

The Lazy RPG Podcast - D&D and RPG News and GM Prep from Sly Flourish
mike@slyflourish.com
The Lazy RPG Talk Show and the Lazy GM Prep show. D&D news, commentary, spotlights, Q&A, and lazy GM prep with Mike Shea of Sly Flourish.
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Mar 17, 2021 • 19min
Game Pacing in D&D
Mike offers tips and tricks to maintain a good pace in your D&D game; one of the most important traits a DM can practice.
Show Notes
Books and Articles
Return of the Lazy Dungeon Master Chapter 24
Hamlet’s Hit Points by Robin Laws
Your Best Game Ever by Monte Cook Games
Kobold Guide to Plots and Campaigns by Kobold Press
Timing and Pacing Adventures on Sly Flourish
Improving Pacing on Sly Flourish

Mar 14, 2021 • 1h 2min
Frostmaiden Session 4: Holed Up
Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
Original Youtube Video
Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
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Mar 7, 2021 • 59min
Frostmaiden Session 3: The Mead Must Flow - Lazy DM Prep
Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
Original Youtube Video
Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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Mar 3, 2021 • 18min
Be on the Players' Side
Mike talks about the importance of being on the players' side when we run our D&D games.
Youtube video version
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Core principles
- Working *with* the players, not against them.
- You're not a competitor.
- The DM is an antenna to another world. We're the vehicle for storytelling.
- We're not the baddies. We're not our villains. We're not on the opposite side of the chess board.
- We're *fans* of the characters (Thanks Dungeon World!)
- The players understand about half of what's going on.
- The characters understand far more than the players do.
- The characters are smart and skilled in their roles. They have knowledge the characters do not.
- Fun doesn't mean just upward beats, it means risk and reward, upward and downward beats. Hard situations and hard meaningful decisions.
The DM's Job
- Build the situation around the story, not around the characters.
- Clarify that situation to the players. We're their eyes and ears.
- Help them meet their intent.
- Let the dice complicate things. They are the cold-hearted arbiter of the results of the situation.
- Balance acting true to the situation with the fun of the game; leaning towards fun and away from things that are *not* fun.
- The world and the story puts the characters in hard situations. The DM helps the characters make informed choices to navigate those situations.
Examples
- Warn them when they're walking into a potentially deadly situation.
- Assume characters that aren't involved in investigating a trap aren't putting themselves at risk.
- Let characters move that extra five feet if they can't quite get up to a monster.
- Ask the characters to make a group stealth check even if they don't ask for it if it makes sense that they'd be sneaking.
- Use characters passive scores to locate secret doors.
- Ask "are you sure" when they're doing something that clearly won't work or is clearly dangerous.
- Let players roll back spells cast if their character would know that it clearly wouldn't have worked. "A 1st level sleep spell won't be powerful enough to put them to sleep."
- Ask for the players intent and help them reach it.
- Offer deals: "You can make a DC 16 Intelligence (Arcana) check to channel energy from the unstable arcane node. On a success, enemies will have disadvantage on their saving throws against your spell. Fail and you'll take 2d10 force damage."
- Remind the players about advantageous terrain.
- Give players hints and clues about puzzles their characters would clearly understand.
- Remind players of things their characters would likely remember.
- Use skill checks and the characters' backgrounds go offer clues and tips.
- In complicated situations, offer strategic recommendations the players may not recognize.
- Remind players of impending dangers: "You have two rounds left before the orcish hoard falls upon you".
- Remind the players about items their characters possess that they may have forgotten.
- Offer suggestions for spell uses players might not remember or consider.
- Give characters inspiration or advantage when they take risky moves that move the story forward.
- Offer alternatives: "You can charge the first one and attack or you can ready your attack for the first one to charge up to you and stay close to your protecting paladin."
- Clarify impossibilities: "Hard as you might try, this door is beyond your capability to break down.
Work With Your Players
- D&D is a cooperative game and we're part of that cooperative.
- We have to know when to let bad things happen.
- Build trust with the players. Don't violate it. Be on their side. Avoid "gotcha"s.
- The world is cruel, you are not.

Feb 28, 2021 • 51min
Frostmaiden Session 2: The Mead Must Flow - Lazy DM Prep
Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
Original Youtube Video
Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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Feb 24, 2021 • 17min
Running Great D&D Combat
Discover how to elevate D&D combat with valuable strategies! Learn why a party of four makes for dynamic gameplay, and why lower-level characters can pack a punch. Explore theater of the mind for small skirmishes and inject rich narratives into larger conflicts. Find out how to engage players during off-turns and break free from traditional grid maps. Plus, tips on adjusting difficulty, creating compelling boss fights, and using cinematic advantages to keep everyone on their toes!

Feb 24, 2021 • 1h 8min
DM Deep Dive: Fairness vs. Being Fans of the Characters with Ryan Servis
Mike talks with Ryan Servis of 2C Gaming about the role of the DM and debating objectivity versus a bias towards the characters in our D&D games.
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Feb 21, 2021 • 58min
Frostmaiden Session 1: Foaming Mugs - Lazy DM Prep
Mike prepares for his latest session of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
Original Youtube Video
Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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Feb 14, 2021 • 55min
Rime of the Frostmaiden Session Zero - Lazy DM Prep
This week Mike prepares for his session zero of Icewind Dale, Rime of the Frostmaiden!
Original Youtube Video
Notion Frostmaiden Campaign Notebook
Rime of the Frostmaiden One-Page Campaign Guide
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Feb 7, 2021 • 43min
Eberron Campaign Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Mike's final thoughts on his homebrew Eberron campaign. This is a rebroadcast of Mike’s Lazy DM Prep show broadcast live on Twitch and reposted to YouTube and here in podcast form.
Original Youtube Video
Eberron Campaign Notebook
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