The Angry Therapist Podcast

Lair Torrent, author of "The Practice of Love," joins to discuss themes of emotional vulnerability and male loneliness. They explore what it means to be 'unfinished' and the importance of deep connections in a modern context. Lair shares insights on the evolving art of writing and how humor can aid in processing emotions. The conversation also touches on navigating grief while maintaining authenticity, emphasizing that true strength lies in vulnerability. Personal stories highlight the value of recognizing accomplishments and developing meaningful friendships.

Today, John and Vanessa speak with the best selling author of Codependent No More, Melody Beattie. They define codependency, its roots in childhood experiences, practical steps for recovery, emphasizing the significance of understanding one's feelings and setting boundaries, and more.Melody Beattie is the best selling author of Codependent No More. Since its first publication 36 years ago, it has helped heal over seven million readers and continues to sell 100,000+ copies a year. Updated for the first time, with a new chapter on trauma and anxiety, and Melody’s personal story revealed for the first time, this modern classic holds the key to understanding codependency and unlocking its hold on your life.You can find her book HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tpday, John shares a transformative experience from a men’s group gathering at Justin and Emily Baldoni’s home. Using the striking metaphor of “burning down the house,” John explores what it means to shed past identities, embrace new beginnings, and lean into the discomfort of true emotional growth.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his journey of finding happiness at 51 after years of struggle and self-discovery. He reflects on his life experiences, including his marriage, fatherhood, and the loss of his home to a fire which became a catalyst for writing his first memoir.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the themes of navigating life's uncertainties, the power of awakening through adversity, and the importance of finding calm amidst chaos. He also emphasizes the inevitability of suffering, the necessity of embracing uncertainty as a path to spiritual growth, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the tension between risk and regret, challenging listeners to rethink their fear of failure– because in the long run, it's regret that haunts us. He encourages taking small but meaningful steps toward the life we truly want and shares insights on how to break free from the illusion of safety.Find out more about John’s six-week intensive writing course HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his reflections on moving to Costa Rica with his family. He discusses the challenges and joys of adapting to a new environment, travels and lessons learned, and the importance of community, and the value of embracing new experiences and the beauty of simplicity.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John dives into the complexities of parental influence on adult relationships, particularly focusing on 'mommy issues' in men. He reflects on his own experiences with his parents, discussing how the emotional dynamics with his mother and father shaped his understanding of love, connection, attachment, and more. Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John and Lair discuss the implications of vulnerability for men, the experience of living in Costa Rica, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity and shame. They talk about how men often struggle with expressing their emotions and the societal pressures that contribute to this, and emphasize the need for compassion towards oneself and others to foster deeper connections.Find out more about Lair HEREFollow Lair on Instagram HEREBuy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HEREOrder John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the allure of chaotic relationships, the transition to stability, and the need for growth in love. He also discusses the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our past experiences, how they shape our romantic lives, and more.Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREJump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices