

The Angry Therapist Podcast
The Angry Therapist
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
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Feb 7, 2025 • 18min
RE-RELEASE: What To Look For in a Partner
Today, John shares his insights on what to look for in a partner, emphasizing the importance of 'ability' in building a meaningful relationship. He discusses the significance of creating a safe space for differences, building trust, the necessity of evolving together through life's challenges, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 5, 2025 • 49min
The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 3): The New Masculine Frame
Today, John and Lair explore the evolving concept of masculinity, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability, emotional processing, and the need for male friendships. They also discuss the challenges men face in expressing emotions and the societal pressures that often lead to unhealthy competition, isolation, and more. Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 3, 2025 • 44min
How Justin & Emily Baldoni Saved Us
Today, John shares his personal experience of losing his home to a devastating fire. He reflects on the significance of home, not just as a physical space, but as a representation of his journey and the memories created within its walls. He also expresses deep gratitude for the support he received from friends and strangers alike, highlighting the strength of human connection in the face of adversity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 31, 2025 • 18min
RE-RELEASE: Stop Spinning In Negative Thoughts
Today, John talks about how daily life things (such as traffic or getting a tooth pulled) can set you down a negative thought spiral. He discusses the importance of gratitude, the power of intentional thinking in everyday challenges, and how to reframing negative thoughts. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 29, 2025 • 55min
Are You Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Today, John talks with Yue and Julie, hosts of the podcast 'Datable' and authors of the book 'How to Be Datable,’ about the complexities of modern dating, how cultural differences come into play, and the evolution of relationships in the digital age. They also dive into evolving definitions of love, the challenges of healthy relationships, share practical advice for becoming more dateable, and much more. Learn more about Yue and Julie and their new book How to Be Datable HEREListen to their podcast Dateable HERE or anywhere you get your podcasts.Follow Yue and Julie on Instagram @dateablepodcast and dateablepodcast.comYou can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 27, 2025 • 24min
RE-RELEASE: What You Should Be Doing If You're Going Through a Break Up
Today, John answers a listener's question: what should I be doing if I'm going through a break up I can't get over? He discusses the significance of looking inward, building a life beyond relationships, the value of social connections, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 24, 2025 • 18min
RE-RELEASE: How You Know You're Already There
Today, John shares his personal journey of transformation and the lessons he has learned along the way. He emphasizes the importance of trusting one's body and encourages listeners to find calm and fulfillment in the present moment, rather than chasing after specific desires.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 22, 2025 • 24min
RE-RELEASE: The Four Stages of a Relationship
Today, John talks about the four stages of a relationship: the honeymoon stage, discomfort, swimming past the breakers, and growth and healing. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these stages to navigate relationships more effectively and highlights the significance of self-awareness and personal growth within the context of love and connection.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 20, 2025 • 51min
RE-RELEASE: Nothing is Promised with Dené Logan
Today, John interviews good friend, therapist, and mindfulness coach, Dené Logan. They talk about how Dene moved through her divorce, moving through anxiety, understanding our addictive patterns, communicating more effectively in our relationships, and much more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jan 17, 2025 • 29min
RE-RELEASE: Why We Run In Relationships
Today, John and Vanessa discuss the complexities of relationships, focusing on communication, attachment styles, and the importance of maintaining individuality. They touch on the dynamics of 'runners' and 'grabbers' in relationships, the significance of co-regulation, and give practical tips for sustaining a healthy partnership.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices


