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Is your skin care making you fat? Hormone disruptors hide in a lot of beauty products, which isn't pretty at all.  Eating and exercise are obvious ways to tackle the belly fat that hormone imbalance can cause. Sleep and stress are understandable. Are you sure about your skincare routine and those products you're putting on your skin by 9am most mornings? Abby Jean from Annmarie Skincare is my guest in this episode.  Whether you're a minimalist or you love your girly products you're going to want to listen to the pearls Abby shared inside this episode. From fine lines to breakouts, a #youstillgotitgirl can have a number of needs and we talk about them all!  Abby is a Licensed Esthetician, as well as Wholesale Account Manager for Annmarie Skin Care. Spoiler alert, Annmarie Skin care generously give a full size trio of products to our Flipping 50TV participants and I do get a small commission on products you buy with my link. I only share products I use and love with you though and I just want to be transparent about it.  For women that often involves many products during the course of one day - already a dozen in the hour getting ready in the morning! On average a woman uses 12-14 skin care products per day and up to 500 chemicals. Even if an ingredient is listed last on the label if you’re consuming it frequently it adds up to a negative cumulative effect on your body and health.  Parabens Fragrance Phthalates Oxybenzone How to Improve Your Skin Care Start by flipping your most often used items or those that have the most coverage: lotion fragrance cleanser make up Skin care questions we answer in this episode: What are some harmful ingredients found in personal care products that can affect our hormones? How do you care for skin that is suddenly both blemish-prone again and is experiencing signs of aging? Oils are feared by many people with blemish-prone skin – and I have to admit I was one of them - why does Annmarie Skin Care have a primary focus on using oils for moisturizing the skin? I want all our listeners to get outdoors as much as possible, to bike, walk, swim… and all those elements- can wreak havoc! How do you calm the look of temporary redness or blotchiness that is caused by harsh elements, exercise, or even chlorine exposure?  The answer to this question is: Cold compresses – a drop or two of calming essential oils (chamomile, geranium, lavender). Heads up Flipping 50, listener, this is a really common question I'm asked. So if it's you, too, you're not alone! Is there anything special you suggest for sun protection? Are there things to be cautious of or to seek? Abby answers: look for zinc oxide as an ingredient, and reapply hourly if you’re in the sun, water, or sweating. Because there are so many different skin needs Annmarie Skin Care offers different products to choose from:  Anti-aging facial oil (Debra's favorite) Normal Oily Sensitive (I thought I would need this: they're all pretty gentle!)  Want to try something new to give your skin a boost and your hormone-balance a head start?  Get your free gift (with shipping and handling) by choosing from the anti-aging, normal, oily, or sensitive skin options at: https://www.annmariegianni.com/debraatkinson/skindetoxsamples You're going to love it and your skin.  Resources mentioned on the show: https://www.thinkdirtyapp.com/ You can download right to your phone so when you’re shopping you know what you’re getting. https://www.ewg.org/skindeep/  You can enter a product to see it’s score and how it stacks up. Got younger girls in the family? Share these apps and get them started right! Please leave a rating In iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-flipping-50-show/id903871206?mt=2    

Are you too struggling with hot flashes, night sweats, or menopause weight gain? Have you been told by a doctor, trainer, or nutritionist that it’s just age and a phase? My guest to day is Denise Stegall, Healthy Living Coach. Denise has years of experience working in restaurants focused on nutrition and menu creation. She’s attended classed at Le Cordon Bleu in Paris and the New Orleans Cooking Experience and most recently the professional plant-based cooking course through Rouxbe.com. The core of Denise’s health coaching is based on three principles: Eat Real Food, Make Good Choices, and Be Accountable. Denise is almost Flipping 50 … here to share some nuggets and her own story… which is the reason she and I met. ..she reached out about a new project she had with this passion burning behind it… to help women struggling to find the answers for themselves … potentially also frustrated by the lack of real answers even in the overwhelming options – what I frequently call “infobesity.” Denise created the Have It All Summit: Optimize Your Health, Find Balance and Love the Life You Live to help other women juggling it all and doing it all start enjoying it all.  Some pieces of Denise's story: She started getting hot flashes at age 37. She was told by a much older, male GYN that that my age it “just a phase”. Looked on line and there was so much information, misinformation and lots of pill, potions, cream: You name it. Fast forward 10 years and stiil on the pill, still taking Herbal Equilibrium, hot flashes getting worse, unexplained weight gain. Even with my knowledge and education I am often at a loss as to what I should do. So much more misinformation, “ pseudo experts and products that claim they have the answer.  Let’s talk a little about the summit you’re doing and what led to the birth of that project? Questions we answer: What is the “Have It All” Summit? What is its purpose? Why is this series important to you? Who do are some of the experts on the summit. What do you discuss wit them The tag line “Optimize Your Health, Find Balance and Love the Life You Live may seem out of reach to some of our listeners … hopefully not the Flipping 50 followers! Why do you think it’s possible? Link for Have It All Summit http://haveitallsummit.com/datkinson  I'd love to hear from you! And thanks for your rating in iTunes.  Have you had a doctor told you to exercise more and eat less? Or a trainer told you to accept that you’re getting older, or possibly accuse you of eating more than you’re saying or not doing the exercise between sessions you said you are? Have you had a nutritionist tell you that based on your calories in and calories out you should be losing weight? Register here: http://haveitallsummit.com/datkinson  Some of the guests on the summit include: Katie Mae of Plantzst.com Christie Miller of EatTrainWin.com LuAnn Buechler of http://luannb.com

Are you motivated? Do you think it takes discipline and willpower to get fit after 50? Do you think you simply don't have it? Do you have clarity around these two things:  1. what exactly you want/want to change 2. how to get it Women notoriously have a challenge stopping to put themselves and their own wishes first. They say they want to but when they really have the chance it's hard! You've been ignoring or stifling what you want for too long!  Then, even if you do resurrect those personal desires and have a vision of what you'd love life to look and feel like, do you have a clear path to get it?  With infobesity and information overwhelm, it's a challenge to know who to follow and what path to take. If you know, like, and trust someone who can help you're way ahead! I'm honored if I'm one of those people. And yes, I can help you sort through real and real for you right now at midlife in the midst of hormones and stress.  Then there are two other things to consider.  How much energy do you have to carry out the tasks that if you find clarity on what to do, have to actually be done? You may not have the right chemistry to do it. You may need to commit to nutrition or sleep in order to take action. Action takers have energy, even before they begin to make changes.  But it's just a matter of habits. No one is born with good habits. They acquire them one by one and so can you. How urgent or necessary is this for you? Do you think it's really important or matters that you show up 100% for yourself, for your family or for work or someone else? If you don't you're going to have a hard time.  If you want more clarity on what to do to burn fat after 50, I invite you to my free online webinar Fit-U: https://www.flippingfifty.com/fit-u-webinar I'll teach you: how fat burning is unique later in life what hormones and stress have to do with it how you can lose fat at any age what increases your fat storage how old science has been replaced and what you think you're doing right may be hurting your fat loss Please leave a rating in iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-flipping-50-show/id903871206?mt=2  

Better Exercise Results Does Not Mean More Exercise   Wouldn’t we all like better exercise results? Traditionally that meant more. More time, more repetitions, more sets, more speed, more something. The question isn’t whether you’re exercising or not. It’s whether what you’re doing is really making a difference.  It’s so much like running a business that I can’t help but compare business and fitness. The question for a business owner isn’t whether your busy or not, it’s whether you’re spending your time in the best activities. Are you prioritizing your time optimally? I’ve observed so many times – in myself – and in other managers and fitness professionals a lot of busy work. There are people who will work constantly and they’re working hard. The problem is that they don’t see clearly what their time should be spent doing to make them more productive, and not just busy. I don’t believe in time management and… I’m betting you’re the same. By the time you reach midlife you realize that time doesn’t bow down to our management of it. We can only manage the energy we have. We can manage the focus and ability to concentrate. When I work with women entrepreneurs or admins we don’t focus on the list of things that has to get done. We focus on the biggest priority items – those that get move the needle the most. When we’ve got them defined then it’s a matter of defining the best time for focus, concentration, and uninterrupted attention on those tasks.  