

Modern Mom Probs
Tara Clark, Bleav
Join Tara Clark, author and creator of Instagram’s Modern Mom Probs, as she and her guests tackle the modern parenting challenges you face every day. Each week, Tara and her guests discuss a modern mom problem in a conversation that is more like a chat with your best friends than just a typical podcast. She dives into topics such as maternal mental health, working mothers, social media use, co-parenting, and more. This funny, relatable “oh yeah, me too” show offers actionable solutions to today’s parenting problems.
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Jul 18, 2023 • 31min
What to Do When You Think Your Child has a Health or Behavior Problem with Sehreen Noor Ali
In this podcast episode, Tara welcomes Sehreen Noor Ali, co-founder of the Sleuth, a startup that gives parents better directions on early childhood health. They had an enlightening conversation about the challenges of modern motherhood and how technology can be a game-changer when determining if something is “up.”Sehreen shared her personal experience of struggling to find information and support for her daughter's medical journey, which led her to co-found Sleuth. Tara and Sehreen emphasize the importance of trusting one's instincts as a parent and the need for accurate information and emotional support. They also discuss the role of technology, such as AI, in providing helpful information to parents. Sehreen emphasizes the importance of managing anxiety, both for the child and the parent. She introduces us to tools like Sleuth's tracker that can help capture and understand what's happening in the moment, reducing anxiety by providing a clearer picture of what is normal and what may require attention. Tara and Sehreen acknowledge the overwhelming responsibilities that come with parenting a child with special needs. Serene also suggests finding ways to alleviate some of the stress, such as using telehealth services and resources like the Coping Cat books and online courses, like GoZen.The episode concludes with a discussion about respecting children's privacy online while simultaneously finding solace in social media communities. It's a tightrope walk, but with careful steps, it's achievable. Links:https://www.sehreen.com/https://hellosleuth.com/https://www.copingcatparents.com/https://gozen.com/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jul 11, 2023 • 36min
How to Improve Kids' Listening Skills and Strengthen Your Relationship with Andee Martineau
In this episode, Tara interviews Andee Martineau, mother of six, parenting coach, and creator of the Connect Method Parenting framework. They discuss parenting hacks and ways to improve kids' listening skills and strengthen the parent-child relationship. Andee shares her personal journey of struggling with parenting and how she developed her method. Tara shares a personal story on how and why she became a conscious parent.The Connect Method is applicable to children of all ages, from toddlers to teenagers. It focuses on building trust, respect, and a strong parent-child relationship as the foundation for effective parenting. It's never too late to start using this method, even if you have teenagers. Andee reassures that we can always change ourselves and the way we show up as parents. She even role-plays what to do when your child doesn’t want to hand over their device. You don’t want to miss this. At the end of the conversation, Tara and Andee emphasize the importance of connecting with children before correcting them and highlight the significance of curiosity, compassion, and self-forgiveness in parenting. If you are ready to level up your parenting and have your children listen the first time you ask, listen to this episode!Links:https://connectmethodparenting.com/ https://www.facebook.com/connectmethodhttps://www.instagram.com/andeemartineau/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jun 27, 2023 • 33min
Three Simple Steps To Managing Your Energy and Increasing Productivity with Heather Chauvin
This week, Tara welcomes Heather Chauvin, leadership coach, author of Dying To Be A Good Mother, and host of the popular podcast “Emotionally Uncomfortable.” Heather shares her personal story of beating cancer and how it led her to develop the concept of energetic time management. She emphasizes the importance of understanding our emotions and aligning our desires with our physical body. Heather also talks about the importance of valuing oneself and implementing boundaries to break free from living in survival mode.If you feel like you’re caught in survival mode, you should listen to this episode! Links:https://podcasts.apple.com/uy/podcast/emotionally-uncomfortable/id982980293https://www.amazon.com/Dying-Be-Good-Mother-Parenting/dp/1774580225Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jun 20, 2023 • 37min
Why You Don't Have to Be a Master Chef to Be a Good Parent with Jane Black and Liz Dunn
In this episode, Liz Dunn and Jane Black, co-hosts of the Pressure Cooker podcast, join Tara to discuss the pressure on parents, especially mothers, to cook everything from scratch and how it's not a practical expectation. They talk about the broken food system and the need for easier and healthier options for busy families. They discuss the need for collective solutions to make better quality convenience foods more accessible.They end the show by sharing personal anecdotes and go-to recipes for quick and easy meals that don't require an actual recipe. If you’ve ever had mom guilt about your family’s meals, you should listen to this episode. Links:https://www.pressurecooker.fm/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jun 13, 2023 • 29min
Trusting Your Mom Sense: Learning Life Lessons with Kanika Chadda Gupta
In this episode, Tara chats with Kanika Chadda Gupta, a former CNN journalist and host of the popular podcast That's Total Mom Sense. They discuss life lessons Kanika has learned from her podcast guests, including Rebecca Minkoff, Chelsea Clinton, Eve Rodsky, and Zibby Owens. Tara and Kanika dive into the concept of "mom sense" and the importance of trusting one's intuition in parenting. Kanika shares insider tips on conducting successful interviews and emphasizes the value of storytelling in learning life lessons. This episode is a testament to the power of supportive mom friendships and the importance of learning from others.If you’re looking for meaningful life lessons, this episode is for you!Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jun 6, 2023 • 26min
Retirement Planning For When You're Busy Living Your Life
On this week's episode, Tara is joined by Ryan Viktorin, Fidelity Investments Financial Consultant, on the topic of retirement planning for busy parents. Ryan shares her takeaways for retirement planning, including what is the best age to start, how to decide how much to set aside and how we can learn financial literacy. Ryan explains how we can save for retirement while also saving for everyday life needs, such as an emergency fund.If you've ever thought "I don't know where to begin planning for retirement," then this episode is for you! This episode is sponsored by Fidelity.Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

May 30, 2023 • 37min
The Perils of Living an Online Life with Jo Piazza
In this episode Tara brings on Jo Piazza, best-selling author and established podcaster, about the mental health implications of living an online life, particularly for content creators. The conversation also touches on the tragic recent passing of Heather Armstrong, the pioneer parenting writer and creator of Dooce.com. They discuss the impact of social media on mental health and the toxicity of the internet towards women and mother creators. Jo shares her experiences as the host of Under The Influence podcast interviewing creators who have been driven to the brink by the negativity they face online. They also discuss the vulnerability of mothers and the identity shift that comes with motherhood, which can make them more susceptible to online attacks. This raw conversation highlights the importance of discussing mental health in the context of living an online life and the need for better support for creators, particularly women and mothers.*This episode contains explicit words. Links:https://www.jopiazza.com/www.dooce.comSupport the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

May 16, 2023 • 33min
It Takes a Village: Exploring IVF, Adoption, and Surrogacy with Stephanie Levich
Infertility is a topic that is often surrounded by stigma and shame, leaving hopeful parents feeling isolated and alone. In this podcast episode, Tara interviews Stephanie Levich, the founder and president of Family Match Consulting, a fertility consulting firm. Over the course of her 20+ year career, Stephanie has helped over 3,000 parents on their path toward creating families.Tara and Stephanie discuss their personal experiences with infertility and how it has shaped their lives and careers. They also talk about the stigma surrounding infertility and the various options available for hopeful parents, including IVF, surrogacy, egg and sperm donation, and adoption. You won't want to miss Tara's juicy question about Stephanie's experience working with celeb clients. They wrap things up with a heartwarming chat about the importance of community and how sometimes it takes a village to make a baby.If you’re starting on the path to family building and don’t know where to begin, listen to this episode. Links:https://www.familymatchconsulting.com/https://www.fromthestartbook.com/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

May 9, 2023 • 38min
Support for NICU Parents: The Importance of Empathy and Hope with Jodi Klaristenfeld
Having a premature baby or a newborn who spends time in the NICU can be a traumatic and emotional experience for parents.In this week’s episode, Tara speaks with Jodi Klaristenfeld, founder of FLRRiSH, a platform that offers support and resources for parents of premature babies. Jodi shares her personal story of having a premature baby due to a rare and life-threatening form of preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome, and how she created FLRRiSH to help other NICU parents. Tara shares her own experience of being a NICU mom as well. The conversation highlights the need for more awareness and resources for parents of preemies, and the crucial role that support plays in their journey. Over 80% of NICU parents have some type of mental health issue within the first five years after their child's NICU stay, yet there is not enough support for parents in this situation. Jodi emphasizes that being a NICU parent is a beautiful experience because it allows for a unique bonding experience with your child, but it also comes with its challenges and emotional toll. She encourages parents to seek help for themselves and their children without shame and not to compare their child's progress to others.If this story resonates with you or if you want to learn more on how to support NICU parents, listen to this episode. Links:https://www.flrrish.com/https://instagram.com/flrrishhttps://facebook.com/flrrishhttps://linkedin.com/company/flrrish-inc/Support the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

May 2, 2023 • 34min
The Power of Connection: Finding Supportive Communities as a Mother
As a mother, it can often feel like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. From postpartum depression to raising neurodivergent children, the challenges can be overwhelming. But the good news is that you don't have to go through it alone. In this “Modern Mom Probs” podcast episode, Tara talks with two amazing women who have created strong supportive communities for mothers: Aubrey Grossen and Megan Champion. In this raw conversation, they emphasize the importance of finding a community and the power of connecting with others who understand your struggles. Aubrey shares her experience with postpartum depression and anxiety, which led her to create a group for moms to support each other. Megan shares her experience raising a neurodivergent child and feeling overwhelmed and isolated. She started the On the Hard Days podcast to share her story and connect with other moms raising neurodivergent kids. This led her to create Mothers Together, an online support community that matches moms with similar experiences to help them find their people. Both women also have strong communities on the Marco Polo video app. The conversation highlights the challenges that moms face in finding supportive communities. Megan points out the limitations of in-person support groups, which can be too formal, inconvenient, and infrequent for many moms. She emphasizes the importance of creating a space where moms can be vulnerable and share the real struggles of motherhood. Aubrey adds that it can be difficult for moms to prioritize self-care and seek out communities when they are already carrying a heavy mental load.If you’ve ever struggled to find “your people,” listen to this episode. Links:https://www.ontheharddays.com/podcasthttps://mothers-together.mn.co/https://www.aubreygrossen.com/https://www.anewyouagain.comSupport the show Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs Pick up my book Check out modernmomprobs Shout out to Citizens of Sound Leave a review Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.


