The Living Waters Podcast

Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar start this conversation by talking about Luke 7:34 and how it those mocking Jesus called Him a friend of sinners as an insult. Yet, as believers, we know this to be a blessing. Jesus being a friend of sinners is central to our hope—if He wasn’t, we would be doomed. There is a blindness in sin that leads people to view themselves through their own standard, not God’s. Some resist confessing their sin, but Jesus calls us to come as we are, not try to fix ourselves first.A true friend of sinners pleads with the lost to be right with God. While people speak of Jesus' love, that doesn’t mean He ignored sin. He came with compassion, yet without compromising truth. No one can out-sin the grace of God. However, there is a lack of balance when we help others without sharing the gospel. Ministries often experience drift away from their original mission when they lose sight of this truth. The Greek word *philos* means a dear friend, and that’s what Jesus was—even to tax collectors and Pharisees. Though He was compassionate, He never compromised. Jesus’ friendship to sinners, like Zacchaeus, wasn’t approval of their sin but a call to repentance.We need to emulate Christ’s example as we engage the world. In Mark 6, Jesus taught and fed a multitude, combining good works with the gospel. We must do both. It’s easy to drift to the extremes of either isolating ourselves from the world or over compromising to fit in. Jesus showed us how to engage with the world without compromising our beliefs. He was a friend of sinners but not of sin. The story of the rich young ruler in Mark 10 shows that even when people walk away, we must still give them the truth in love.The guys talk about love as action—it costs us time, talent, and treasure. There’s a difference between being a friend of sinners and being a friend of the world. Relationships with non-believers are not dangerous if approached with purpose. Being around non-believers gives us the opportunity to share the gospel, and friendships with believers allow us to grow together in faith. We should always be rich in good works, yet maintain a tension when interacting with the fallen world. If we are not bothered by their lost state, we should check our hearts. As believers, we were once dead in our sins, which should stir a desire in us to reach the lost. Ignorance of Scripture may lead some to falsely believe Jesus is their friend, but without repentance, they will face God's judgment. This truth must drive our mission to faithfully proclaim the gospel.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

God created men and women with equal value and early Christianity elevated women in a time when women were oppressed. Misusing scripture to dominate or oppress women is a sin, and believers are called to submit to one another out of love for Christ.Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar start this conversation by highlighting an important biblical truth: God created both men and women in His image, giving them equal value. While some who claim Christianity have oppressed women, scripture itself uplifts women. Jesus brought women from the margins to Himself, and throughout the Bible, women are honored, both in the Old and New Testament. Christianity was a driving force in elevating women’s equality.The Bible teaches that men and women are co-laborers, equal before God; however, many focus on verses instructing wives to submit to their husbands, missing the broader command to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Submission in marriage, according to scripture, is about mutual care and respect. Husbands are called to sacrificially love their wives, just as Christ loved the church. This does not mean women are lesser. They are helpmates, not subordinates. A true biblical marriage involves mutual support, where men and women complement each other, serving their God-given roles.Christianity has historically elevated women, with Jesus' resurrection being first witnessed by women. While men and women are biologically different, this does not diminish their spiritual or personal equality. The Bible’s leadership structure often sparks controversy, particularly regarding the role of women in the church. Scripture designates men as the heads of households and leaders of congregations, not because women are inferior, but because of God’s commands that bring harmony when followed. Women are called to teach and lead within appropriate contexts  while men are called to lay down their lives for their wives in love and service. This structure, when followed with love and respect, reflects the unity and harmony intended by God. It calls for a humility that recognizes all people are made in God's image, deserving of dignity and care.The harmony that arises when men and women embrace their God-given roles is a beautiful picture of God’s design. Misinterpreting scripture to dominate or oppress women is a serious sin against God’s image. Men must treat women with gentleness and respect, understanding that before they are wives, daughters, or mothers, they are first and foremost God’s daughters If men have gone astray in this regard, they are called to repent and realign with God’s design, honoring the women in their lives as co-heirs of God’s kingdom.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Critics of Christianity often point to its many denominations to disprove it, wondering how Christianity can be true if there is division within it; however, these divisions arise from differences in secondary issues, not core beliefs. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar dive into how denominations represent different facets of the same faith, unified under Jesus Christ. Some groups are labeled as denominations but fall outside orthodoxy, or true teaching, but this is an exception. Ray believes denominations exist because no two people agree on everything. Yet the church's foundation is the Lord, who looks at the believer's heart. A genuine Christian is known by their separation from sin and their focus on Christ. The church isn’t a building but the people Jesus ransomed with His blood are. Our gatherings should be marked by reverence. The church is a body of believers who regularly gather, take communion, and proclaim the gospel. It’s not an amorphous institution but a community united in Christ's mission.While Christians may belong to different denominations, they are united by their shared faith. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. The beauty of the church is its universality. In Jesus' time, the idea of the gospel spreading to Gentiles was radical, and throughout history, denominations formed under God's sovereignty. Oscar gives a brief summary of church history from the time of Jesus’ resurrection to present day. Understanding church history helps us respect why different denominations arose and the reasons for divisions.Christians may disagree on topics like baptism, church government, or spiritual gifts, but they are united in the mission to proclaim the gospel. Essential doctrines—such as the virgin birth, the Trinity, salvation by grace through faith, and Jesus' death and resurrection—define Christianity and distinguish true believers. Secondary issues, such as the inerrancy of Scripture or justification by faith, don’t determine salvation. Non-essential matters, like worship style or eschatology, offer room for disagreement without breaking unity.When searching for a church, it's essential to start with their statement of faith. You may not agree on everything, but a thorough statement reveals their beliefs. Prioritize a church that emphasizes evangelism and examine the leadership structure and ensure there’s accountability. A local and available church fosters community, even when members disagree on secondary issues. Ultimately, we should receive one another under Christ’s and remain united in our shared faith.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

