you feel overwhelmed by all of thisThis conversation could genuinely change the way you think about food, your body, and your ADHD brain. Nicole makes a compelling case for intuitive eating as an ADHD-friendly approach that works with your neurology instead of against it, no guilt, no rigid rules, just a better understanding of what your brain actually needs.#AttentionDifferent #ADHD #ADHDNutrition #IntuitiveEating #BingeEating #ADHDFood #NeurodivergentHealth #EatingWithADHD #ADHDPodcast #ADHDWomen #DistractedEating #FoodFreedom #ADHD2025Send us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Ever wish you had a personal assistant who actually gets your ADHD brain? Sharon Pope built one.In this episode, Sharon Pope—founder of Shelpful, an AI-powered task manager designed specifically for ADHD, joins Aaron and Stephen to talk about entrepreneurship, automations, and why "stumbling to arrival" is the most honest way to describe the ADHD experience.Shelpful is an AI task management app built by and for people with ADHD. She's also the co-host of the ADHD Founders podcast (alongside Jesse J. Anderson and Marie Nguyen), where startup founders with ADHD share the messy reality of building companies while navigating their neurodivergent brains.✨Highlights✨✔️ How Sharon accidentally built the perfect ADHD tool while trying to help everyone else✔️ Why "bi-directional empathy" is an ADHD superpower (and how it drives innovation)✔️ The secret survival strategies we're no longer embarrassed about (hello, online booking)✔️ Why a messy kitchen is a sign of a delicious meal, and what that means for ADHD life✔️ Breaking free from shame around the workarounds that actually help you function✔️ The magic of ADHD conferences: interruptions welcomed and returned"A messy kitchen is a sign of a delicious meal. It means you did the work. It means you got here somehow." — Sharon PopeThis conversation is equal parts inspiration and validation. Sharon's journey from struggling entrepreneur to trailblazing founder proves that building for your ADHD brain, not against it, is where the magic happens.Stumble and arrive, because that's exactly how we're doing this thing called life. 💙#ADHD #ADHDEntrepreneur #Shelffull #ADHDFounders #TaskManagement #ProductivityTools #Neurodiversity #AttentionDifferent #ADHDPodcast #StartupLife #ADHDSupSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

This is about redefining what success means for your ADHD brain and building a life that works with you, not against you.Join Attention Different co-founders Aaron Smith, LCSW, and Stephen Tonti, MFA, for this dynamic panel discussion from the International Conference on ADHD 2025: Connect Learn Thrive (November 2025).In this panel discussion, Aaron and Stephen bring together some of the brightest voices in the ADHD community to tackle the patterns that keep us stuck, toxic productivity, languishing, and burnout, and explore what it actually looks like to flourish with ADHD.Featured Panelists:Jesse J. Anderson - Author of Extra Focus: The Quick Start Guide to Adult ADHD and creator of ADHD contentDevin Pitts-Rogers - Attention Different team member and host of Late Not LessChris Wang (Shimmer) - ADHD coach and CEO of ShimmerTrina Haynes - writer and ADHD Advocate✨Highlights✨✔️ The 5 characteristics of toxic productivity and why they resonate so deeply with ADHDers ✔️ Why typical productivity advice doesn't work for ADHD brains (and what to do instead)✔️ Understanding languishing vs. burnout, and how to recognize the warning signs ✔️ The myth of consistency and the power of persistence ✔️ How to build sustainable routines that honor your ADHD neurodiversity ✔️ Practical takeaways: habit stacking, energy management, reset points, and values-based living"We are human beings, not human doings." — Rick WarrenRemember: What we lack in consistency, we make up for in persistence. 💙#ADHD #ADHDConference #ToxicProductivity #Burnout #ADHDSupport #Neurodiversity #AttentionDifferent #ADHDCoach #MentalHealth #ADHDAwarenessSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

🔥 Why do ADHD brains thrive with movement, structure, and shared space, but stall in isolation?In this episode of Attention Different, we sit down with Elan Marko, founder of Deep Work Sprints, to unpack why so many ADHD entrepreneurs struggle to follow through, not because they lack motivation, but because they’re working against their own nature.Elan shares insights from his in-depth research on ADHD entrepreneurs and his lived experience as someone diagnosed later in life. Together, we explore why goal obsession can backfire, how momentum fuels focus, and why consistency comes from designing the right systems, not forcing willpower.The conversation moves beyond productivity hacks and into something deeper: alignment, self-acceptance, and building environments that actually support how ADHD brains work.✨ Highlights ✨✔️ Why focusing on process beats obsessing over outcomes✔️ How momentum and movement unlock focus and reduce anxiety✔️ The “rose garden” metaphor for environmental design and ADHD success✔️ How 7-day sprints and experiments build real consistency✔️ Why body doubling and connection matter more than motivation✔️ How sleep, energy, and context shape follow-throughThis episode is for you if you’re worn down by the expectation to do more and ready to build a way of working that fits your brain.🎧 Watch the full episode on YouTube @attentiondifferent and join the conversation.  💬 What environment helps you focus best?Send us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

What if ADHD isn’t something you “outgrow,” fix, or hide, but something you learn to work with?In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast, we sit down with Diann Wingert—former psychotherapist, entrepreneur coach, and host of the ADHD-ish podcast—for a deeply human conversation about adult ADHD, late diagnosis, masking, and radical self-acceptance. Drawing from decades of clinical work, research, and lived experience, Diann reflects on why ADHD doesn’t disappear with age and why some adults struggle while others thrive.Together, we explore what happens when women are diagnosed later in life, how hormones and perimenopause can intensify ADHD traits, and why so many adults are misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression instead of being properly identified with ADHD. Diann also shares powerful insights on masking: what it protects us from, what it costs us, and how unmasking (safely) can lead to deeper connection and belonging.This conversation is about understanding your brain, questioning outdated labels, and learning how to build a life that works with the mind you have, not the one you were told you should have.✨ Highlights ✨✔️ Why ADHD is not outgrown, and what actually differentiates adults who struggle from those who thrive✔️ The hidden link between perimenopause, hormones, and worsening ADHD symptoms✔️ Masking vs. safety: when hiding helps, when it harms, and how to begin unmasking responsibly✔️ Why late diagnosis often brings relief first… and grief second✔️ How ADHD is frequently mistaken for anxiety or depression, especially in women✔️ Why “disorder” and “deficit” language can quietly lower expectations and reinforce shame✔️ What radical self-acceptance really looks like for ADHD adults in real life🎙️ This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered:– “Why do I still struggle as an adult?”– “What if I was diagnosed later than everyone else?”– “Who am I without the mask?”📺 Watch the Full Episode 👉 YouTube: @attentiondifferentSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

💡 What happens when you keep moving forward… but never stop to notice how far you’ve come?In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast, we sit down with Rachel Ambrose for a deeply grounding conversation about progress, self-trust, and why so many ADHD adults struggle to recognize their own wins.Rachel shares how ADHD brains are often wired to chase the next goal, raise the bar, and dismiss effort the moment it happens. Even real growth can feel invisible when you’re constantly measuring yourself against unrealistic expectations, productivity myths, or an imagined version of who you “should” be by now.We unpack how burnout, perfectionism, and internalized pressure can keep us stuck in a loop of trying harder without ever feeling successful—and why learning to pause, reflect, and acknowledge progress is not self-indulgent, but necessary.✨ 𝗛𝗶𝗴𝗵𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀✔️ Why progress often goes unrecognized by ADHDers, even by ourselves✔️ How constantly “raising the bar” disconnects us from growth✔️ Why effort matters just as much as outcomes✔️ How burnout changes our ability to perceive success✔️ Learning to build self-trust instead of self-pressure✔️ What it looks like to slow down without giving up📺 Watch the Full Episode👉 YouTube: @attentiondifferentFind out more about Rachel and Porch Light Coaching:WelcometothePorchLight.com@Porch.Light.Coaching (Instagram)Send us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

