The Catholic Gentleman

In this engaging discussion, Devin Schadt, an author and speaker devoted to Catholic spirituality and marriage, teams up with John Heinen to tackle the tricky topic of discussing sex within marriage. They reveal how silence can harm intimacy and the importance of open communication. Drawing on biblical wisdom, they outline how to approach discussions about desires with honesty, mercy, and kindness. They emphasize prioritizing your spouse's needs, the importance of listening, and the idea that sexual desire is a sacred gift to be embraced, not shamed.

Confusions in marriage abound as husbands and wives struggle to understand each other. The discussion reveals men's four deep needs, highlighting that intimacy extends beyond the physical. Respect emerges as crucial, as disrespect can deeply wound a husband. Insights into how beauty influences a man's spirit and the significance of partnership enrich the conversation. The hosts offer practical advice for wives to foster encouragement and support, emphasizing the power of affirmation in strengthening marital bonds.

Devin Schadt, an author and speaker dedicated to Catholic men's formation, shares wisdom on living purposefully. He discusses the importance of divine sonship and how it shapes a man's identity. Vocation, especially in marriage and fatherhood, is explored as a path to sanctity. Devin emphasizes self-sacrificial love as a true measure of authority and underscores the significance of silence and prayer for spiritual strength. He concludes with actionable advice from his book, offering a framework that inspires men to lead lives filled with meaning.

Husbands often unknowingly make their wives feel unloved despite good intentions. Unseen mistakes like neglecting emotional presence, commenting on weight, and failing to notice inner beauty can damage trust. The hosts discuss the importance of communicating effectively and prioritizing time together, emphasizing how date nights and public compliments can strengthen bonds. They explore the detrimental effects of pornography and stress mutual partnership in parenting. Listeners are encouraged to actively nurture their relationships with intentional actions.

Exploring the complex distinction between lust and love, the hosts reveal that marriage won’t automatically eliminate lustful desires. They emphasize how wives can sense when they are cherished versus objectified. Healthy attraction is discussed alongside the consequences of failing to recognize the difference, including eroded trust and intimacy. A practical checklist is provided to identify signs of lust, encouraging men to engage in self-reflection and growth. The discussion closes with a call to embrace virtue and holiness in relationships.

Charles Fraune, an author and researcher specializing in exorcism and spiritual warfare, joins to explore the unseen battles against evil. He reveals how saints act as powerful allies in spiritual combat and shares gripping accounts of exorcists invoking their names and relics. Fraune emphasizes the necessity of these saints in overcoming personal vices and the transformative journey of those, like Blessed Bartolo Longo, who have turned from darkness to light. He challenges men to deepen their spiritual practices to claim victory in their own battles.

In this discussion, Devin Schadt, an author and speaker focused on Catholic family life, delves into the hidden spiritual battles that men face at home. He highlights how demons subtly infiltrate marriages and fatherhood, undermining men’s roles. Schadt shares insights on the importance of daily prayer for men, noting that only a small fraction engage in it. He emphasizes the need for vigorous guardianship in family life, fostering trust, and nurturing deeper connections with God to combat these unseen threats.

He was a successful trial lawyer, fighting every day in the courtroom and climbing the ladder of prestige, until God spoke two simple words to him: “Just leave.” God also spoke to his wife as well! In this episode of The Catholic Gentleman, John Heinen sits down with Mike Pacer to uncover the No. 1 lesson every husband needs to hear. From leaving behind worldly success, to praying daily for his wife, to finding strength in weakness, Mike shares the raw story of how a man becomes more than a provider. His lived experience is a lesson for us all. And it will change the way you listen to God, the way you love your wife, and the way you lead your family. Find Out More from Mike Pacer Books by Mike Pacer Prayers for Catholic Men Mercy and Hope⁠ The Three Comings of Christ - Daily Meditations for Advent 5 Stones weare5stones.com Get Devin’s new book The Rule — use coupon code Gentleman20 for 20% off - https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-rule/ 🟢 Support The Catholic Gentleman and join 100s of men united in changing themselves and changing the world. Whatever your struggle, whatever your need, there is something for you: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover transformative insights on winning your partner's heart through invisible leadership inspired by Christ. Learn the significance of open communication and empathetic understanding in nurturing marital connections. Delve into the importance of daily prayer and intentional acts of love that deepen bonds, while exploring the role of personal transformation. The power of hidden sacrifices is unveiled, showcasing how small, genuine gestures can strengthen trust and intimacy. This heartfelt discussion emphasizes faith as a cornerstone in overcoming marital challenges.

Many husbands confuse authority with control, and it’s slowly killing trust in their marriages. In this episode, John Heinen and Devin Schadt unpack why your wife resists your leadership, how control is a counterfeit of true authority, and why authority, rightly lived, is a God-given responsibility that blesses and gives life. You’ll hear practical examples of the appropriate use of authority versus control over your spouse in spiritual life, finances, and parenting, along with the deeper fears that drive men to dominate or withdraw. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to lead with sacrificial love, preserve your wife’s dignity and free will, and rebuild trust even when your leadership has been rejected. QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 Join Catholic Gentleman+ – 30 SESSIONS AVAILABLE Enjoy 30 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices