Become New with John Ortberg

What keeps us stuck in unchanging habits? The podcast delves into how beliefs shape our identity, often confusing habits for who we are. With insights from psychology and supportive communities like Alcoholics Anonymous, it highlights the need for faith in our capacity to change. The power of community in fostering belief is emphasized, as is the importance of loving actions to replace unhelpful defaults. Discover who in your life encourages your journey towards transformation!

Dive into a world where light conquers darkness! Discover how everyday moments can reveal God's presence. John Ortberg shares insights from Dallas Willard, emphasizing a God-bathed reality filled with joy. Hear a humorous bedtime story that showcases ordinary happiness as evidence of divine light. Plus, reflect on Paul's resilience amid hardship and the call to embrace joy in daily life. Remember, God's light is always closer than you think, urging you to seek goodness and believe in hope!

This reflection challenges the notion that faith should comfort us, instead proposing it often disturbs. Prophets throughout history, like Margery Kempe, use their sensitivity to expose injustice and suffering. Kempe’s tears became a powerful form of truth-telling, illustrating how prophets feel the world's pain deeply. Listeners are prompted to examine their own conscience, recognize small prophetic moments in daily life, and embrace the unsettling yet vital role of prophets in our spiritual journey.

Discover the liberating wisdom of not taking yourself too seriously. Explore Rule #62 from Alcoholics Anonymous and how humor is a vital spiritual discipline. Hear delightful anecdotes from church history that highlight the dangers of pride and the joy found in humility. John Ortberg emphasizes the ripple effect of laughter, illustrating how joy is deeply rooted in faith. From the lightheartedness of Biblical figures to actionable advice for embracing imperfections, this conversation invites you to be human and let joy flourish.

Explore the overlooked virtue of prudence, framed as a courageous commitment to reality rather than wishful thinking. Discover how wisdom, grounded in clear-eyed decision-making, helps navigate life's challenges. Delve into Abraham Lincoln's political prudence, illustrating the consequences of wisdom lacking action. Uncover the biblical imagery of 'the stars fighting in their courses' and how it relates to God's work in our circumstances. Walk away with practical tips for being more prudent in everyday situations.

Forgiveness can be complex and time-consuming. John Ortberg unveils a transformative two-chair exercise that encourages empathy and facilitates the forgiveness process. By picturing someone who hurt you and engaging in a dialogue from both perspectives, you can work through resentment. This method teaches that forgiveness is a choice, not just a feeling, while emphasizing the importance of boundaries. The practice culminates in an emotional commitment to forgive, aiming to liberate you from bitterness and foster compassion.

Discover what every person truly desires in relationships! Dive into five vital needs that foster connection: attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, and allowance. Hear how these elements play out in our everyday lives, from friendships to workplaces. John Ortberg highlights the profound impact of noticing those often overlooked, the hunger for belonging, and the power of gratitude. Explore how granting freedom can cultivate safe spaces for growth. Reflect on how you can make someone feel seen and valued today!

What if laughter is the sound of heaven? This discussion reveals joy as a spiritual strength, intertwined with humor and playfulness. Listeners are encouraged to embrace joy through fun activities, emphasizing its health benefits and its power to boost creativity. The podcast highlights that real joy coexists with suffering and deepens relationships. From Dante's vision of heaven's laughter to insights about baby laughter, this exploration shows that joy is a divine gift, making the case for a more playful, joyful approach to life.

Our faces reveal our inner lives, expressing everything from joy to anxiety. John Ortberg delves into how the idea of God becoming flesh shapes our understanding of His presence. By examining biblical figures, he highlights how seeing Jesus allows us to perceive the Father. The discussion emphasizes that rather than merely managing our expressions, we should let inner transformation shine through. Ultimately, the message is about recognizing God's presence in others and fostering a deeper friendship with Him.

Every January, countless individuals set ambitious resolutions, yet most falter by mid-month. The secret isn’t willpower, but a compelling vision of life without indulgences. Drawing on insights from Dallas Willard, it's revealed that intentions fall short without a clearer perspective. By embracing three daily affirmations—recognizing God's presence, trusting His abilities, and celebrating His goodness—listeners can foster lasting change and spiritual growth.