Any of us can be busy. We can be well intentioned. But if we were just in action without a plan, if you weren’t the boss of your own business or department you’d probably be gone soon, right? What if someone were paying you based on outcome and transformation? And at the end of the month, or quarter you hadn’t made any changes in the bottom line? (and maybe you’re exhausted!) Sometimes that’s acceptable if… there is some evidence of prerequisite or actions that had to happen first before the big outcome in place. So let’s look at your fitness activities and outcomes as if you were running the business of you. (you are) What transformation do you want? If I’m the business owner or an investor in a business, I’m concerned with the profit not just the total numbers. Now, all that said, let’s make sure we’re on the same page. I’m going to go off on a little tangent here.… we’re only talking about businesses that have an important mission statement. There’s a need and there’s demand and the business is serving people in a way that changes the quality of life. That’s the goal of Flipping 50, so I want to be totally transparent here, I am running a business, and yes it’s because I have purpose and a mission that gets me up every day. I also have a family and responsibilities to them and a life to live that I love. Bottom line is important. Profit margin is more important. I can’t be spending just as much as I’m making. That just isn’t sustainable. The more I make, the more good I can do with it by hiring other women, by supporting the fitness industry with conference presentations that remove me from being available in my business. Where do you come in? If I can transition back out of this tangent… Well, first if you’re in a business, or starting one, you need to embrace the power of the good you can do if you’re doing well and wise in your business. Second, your body is your business. Your energy and well being are your profit. The confidence you gain if you look and feel your best are your profit. Women – in general – not all, have a hard time with this profit. Just like money isn’t bad when it’s used for good, feeling good – looking good- spending time to care for yourself isn’t bad if it’s used for good!  Weight though is not your real bottom line. Your body composition and your energy, ability to focus, concentrate, and physically do all the things you both need and want to do are a better profit margin. Signs and symptoms of good health now and for your future include the quality and quantity of your sleep your digestion – a lack of gas, bloating, constipation, diarrhea ability to handle stress energy to do all you want to do lack of cravings a good appetite and good satiety glowing skin muscle tone and definition you’re at your ideal size and weight lack of medications no addictions – sugar, caffeine, exercise, alcohol  Take the quiz… of healthy habits of women who’ve flipped 50 successfully… it’s on the home page at flippingfifty.com It’s simple pdf… not interactive and electronic… but for you to do now… then take again after a few weeks when you’ve begun to focus on those items  The reason you do something may not be at all the reason you think you do something. What are you really hungry for? Emotional eating… Instead of a real desire for sugar Craving social engagement … Instead of addicted to some particular food Recreating a memory…. Instead of really enjoying a particular food Exercise… Weight training with biggest muscle groups: Legs Chest muscles Back muscles Compound exercises: Squats Lunges Ball bridges and ball hamstring curls Instead of isolated exercises Machine weights are good – but not all of them Seated chest press Seated row Lat pulldown Squat or leg press Free weights – demonstrated in all of the Flipping 50 videos Chest Press Bent Over Row Bent Arm Pullover Squats Lunges What’s not going to help your metabolism, or help you go sleeveless – Going right for the arm exercises if you’re not eating well, sleeping well, and first doing major muscle group exercises  So at the end of this episode, I want to challenge you. to be sure you’re comfortable with your own health profit margin to spend time only where it moves the needle most for you right now… and if you don’t know what that is… it’s time to find out. If you’re exhausted and can’t lose weight… it may be that you need a special program temporarily targeting your adrenals and getting you back on your feet  If you want to change your body composition to lose belly fat… you don’t want to lose weight… did you know that most of the very things we do to lose weight backfire and put more weight (more fat weight) on us.  So I want you to go to the quiz first and foremost! Take that and determine if you need to make changes to put the business of your body first. Then if you’re a fast –action taker… and you’re listening to this before Feb 1 2018 you can still get the After 50 fitness formula for women, my signature course and the bonus Bone Health mini course for a savings of $50 …. The rate on this combo goes up Feb 1- and believe me it’s worth every penny of the new rate… but my mission is to help as many women as possible.  If you’re not able to do private coaching- which would be the most amazing direct way to your goals and your highest priority exercise, exercise nutrition, and lifestyle habits, then this is the next best thing. I’ll put a link to the course in the show notes. I’ll also add a link about coaching in the notes so if it is right for you – you’re a busy business woman who wants to focus on breaking through old habits and understand the best way to reach fitness goals after 50 .. you can see how it works, who I am, and apply for a coaching spot.  Resources: The Quiz The After 50 Fitness Formula for Women Course

In this episode my guest is your body, sharing information about fat loss. I really am lazy and I don’t like carrying this extra fat around any more than you do It’s not what you burn during exercise that matters for fat loss When you exercise more and eat less I get confused When I’m confused I’m going to protect you by storing fat When I need to shed weight under stress I shed muscle, fat, and water I can’t function very well without consuming fat I definitely can’t function without water so one of the things I have to shut down right away is your metabolism Those processed chemicals confuse me and prevent fat loss Every diet trick you ever learned about losing weight was wrong (like eat for volume – not for nutrients, like calories in calories out is what matters, like if you’re hungry it means you’re losing weight, like salads are best for weight loss, like cutting out carbs will result in rapid fat loss, like the scale showing weight loss means success) I am so resilient that I can get by on nearly no food for days and still not lose fat It’s true I lose muscle with age which makes me fatter even if I don’t gain fat … but only if you don’t do anything to prevent it: lift weights twice a week, eat more protein for two first steps – that will help a lot! I really don’t process protein very well so keep it coming The less active I am the more you need protein I prefer to move every day all day instead of exercising so hard for an hour – I really can’t do both so if you exhaust me in the gym it probably will backfire on you and your fat loss goals Hours of weight training don’t really make me any more fit or more lean than reaching fatigue with a few sets in a few minutes It cracks me up when you think you can tone your arms after not paying attention to my major muscle groups for years If I don’t tell you I’m hungry beginning maybe at 3 or more hours after and for sure around 4-5 hours after my last meal, something’s wrong When I’m hungry, feed me good food When I’m thirsty you waited too long to give me pure unfiltered water When I’m tired I need to rest better I love a challenge and respond by getting stronger, faster, and having more endurance… if you give me the food and rest I need to do it Any of those other models of aging you see that have put on fat with age is just because they didn’t have the right information… If you start to take better care of me right now no matter how old I am I will respond positively with more energy, better mood, better sleep and ultimately with fat loss so we can have a good time.  If you’re struggling with fat loss listeners to this episode can take advantage of Fit-U at 50% off the regular rate right now during the Flip Your New Year special at flippingfifty.com/fit-u After 50, you have less wiggle room. Before fat loss can happen you need to lose old thoughts about dieting and exercise. You may need to lose toxins stored in your fat, and reduce inflammation. I walk you through all of it and how to exercise optimally for fat loss not just tired and sore; how to spare muscles loss, and feel better so you can sleep well, be more resilient, and have more stable energy. When you start caring for yourself you get on the path to permanent weight loss with lifestyle changes not a diet. Foods you used to think are “healthy” may be causing your fat storage and preventing your fat burning. While you’ll give up a handful of them temporarily… you’ll have the opportunity to experience four different recipe books full of foods that are easy to prepare, simple to find, and taste wonderful. Plus, I’ll be there every week live with you responding to questions in the private Facebook group – and during the week jumping in daily to respond to questions.  Weight and fat loss results are unique to every individual going through the program. Decades-long habits and thoughts that have increased inflammation and toxic storage won’t change overnight but you will experience more energy, more clear thinking, and better sleep (if you need to improve it) within weeks. You also will resist. Change is hard! I don’t ignore that – I coach you through it so that you can experience fat loss.  Let’s talk specifics so you can start some fat loss enhancing habits and stop some fat loss inhibiting habits today! 5 FLIPS That Boost fat loss:  Matcha (before exercise = most, and any time) Intervals 1-2 times a week Weight training 2 times a week to fatigue More activity all day Appropriate Exercise nutrition (not eating before low and slow/carb before intervals)  6 FLIPS That Stop fat storage: Hydrate Sleep quality, then quantity if you’re short on need Sugar Elimination – natural and artificial Avoid wine/alcohol on an empty stomach (and temporarily altogether) Eat carbs in the right amount at the right time Reduce your overall stress load (sauna, toxic exposure, exercise, unprocessed diet) Resources and Links from today’s show: GET A FREE COPY of HOT, NOT BOTHERED in your inbox in minutes: flippingfifty.com/hotnotbothered Secure your Fit-U registration for 50% off at flippingfifty.com/fit-u in this LIMITED TIME OFFER. Please leave a rating in iTunes! Thank you!

Kim Acedo, MS, CHWC works exclusively with women in midlife who have been putting their health and self-care on the back burner for most of their lives and now in their midlife years say “It’s MY turn to take care of ME!” Through her virtual coaching programs, Kim empowers her clients to build confidence, resilience, hope, self-motivation, and make lasting changes to their health and well‐being. She partners with her clients to get “unstuck” and discover goals and strategies based on their core values and motivators in order to bring about the healthy lifestyle they desire. Kim has a Master’s degree in Kinesiology with an emphasis in Exercise Science and is a Certified Health & Wellness Coach through Wellcoaches School of Coaching. Kim and I had a conversation and we invite you eavesdrop on us. We have a lot in common and some distinguishing factors as well. Kim, similar to me, was a personal trainer for 15 years (most of her clients were women in midlife) before becoming a virtual health and self-care coach. She doesn't prescribe exercise to her current clients. In fact, she doesn't prescribe anything to her clients like she did when she was a trainer (meal plans, workouts, etc.). Unlike me, who actively coaches private clients above and below the shoulders. We both have roots in the physical and yet recognize that the above the shoulders conditioning…what I call the most important 6-inches to get in shape – is the most important part and start of change. Kim and I compare and contrast our personal habits. We’re giving a behind-the-scenes peek at coaches. This is wake-up-to-bedtime with two women’s wellness coaches. What’s a healthy work day-in-the-life, and what are our challenges? We dive into habits we love and hate for ourselves, and how we have adopted them or work we know we still personally have to do. We both readily acknowledge that knowing science of fitness, and the psychology of change, we’re still both very much in the boat with you. What’s working: Boundaries on most productive/creative time Rituals and habits that create structure = freedom What’s not: Not scheduling exercise One-more-thing syndrome instead of a hard stop Self-worth by accomplishments and productivity How about you? What’s a must for you? What’s off limits/out of bounds? When does exercise happen for you? Is that ideal? What’s your morning routine? What’s your nighttime routine? Connect with Kim: Website:  www.TransformationWellnessForWomen.com Social media:  Facebook page: www.facebook.com/TransformationWellnessForWomen Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/HealthAndSelfCareForWomenInMidlife Thank you for leaving a rating (and subscribe!) in iTunes! If you’d like to be a guest on Flipping 50 as either an expert or to get coaching contact Debra. debra@voiceforfitness.com  

Diets about food are abundant! What about detoxing from all the chemicals and pollutants that confuse your hormones, slow your metabolism, and make you feel like it's your fault? You're exercising after all and eating "healthy" but nothing, nada, no progress? Well, never fear, it doesn't take less food, more exercise, in fact quite the opposite though it does take paying attention to some other things.  The hot topics this time of year are health and fitness. Most often there's a buzz about a diet of some kind. You most likely found me and are here too find answers to fitness after 50. The right nutrition for right now, not a diet is a part of the answer for that. Since I’m a believer I’m preaching to the choir with this Flipping 50 community, I just wanted to post a gentle reminder that toxins are everywhere, not just in our food and water. If we don’t weed them out, like a garden, the fitness you’re working for may not have a chance to flower. Here are six areas you can focus on during this health-focused time of year (I’m not including people – that’s up to you!) that either contribute to your health or to your stress. Pantry Raid Tossing expired items Organizing new recipes Stocking up on every day dry goods and travel items My favorite skin care items come in sample sizes and travel-friendly sizes. I love two lines for travel: AnnMarie Skincare and The Spa Dr  -  they both help me fight off the dry, stale air in hotels, airplanes, airports and deal with