The New Apostolic Reformation is a movement that is leading people astray. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar discuss how this movement emphasizes personal experiences over scripture, mysticism over doctrine, and elevates modern-day apostles above the Bible. The movement’s founder believed the local church should be under the authority of apostles rather than God's Word. However, the era of apostles has passed, and constantly seeking after signs misleads believers. The NAR’s emphasis on miracles and healing often lures immature Christians away from the core message of the gospel.The NAR promotes cultural dominance, contradicting Jesus' teachings of humility and sacrifice. Jesus chose the cross over earthly power, calling His followers to do the same. While Christians should influence society, this influence must come through service and humility, not through seeking power. The NAR’s emphasis on dominance distorts the gospel and leads believers away from Christ. The NAR gained significant influence in politics and they blurred the lines between God's kingdom and human governments, adding confusion to the church’s role in society. This blending of faith with political power undermines the gospel’s focus on Christ alone.Believers are often drawn to the NAR because of its promises of miracles and personal power. The allure controlling one’s destiny is enticing, but it leads to false teachings that center on human desires rather than God’s truth. False apostles attract crowds by appearing close to God, yet their message is man-centered. This drift from the gospel prioritizes personal gain and worldly influence over spiritual truth. This creates opportunities for false conversions by promoting a watered-down gospel that lacks a call for repentance. Believers must be discerning, ensuring their leaders emphasize Scripture over personal experience and that their focus remains on the Bible. If a church prioritizes emotions and experiences over God's Word, it reflects unhealthy doctrine.Ultimately, the NAR’s focus on power and influence leads believers away from the gospel. Its emphasis on experiences leaves many feeling inadequate when they don’t manifest spiritual gifts like speaking in tongues, contradicting the promises of the Holy Spirit. Rather than seeking authority through personal power, believers should repent and return to the authority of Scripture, trusting God’s Word as their guide.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar dive into Hinduism, a fluid belief system that has absorbed various ideas over time. Flourishing in the 60s and 70s, it has become more visible in modern times. Many people believe in reincarnation, rooted in Hinduism, which starkly contrasts Christian doctrines. Hindus often revere Jesus but see Him as one among many gods. To bridge this gap, it’s important to emphasize the Christian doctrine of creation, distinguishing between the Creator and the creature, and focusing on Jesus as the Lord of all. Repentance and putting away the worship of other gods is central to understanding the Christian message of salvation. Using stories like that of Hosea may help Hindus grasp the exclusivity of Christ’s saving work.Hinduism doesn’t have a single set of rules, leading to a relativistic view of truth. However, contradictions arise, such as the persecution of Christians by Hindus. Despite this, Hinduism remains appealing to many because of its focus on self-purification. It is often considered true due to its antiquity, believed to trace back to the earliest human religions, all of which seem to seek ways to avoid death. As Christians, we understand that fear of death exists in all people, whether Hindu, Buddhist, or Muslim, until they come to know the Lord. Belief in many gods leads to worship of creation rather than the Creator. This focus on self can distort one’s view of God, yet God desires a personal relationship with us. When sharing the gospel with Hindus, it’s essential to communicate God’s love for us and His desire to be known. Christians don't need to master Hinduism; they need to be grounded in scripture. There’s much uncertainty in Hinduism, but Jesus spoke with absolute authority. Hinduism, which often involves idolatry, can hold real power, but that power is demonic.The caste system in Hinduism is linked to reincarnation, as one’s karma determines their place in society. Those outside the caste system, deemed untouchable, are denied dignity, a concept opposed to God’s word. Christianity elevates all people, teaching that each person is worthy of respect because they are made in God’s image. Jesus stood against inequity, elevating women and respecting children in ways that were revolutionary at the time. When advocating for justice and equality, one is essentially upholding Christian beliefs. Jesus brought freedom from the bonds of deception, offering truth that sets people free from inequity and spiritual bondage.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Navigating relationships with adult children requires allowing space for growth while upholding biblical values. Parents must continue to guide their children with respect, responsibility, and love, even as their roles evolve.Navigating relationships with adult children is a unique stage in life. Ray, E.Z., Mark., and Oscar share their perspectives on this issue, starting with the fact that you no longer have the same authority but still play a vital role. Mark, having heard a preacher’s advice, tells his adult children they are always welcome home for holidays and special occasions but are not expected to come. The absence of expectations can sometimes draw people closer. Putting pressure on relationships can make things awkward. Oscar, who isn’t quite there with his own children but mentors young adults, often hears their hesitation in stepping into adulthood. He encourages them to recognize the blessing of having Christian parents that care, noting that honoring your parents is commanded by God. He emphasizes that respecting parents isn’t about their perfection but rather honoring the office of parenthood.Getting children to value honoring their parents begins with early teachings of the fear of the Lord. When children grow in their love for God, they will honor their parents out of obedience to His word. For young children, parents should be diligent in correcting disrespect right away, ensuring their kids understand that rebellion is a serious matter. Disciplining with focus ensures children learn the importance of obedience and respect. As children grow older and make choices you may not like but aren’t sinful, trusting God’s plan becomes crucial. Parents should learn to let go if it’s not sinful and recognize that their children are being sanctified in the image of God. The goal of parenting is to raise young adults who are equipped to be salt and light in the world. This often means stepping back and letting them be adults, allowing them to make mistakes and grow.If the relationship with adult children has deteriorated, humility is essential. Be willing to admit mistakes and seek reconciliation. At the end of the day, young adults make their own choices, and sometimes they pull away. Oscar shares a story of a friend whose parents want to reconnect, and though it feels awkward, Oscar reminds him that his parents are meeting him where he is in life like they did when he was younger. This continued love mirrors how God pursues us. For those with adult children still living at home, maintaining respect, responsibility, and righteousness is key. Parents should continue to honor the Lord and set boundaries while acknowledging that their children are ulSend us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

While the world was captivated by the Olympics, the Living Waters team saw an opportunity to share the gospel. Despite the controversy surrounding the event, particularly the mocking portrayal of The Last Supper in the opening ceremony amongst other things, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar focused on evangelism. Thousands joined in handing out tracts, seizing the moment when the world gathered in one place.The French Olympic organizers claimed to celebrate unity, diversity, and neutrality, yet their actions, like banning the hijab, mocking Christianity, and injecting the LGBT agenda, contradicted this message. This reflects a broader issue: mankind's attempts to create a utopia on earth always fail when God is excluded. True unity and a world without discrimination cannot exist without God at the center.Ray observed the blasphemy in Paris from the United States, noting the hypocrisy in how neutrality was claimed while promoting specific agendas, such as homosexuality, without anyone speaking out. This fear of standing against popular opinions highlights an important value that is hard to put into practice. When we fear God, we don’t need to fear man. The double standard is clear—if a church mocked the LGBT community, it would be labeled hatred. This raises questions about the true meaning of tolerance. Genuine tolerance, as a gift from God, allows for disagreement while respecting the image of God in every person. However, in today’s world, tolerance is often confused with acceptance and celebration, where disagreement is not allowed.A video produced by Mark’s sons in Paris garnered millions of views, showing the incredible reach of the gospel message. The team's like-mindedness and spontaneity in sharing the gospel demonstrated their unity, a gift from God. Despite the overwhelming support for the controversial Last Supper performance, some people were open to discussing the hypocrisy it represented, showing that even in a world desensitized to numbers, individual hearts can still be reached. The guys share some of their personal experiences with the outreach. As Christians, we must capitalize on current events to share the gospel, responding not with outrage but with truth and love. The world expects Christians to be offended and outraged, but our response should be marked by righteous indignation, which stems from love for the lost, not hate. We must be humble, advocating for beauty and goodness because we serve the God of truth. Even when evil seems to prevail, we trust that God has a plan, and the gospel will not return void.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

To avoid distractions and focus on living for the Lord, Christians should practice discipline by managing their time and immersing themselves with scripture and prayer. By doing so, believers can stay present with loved ones and prioritize sharing the gospel.Distraction from focusing on the things of the Lord is a common issue. Christians aim for eternity, and to live with such focus, we must practice discipline and time management. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar agree that society today was designed to distract us. While apps promise to save time, social media is designed to keep us engaged, often leading to wasted hours. Though taking breaks is fine and sometimes needed, being defined by activities like watching movies can be problematic. Your attention is valuable; what you focus on shapes you. Those who devote their attention to the Lord and live for Him benefit greatly. Many things can distract us across different areas of life. The root of distraction is often problems with delayed gratification. Our brains seek dopamine hits, which we used to be commonly obtained through hard work. Nowadays, our phones provide a quicker source of this satisfaction and tend to seek it out more since it’s easier. To help combat this, we can give ourselves rewards after hard work to train our brains. We must be determined to deny immediate gratification for the greater good, much like following Jesus' example of determination toward the cross. We are called to present our bodies as living sacrifices and prioritize sharing the gospel.In the light of eternity, a distraction-free life leads to no regrets. We must fully commit to living without distraction and be wholehearted in our efforts. This applies to evangelism and managing distractions. Being present is a gift from God, and distractions can rob us of this gift. They not only affect us but also those around us. On the other hand, being present with loved ones sends a powerful message to unbelievers and opens opportunities for sharing the gospel.Practically, start by turning off most notifications. You should decide when to engage with your apps, not the other way around. You could designate a specific place in your home for phone use to minimize distractions and remind yourself of your purpose. Discipline yourself not to make your phone the first thing you check in the morning. Instead, begin your day with scripture and prayer, immersing yourself in God’s word. This practice sets a positive example for your children and reinforces the importance of living in the moment. Discipline involves avoiding distractions from tasks you are not called to do, helping you stay focused on your God-given purpose.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

In this engaging discussion, Ray, a faith advocate, E.Z., an introspective speaker for new believers, Mark, who contrasts the emotional lives of believers and non-believers, and Oscar, emphasizing a solid faith foundation, tackle the complexities of emotions. They stress the importance of grounding feelings in God's truth rather than letting them dictate actions. The conversation highlights how many chase feelings amid cultural pressures, ultimately encouraging listeners to discern emotions as God-given tools to navigate faith and relationships.

It's becoming more common to hear about pastors falling into sexual immorality, which should grieve believers for their families and the false leadership that misled many. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar remind believers that every public failure stems from numerous private sins. God desires purity and will not allow His name to be marred, reflecting His jealousy and concern for His glory. He wants His bride to remain holy and will remove any stains. What if a pastor falls into sexual immorality? Pastors can fall from various sins, not just sexual immorality. God instructs us to respect our calls and take them seriously. The fall of a trusted pastor can impact people for a lifetime. Some excuse the pastor’s behavior out of loyalty, while others discredit them entirely. As Christians, we need to separate the virtue of theology from the virtue of the theologian. The good a fallen pastor did isn't negated by their sin. Our ultimate Shepherd is the Lord, and we should look to Jesus for guidance.Understanding God's gifts and callings to repentance is crucial. A pastor can be a great teacher but still fall into sin. Ray shares an experience where his pastor, despite being a great teacher, had an inappropriate relationship with his secretary. This pastor's fall caused chaos, highlighting that sins have widespread consequences, affecting the testimony of the gospel. To pastors on the brink of sin: humble yourself. The Bible should be more than a teaching tool. Honestly assess yourself and seek the Lord's guidance. Confess your sins and let Him cleanse you. Prioritize your relationship with the Lord and avoid identifying in your vocation. A pastor can be restored to the Lord and to his family, but restoration to the pulpit should not be made an idol.  Church leaders must uphold God’s standard. Christians are called to be blameless. Sexual sin can linger in minds for years, so leaders must be blameless before the Lord. How do we handle information about a leader’s sin? Sinning leaders need their sins exposed for church discipline. Be impartial and exhort your brother.  The guys express love for these brothers and desire their restoration. Pastoring is hard work and can lead to sin due to exhaustion. If you’ve fallen, remember you are God’s child, and He offers true spiritual freedom. Like David in Psalm 51, recognize your sin, repent, and accept the gift of freedom. If you are hiding sin, humble yourself. Confessing and forsaking your sin brings compassion and grace from the Lord and others. The Lord wants you to come to Him.Send us Fan MailThanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro