

The Angry Therapist Podcast
The Angry Therapist
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
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Jan 5, 2022 • 15min
What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?
In this episode, John tackles and discusses an important question everyone is asked: what do you want to be when you grow up?Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Jan 3, 2022 • 35min
It's Not Me, It's You: Letters to Our Exes
In this episode, John and Vanessa share letters that they've written to their partners of the past. They discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in their partnership today.
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Dec 31, 2021 • 20min
Year in Review
In this episode, John reviews 2021: what happened, the good, the bad, and the what he's learned along the way.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Dec 27, 2021 • 40min
It's Not Me, It's You: Equality in Partnerships
In this episode, John and Vanessa share some exciting news about a new project that they're working on together, and what it’s bringing up for them. They discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how they can cultivate a dynamic where they're true partners bringing their own unique things to the table.
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Dec 24, 2021 • 18min
I Think My Partner Is Having An Emotional Affair
Join John Kim, a marriage family therapist and best-selling author, as he tackles the complexities of emotional affairs. He delves into the fears and suspicions that arise when one suspects a partner may be unfaithful. With a focus on the importance of open communication, John shares insights on navigating trust issues while fostering love. He also discusses the delicate balance of confession and accountability, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries in relationships. Tune in for a dose of candid advice!

Dec 22, 2021 • 1h 10min
The New Generation of Crossfitters
In this one hour long episode, John hosts his first in-person podcast interview with fellow crossfitters to talk about fitness, and their stories. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Dec 17, 2021 • 16min
Nervous System vs Soul
In this episode, John talks about the difference between what your nervous system wants versus what your soul wants.Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Dec 15, 2021 • 19min
I Can't Stop Thinking About My Toxic Ex
In this episode, John gives advice and answers some listeners' questions including: "would you still be attracted to/be in love with your wife if she gained 100 pounds?" "Any tips on how to remain calm around toxic family during the holidays?" and "how do I heal from a toxic relationship and stop thinking about my toxic ex?"Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.
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Dec 13, 2021 • 28min
It's Not Me, It's You: Needs Are a Two-Way Street
An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let John and Vanessa explain.
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Dec 6, 2021 • 32min
It's Not Me, It's You: Our Top 3 Relationship Killers
John and Vanessa dive into the top three relationship killers and how they affect partnerships. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries and highlight the emotional shifts that can arise from everyday interactions. Financial habits like frugality versus impulsiveness are humorously examined, revealing potential sources of tension. The conversation also emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and open communication to foster growth. Finally, they stress that embracing imperfections can enhance emotional safety and commitment in relationships.