changes in climate. Supplement stock up (mentioned on the show: Multivitamin, Omega 3with D3, Probiotic, Digestive Enzyme, Magnesium) Protein restock (for smoothies and beyond – still time to get this success kit for 20% off this month) I didn’t mention this on the episode - If you’re really going all-in on this toxin-free diet, have your water tested. Know what your heavy metal levels are and whether you have fluoride or other toxins that can damage your hormone balance. The six other areas of a toxin-free diet lifestyle I mentioned on this super short episode that I suggest you tackle one a week are: A Tech Cleanse Set boundaries on being online vs. being productive Set purpose: research, writing, posting, community Cautious contact – if it’s on your body, in your pocket, or up to your ear, it’s too close. Overnight success – unplug electronics surrounding your head. Remove them from the bedroom completely is even better. Midnight to midnight cleanse once a week – it may cause withdrawals but you can do it! This one will really be reminiscent of a diet in the true sense! A toxin-free diet is really tough when it comes to tech. We’re addicted.  Skin Products Toss old products – just like the kitchen you can have expired products here that just need to go! Stock up on Plant-based oils and toxin-free skin care products  Cover your home, gym bag, and travel needs so it’s easy to be ready and less stressed if you frequently pick up and go to get ready somewhere else. Closest Cleaning Donate items you haven’t worn in two years Store items you haven’t worn in a year Shop post-holiday sales: PJs, exercise clothes, outerwear if you need them  Clothing Care Spare the wear and tear. Minimize the water use by truly evaluating a need to wash clothes. Clean cleaning products. Dryer care – toss your toxic dryer sheets full of fragrance and move to something better. Cleaning and Air Care Essential oil blends rather than your fragranced candles and room scents. Fragrance and chemical-free environmentally friendly cleaning products or essential oil blends for that too! Diffuser/humidifier for a dry winter air solution Share your favorite ways to clean and purify. Using essential oils? Making your own soaps and lotions?  Please leave rating in iTunes! We really appreciate you!

Wake up your workout and your results with these four simple ways to increase the intensity. You can change speed or weight, properly, depending on your body and goals.  If you're a beginner or restarting your workout, set your foundation again first. Then you can look at adding one or more of these in a couple weeks. Women over 50 lifting weights are setting themselves up for a higher metabolism and optimal hormone balance. Ultimately, that's stronger, fitter, faster.  Weight training workouts can change the shape of your body like aerobic exercise cannot. You can change proportions and add definition in ways not possible with aerobic only workouts.  You can get a lot more done in a lot less time with a lot less injury risk too.  I share four key ways to change your workout results.  1. Add Power Once you've been lifting slow and controlled for a foundation building that guarantees your joints, ligaments, and connective tissue are ready for more, try reducing your weight slightly and adding a little speed on the lift. Stay in control and always lower with care. 2. Lift Heavier If you've let yourself settle into a routine with the same weights and same reps chances are you're ready for heavier weight to get better results. Choose this one for joints you have no problems with and leave your injury-prone joints alone.  3. Slow Down The more time your muscles are under tension, the more results you'll get. So if #2 and increasing the weight isn't possible, or makes you feel vulnerable, try slowing down. Take 3-4 seconds to lift instead of 1-2. Take 6-8 seconds to lower instead of 3-4.  Consider adding time to the end points too. A tempo can go like this: lift 4- hold 2- lower 4- hold 2. That will make the same weight feel much heavier.  4. Rest Longer Take longer rest between exercises that tax the same muscle groups. A little more recovery has been shown to improve muscle adaptations. That might mean more definition a little faster.  Resources: Fit-U https://www.flippingfifty.com/fit-u