Why do New Year’s resolutions fall apart so fast for ADHD brains?What if the problem isn’t motivation, but how we define success?In this Attention Different roundtable, Stephen Tonti, Aaron Smith, and Devin Pitts-Rogers get honest about goals, follow-through, and why “trying harder” rarely works for neurodivergent adults.This wide-ranging, candid conversation digs underneath surface-level habits and into what actually drives consistency: values, identity-based goals, energy management, and focusing on process over outcomes. From abandoned language apps and inconsistent gym routines to bass lessons, injuries, and unrealistic expectations, the group explores why intrinsic motivation isn’t reliable and what does help.✨ Highlights:✔️ Why process goals work better than outcome goals✔️ How values and identity shape sustainable habits✔️ Energy management vs. time management✔️ Why perfectionism quietly kills momentum✔️ Practical tools like habit stacking, accountability, and flexible structure✔️ Why failure isn’t the opposite of progress—it’s part of itThis episode is for anyone who’s ever thought: “I know what I want to do… so why can’t I follow through?”🎧 Listen now and rethink goals, growth, and success on your terms.Send us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

🧠 This is the part where habits get real.Part Two of the Winter Park Fireside Chats goes beyond setting intentions and dives into the hardest ADHD question of all:What actually has to change for this to stick?Around the fire, we talk openly about:Habits that quietly turned self-destructiveRelapse and why it doesn’t mean failureSobriety, substances, and self-compassionWhy consistency is hard… and persistence matters moreHow boundaries (with phones, people, and ourselves) protect energyLetting go of shame without letting go of accountabilityThis episode is all about resetting without spiraling, noticing patterns without judgment, and building habits that support the life you actually want, not the one you think you should want.✨ Highlights:✔️ Why ADHD brains are “consistently inconsistent” and how persistence bridges the gap✔️ How anger, compassion, and fed-up moments can spark real change✔️ The difference between destructive habits and unmet needs✔️ Externalizing support: accountability partners, visual cues, structure that lives outside your head✔️ Why relapse doesn’t erase progress, it clarifies itThis conversation is raw, funny, uncomfortable, and deeply human, just like ADHD itself.💬 If you’ve ever said “I was doing so well… and then I messed it up” — this episode is for you.🎧 Watch Part One & Part Two now on Attention DifferentSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent  

🔥 New Year. Old Patterns. Real ADHD Conversations.Part 1 of the Winter Park Fireside Chats brings everyday ADHD adults together, in the mountains and without scripts or shame, to talk about what actually happens after the New Year starts.We dig into:Why resolutions fall apartHow burnout sneaks inThe difference between outcome goals and process goalsWhy accountability matters more than motivationAnd how ADHD brains need energy management, not just time managementThis isn’t a “New Year, New You” pep talk, it’s a grounded, honest conversation about resetting without self-punishment, building routines that recharge you, and letting go of all-or-nothing thinking.✨ Highlights:✔️ Why process goals stick when outcome goals don’t✔️ How burnout shows up when life becomes “work → couch → repeat”✔️ The power of saying your goals out loud (even when it’s terrifying)✔️ Why failure isn’t the end—it’s data✔️ How ADHD adults can reset any day, not just January 1\Set in Tabernash, Colorado, high in the Rocky Mountains, this Fireside Chat is a reminder that you’re not broken, you’re not behind, and you don’t have to do this alone.🧠💬 If you’ve ever struggled with follow-through, routines, relapse, or burnout—this conversation is for you.🎧 Watch Part One & Part Two now on Attention DifferentSend us Fan MailWe are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.If you enjoy the podcast please like, share, and subscribe!--------------------------------------------------------------------Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV0lWgdvEhaI4p5MyxM5w3A?sub_confirmation=1--------------------------------------------------------------------Follow all of these if you want to be inspired in your ADHD journey•  Website - https://www.attentiondifferent.com•  Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/attention_different• Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/attndifferent• X -   https://www.x.com/attndifferent