Lorna McLaren, bestselling author of Before it Hits the Fan:Quick Communication Tips to Help You Resolve Conflict and Reduce Stress shares secrets for business that can help you reduce holiday stress before it starts too. She’s a corporate trainer and international speaker on effective communication, conflict resolution, and stress reduction. That is the perfect trilogy for emotionally charged holidays or any time of year if you’re a woman in midlife more susceptible to the negative effects of stress thanks to hormones. It’s no secret that over 80 diseases are directly tied to stress. We’re taught to exercise, eat healthy, and yet we aren’t given extensive tools to deal with stress. Our environment may have conditioned us to respond certain ways that are dysfunctional. If it’s your norm you don’t even realize that you’re doing it. Leave this episode with a new awareness of what triggers you, how you might trigger others, and with a bag of tools to protect you and them! How listening can help you: Reduce year-end work-related stress Reduce family conflicts at holiday gatherings Reduce your interval argument over treats, sweets, and cocktails Learn how to reduce your stress in the heat of the moment Lorna shares how positive words can influence your brain and your emotions dramatically. Interestingly enough some words you might think of as positive really can give us a negative emotional reaction. Time to check in with yourself on this one! One of the examples she gives reveals just how much we devalue self-care. Join this conversation by listening. Change years of conditioning by creating awareness of where you’re sabotaging yourself or possibly others unintentionally. Are you the victim of stress at the office or causing stress, or both? Find out! Sample chapter titles from Lorna’s book: Conflict Happens It’s Smart to Know When You’re Stupid Stop and Stall The B.I.T.C.H Perspective Focus your F.E.A.R. People Rarely Argue with their Own Information Just do Your Best and Flush the Rest Get Lorna’s Book: www.BeforeItHitsTheFan.com  In addition to your free digital copy of Before It Hits the Fan you’ll also get bonus links to reduce stress Interested in having Lorna for a content-rich keynote or for corporate training? www.LornaMcLaren.com

Dr. Deb Butler utilizes a blend of brain science, nutrition, physiology, life coaching and life lessons, teaching REAL weight loss — lasting weight loss — starts from the inside out. Inside your BRAIN. At 50 years old, when she started her latest round of dieting at Weight Watchers (so she could lose the same 30 pounds for the 100th time), she had one big NEW problem... the weight wasn’t coming off like it used to. She was depressed and not sleeping. Her doctor said, “Welcome to menopause.” She KNEW there had to be a better way. Connect with Dr. Deb Butler at her podcast, Thinner Peace in Menopause and Beyond, drdebbutler.com/podcast Dr. Butler’s special offer for Flipping 50 listeners is a 30-minute: drdebbutler.com/workwithme add Flipping 50 in the subject line Other links mentioned in this episode: Dexter Yeats podcast  Favorite Quotes from this episode:  “we love depending on things outside ourselves for information about ourselves” Are you counting calories, points, and steps in hopes of lasting weight loss? Then comparing them to some superficial bar? You’ll want to listen to our discussion of where the real answers for lasting weight loss are. “we think….” Do you have beliefs about lasting weight loss that you’ve had for so long that you’ve come to think of them as truths? What if you doubted those thoughts and reconsidered? “We realize what works for us and what doesn’t work for us” Why is now the perfect time to focus on you and finally have lasting weight loss? You’ve collected data for decades. Shouldn’t it be worth something?  “we have to be fed up” Lasting weight loss happens. But you have to be ready for change. You have to be more uncomfortable where you are than going through the discomfort of change.  “The sooner you connect into your body…” Are you avoiding mirrors, buying clothes so you fade into the background waiting until you have lasting weight loss? Instead of disconnecting and disowning what if you stepped into it and all the emotions that come with it right now?